Posted by Julia Kozachenko

Posted by Julia Kozachenko

HOW TO SURVIVE A CRISIS IN RELATIONSHIP

March 18, 2019 by

If you understand that now your relationship is not going through the best period, you should think about how to save them.

HOW TO SURVIVE A CRISIS IN RELATIONSHIP

You should not act alone, but with your lady. It should be understood that any couple is facing a crisis in relations. It’s just that someone is making efforts and working on themselves, but someone does not want to strain and part. What can you do to keep the relationship?

1. BE HONEST

If you are extremely honest, you will show that you trust her. And do not be afraid to open your most vulnerable parts. Tell her everything you think about, and what feelings you are experiencing at the moment. This will make a huge impact on your future relationship. You do not have to pick words, because the main requirement for such a conversation is sincerity. Do not blame your lady for anything, but only talk about your feelings and emotions that you are trampling at the moment when she is doing something wrong.

2. WORK TOGETHER

Very many couples broke up because it was more important for them to defend their case, and not to admit mistakes and come together to a compromise. It is necessary to understand, if you are in a relationship, you will make certain concessions. If you want to be together, you need to work out a common strategy and follow it.

3. MAKE A DECISION

This is one of the most difficult steps. You will need to make such a decision, with which you will agree. You should find such a way out of the situation that would suit you and your lady at the same time. The two of you should understand that to find a compromise is not to give up your own opinion. This is to find a mutually beneficial solution.

4. LEARN TO FORGIVE

It is necessary to sincerely forgive a woman for what she did to you. For all the negative emotions that you experienced, for all quarrels and scandals. For all the unpleasant words she told you. It’s clear that you cannot just forget all this. And do not take such as the norm. You just have to let go of all the emotions that this situation causes in you and forgive your girlfriend. Yes, she made a mistake. But you both have already learned from this lesson. Do not get hung up, move on.

5. MOVE ON

If you have already determined what exactly your problem was, you just need to act according to your plan. This must be a mutual decision. You must do everything synchronously. If only one person tries, nothing will work out.

6. SET THE BOUNDARIES

Of course, you no longer hold evil against each other. But you need to discuss what you will not allow anymore. For example, you are terribly annoying when she raises her voice at you. Do not be afraid to tell her about it openly and emphasize that you will not tolerate this anymore.

7. WHO WANTS TO CHANGE?

If the goal is that you no longer want to be nervous. And you dream that you are left alone, then you are not ready to change. You will simply, as before, control your lady and her behavior. And for relationships this will not be progress. This will only exacerbate all your problems.

8. FIND TIME FOR COMMUNICATION

Do you remember your first meetings when you just started dating? How did you get involved in each other, how you did not want anything else, but how to be close? It is very important to learn how to keep this atmosphere after a certain time spent together. Try to communicate as much as possible with her, ask about her life, work, hobbies. Show that you are really interested. Thus, you will establish new boundaries in your relations, which will try not to pass. When is it worth trying to maintain a relationship? A long relationship means that you really love each other. You just need to accept the fact that a crisis in a relationship is normal. It happens even in couples that seem ideal at first sight. If you understand that this relationship no longer brings you pleasure, do not continue them. Honestly talk to the girl, tell me about everything that does not suit you. Sometimes parting means making the right decision.

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HOW TO AVOID SCANDALS

March 10, 2019 by


 

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The most difficult period of any, even very strong, the relationship is conflict. As it’s known, that a peak and a very unsightly part of the conflict is the scandal, in which both sides pass to individuals and can fall into the heat of discussion to direct insults aimed at each other

Of course, both men and women bring arguments in their defense during the conflict, but these arguments do not always work. The fact is that women and men assess the arguments of the opposite side in different ways. We have some useful tips on how to avoid escalating disputes and quarrels in scandals.

  1. LOOKING IN THE EYES

Most women and men do not want to settle disputes through passive communication like SMS, Viber or any social networks. People are ready to tell each other absolutely everything, even what they do not really think behind the back. Direct communication, in the opinion of the majority, is much more conducive to the reign of peace and tranquility.

  1. DO NOT SAY THESE PHRASES

There are certain phrases, the utterance of which can easily turn any conflict into a scandal. And although these phrases themselves are not offensive or so, and women and men in the majority claim that the use of certain words can lead them out of balance. For the majority, these the phrases are: “You do not understand!” And “Calm down!”.

  1. AVOID SENSITIVE TOPICS

This is the most difficult of all that can be. Here we mean, not the themes as they are, but the charges associated with these topics. Women are not able to bear when a partner accuses them of squandering or in poor housekeeping. Think before you speak.

  1. JOINT WORK ON CONFLICT RESOLUTION

Anyway, the conflict cannot last forever. Sooner or later it needs to be finished. Men feel that they are more inclined than women to compromise during disagreements, however, women believe that twice as often as men are able to admit they are wrong.

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INTERNATIONAL WOMENS DAY – MARCH 8TH

March 6, 2019 by


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March 8th is International Women’s Day and in many countries, this is referred to as Women’s Day. It is very important to the ladies in Ukraine.

It is similar to Mothers Day that most of us in the Western world are very familiar with except that on this day it is customary for men to give the women in their lives – friends, mothers, wives, girlfriends, daughters, colleagues, etc. – flowers and small gifts.

It is celebrated annually as the UN International Day for Women’s Rights and International Peace. Historically, it has emerged as a day of solidarity of women workers in the struggle for equal rights and emancipation.

Perhaps you may wish to send her a gift our range www.ukrainebridesagency.com/Gifts and really make her feel special.

We are pleased to be able to offer you this and hope that it helps in your blossoming relationship.

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5 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO ON A FIRST DATE

March 1, 2019 by


Who hasn’t got a bad date story nowadays? Going on a first date with a woman you really like can be a nerve-racking experience. You might second guess your every move or wonder what she’s really thinking about you. While every woman is different, there are a few things that should always be avoided on a first date.

Here are the top 5 things men should never do on a first date.

1.  INSIST ON PICKING HER UP AT HOME

It’s great that you want to pick up your date at her home, you probably think it’s the gentlemanly thing to do, and while your intentions might be in the right place, insisting on coming to a woman’s home on the first date can really turn her off before the date has even started! In this day and age, many women prefer to meet their date at an agreed upon public location. When setting up your date, offer to swing by and pick her up, but if she resists, drop it and suggest meeting up at a restaurant instead.

2. SHOW UP LATE

No matter if you’re picking her up or meeting her somewhere, it’s important to be on time! Bonus points if you’re 3-5 minutes early! If something happens outside of your control to delay you -you’re stuck in massive traffic, or you got called into a work meeting- let her know right away with a quick and sincere text message. She’ll be much more understanding if you keep her in the loop and apologize profusely than if you just keep her waiting, wondering if you’re standing her up or not.

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3. PUT NO EFFORT INTO YOUR APPEARANCE

Many men complain that they don’t know how to dress for a date or consider jeans and a slightly wrinkled t-shirt “nice”. When you reach into your closet blindly, grabbing whatever is on the floor and throw it on, don’t bother shaving or doing your hair and skip the deodorant, a woman is going to assume you don’t care very much about impressing her. It’s not about having the best personal style or model good looks, it’s about the effort you put into your appearance before a date.

4. DRINK TOO MUCH

To have a few drinks on a first date is totally fine, even encouraged…it helps the conversation flow a bit more freely! However, this doesn’t mean that you should throw back six beers and a few shots of tequila. Pace yourself and remain in control of yourself at all times.

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5. TALK ABOUT SEX

…even if you’re just joking! I get it, it’s the first date and you’re attracted to her, and playfully want her to know. Talking about sexual things or constantly throwing innuendos into your conversation can backfire quickly and get you demoted from “cute” to “creep” in an instant.

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5 WAYS TO GET OVER FIRST DATE NERVES

February 17, 2019 by


Feeling anxious about an upcoming first date? The thought of a first date can be very stressful. Don’t worry, first date nerves are completely normal.

Here are 5 tips Ways to Get Over First Date Nerves.

1. CALM DOWN BEFORE THE DATE

 Going into a date feeling negative or too stressed won’t make for a good date. To help with this negativity, try to get yourself into a positive mood before going on the date. Do something before your date that makes you happy and increases your mood.

2. PLAN A SIMPLE DATE

If you tend to get first date nerves, it’s fine to keep things simple. Drinking coffee, getting drinks, or meeting for dinner are all perfect first date ideas and they take a bit of the pressure off.

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3. BE CONFIDENT

Going on a date is a mutual decision, which means the other person wants to go on a date with you. This should give you a bit of confidence to help with your nerves. Try to find ways to increase your confidence as you prepare for your date so you can be your best self.

 4. AVOID BEING IN UNREALISTIC WORLD.

If every date went perfectly, people wouldn’t need to date multiple people or feel worried. The reality is that some first dates are awkward, bad, or boring. That’s normal. Don’t let everything ride on this one date, and it may help lessen your nervousness.

5. FOCUS ON YOUR DATE NOT ON YOURSELF.

And listen to what they’re saying. The more time you spend getting to know your date, the less time you’ll have to worry about why you’re nervous or what could go wrong.

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JAMES (THE USA) – SVETLANA (UKRAINE) – JANUARY 2019

January 7, 2019 by


Here we come into 2019 with great news and a new happy couple. 2018 brought us the greatest achievements and results so that January cheers us up as well. And it is just the beginning.

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Please, congratulate us with our new lovely couple of James and Svetlana.

Svetlana’s and James’s love story

Their story is about the mutual interest at first sight! James was the only man with whom Svetlana communicated on ukrainebridesagency.com

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She could not speak English a year ago and she used the interpreter’s help at the beginning. Then she attended English courses and private lessons. She practices English daily for her man. Svetlana has improved her knowledge, can converse with James.

Their relationship started about a year ago with nice letters and then video chats. Communication is the key and the bridge between people whilst they are on the distance! There is more than 10,000 km between Pasadena and Melitopol but that is not the obstacle for real feelings at all! James visited Ukraine 5 times. Svetlana introduced James to her family and friends. He said that it was an unforgettable experience for him with tasty food, arm-wrestling, pranks, dances and lots of fun. He fell in love with Svetlana and Ukraine! Now the couple is waiting for Svetlana’s K1 visa and documents for her son to travel to America.

We wish love for this beautiful couple, happiness and long years together!

May Lord bless this beautiful couple with love, happiness and long years together of life together.

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ANDREW (NORTHERN IRELAND – IRINA (UKRAINE) – DECEMBER 2018

December 25, 2018 by


Beautiful and amazing December is full of surprises. A bird brought us a new story about a fantastic lovely couple of Andrew and Irina.
We first started chatting on October 22nd, 2017. First with letters then video chats. When we started communication I realized that  Irina was a charming and funny lady. As we communicated more I got to know what she had done, I knew she was a competent and capable woman at work and a kind-hearted caring woman at home. I wanted to meet her in person.

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Their meetings

We met on December 14th, 2017 in Kiev at the restaurant. However, I was a little bit late but she was not upset and greeted me with a big smile. I liked her brown eyes and friendly smile. We had a marvelous evening together and decided to meet again. Our meeting proved my thoughts that she was a fantastic lady.
Nex year in late January I returned to Kiev to meet Irina again. Irina was very kind and met me at the airport. It was so nice to hold her hand again.

On my second trip, we went to Kryvyi Rih where I met Irina’s family. They were so kind to me. I see how loving and caring Irina was with her niece and nephew and I thought I she could be a wonderful mother. By the end of this trip, I was deeply in love with Irina and thought if she came to Northern Ireland and liked it, my home and family would be happy us to get married soon.
Nevertheless, At the start of March, we met in Krakow. There we rented an apartment and enjoyed each other’s company. We cooked together, joked and discussed plans for the future. Irina visited Northern Ireland in May. Her visit brought sunshine. Furthermore, she gave me a lot of fascinating advise towards the house. With the help of the lady of my heart a flame of love settled in my house forever. I fell in love with her once again when she talked to my family. Irina was so cute and intelligent. I decided to ask her to marry me. Fortunately, she agreed and it made me happy!

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Here is the story of this wonderful couple. We believe it will inspire you to follow the voice in your heart and build a successful relationship. Be happy and believe in a blessing.

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BLAIR (HAMILTON, NEW ZEALAND) – NOVEMBER 2018

December 12, 2018 by


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Last month, Blair from New Zealand called into our office to say hello again; Blair had previously visited us in 2017 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qysjm1F9550

Blair visited Kiev, Poltava, Zaporozhye, and Nikolaev. He thoroughly enjoyed his trip and his travel was problem free as he used our travel services to support him throughout his trip.

BLAIR’S ADVICE TO THE OTHER MEMBERS

Most relevant to our members, Blair recommends that men are serious about their search. He points out it is important, to be honest with your partner about everything; honesty is a priority. A couple should discuss the smallest things and make sure they understand each other. Do not play games if you are looking for a wife. You must remain patient and take time into consideration.

Blair said a number of times that chemistry is something that makes your meeting magnificent. You should not rush and consider all the pros and cons. You should go through the process carefully, with meticulous planning.

Above all, Blair recommends men to use the service of interpreters when they are going on meetings with the ladies. He thinks interpreters are “brilliant”.

BLAIR’S IMPRESSION ABOUT UKRAINE

Ukraine is totally different from his country he comes from. He likes the Ukraine people and found them all to be very cheerful to him.

We thank Blair for his feedback and advice and recommend that all members take note of his comments.

We were delighted to see Blair again and look forward to his next visit. He is appreciative of our 24/7 support – he finds us professional.

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TIMOTHY (THE USA) – ELENA (UKRAINE), DECEMBER 2018

December 10, 2018 by


Welcome to the amazing world of the lovely couples of Ukraine Brides Agency. We are extremely excited to share with you our latest news! Please, greet our new happy couple, Timothy and Elena. They are definitely full of the joys of spring right now.

TIMOTHY (THE USA) - ELENA (UKRAINE), DECEMBER 2018

Our agency has helped so many people to find true love and create strong families, every story is special and makes us believe in miracles, but this one is more than unique. It’s about an accidental case which at first seemed to be a real disaster, but turned into true happiness!

TIMOTHY (THE USA) - ELENA (UKRAINE), DECEMBER 2018

Our client Timothy always felt his bride was somewhere in a beautiful country Ukraine. Elena became his sense of life. She used to be his interpreter here in Ukraine and their communication led to a great friendship. Friendship showed them the very way of trust and belief.

THE WAY TO SUCCESS

Both of them overcame some difficulties in their previous relationships. After a long and difficult year, with both leaning on each other through difficult relationships they both decided to end their destructive affairs and admitted to each other that they had always felt a lot more for each other than they were willing to originally admit.

Their feelings quickly and sincerely matured. After a few months of dating, he proposed to her and recently they had a marriage ceremony. They are still waiting to be legally married in The United States with the help of a K1 Visa, but they have already dedicated themselves to each other for the rest of their lives

Life is so unpredictable, and while frightening at times, that’s why it’s so beautiful!

 

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3 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF AFTER 3 MONTHS OF DATING

November 30, 2018 by


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Everyone wants to find a good partner and be happy. We all are looking for something that will give us energy and inspiration, and motivation! What is that? Yes, that is LOVE. Only this feeling completes us as human beings. While dating you realize how important this person is, how much time you are ready to spend with this person and do you want to see him/her tomorrow again.

You never know the last time you will see a place or a person. That is why it is so important to be careful with your feelings, emotions, and behavior. Every person is unique and every relationship seems to be a separate planet with two bellowed hearts. A perfect relationship does not exist and this is what is called R E A L I T Y. Be ready for 3 questions to ask yourself after 3 months of dating.

Question 1: Does what do make with your partner make you happy?

This question involves too many other little questions. Such like “Do you go out a lot? Do you go out to drink some coffee and listen to live music while walking and holding each other hands?”

They may seem trivial to you at first, but they will have a great significance when you start to think about the other two questions later on. Furthermore, you also have to ask what you are doing when you are on your own.

Question 2: How do you feel about you and your partner?

Once you know what your current lifestyle is like, the next step is to question your feelings for your partner. Here you start asking yourself what are the aspects that you like about your partner. What are the aspects that you do not like about your partner? What are the sensations that you feel when you are or are not around your other half? To avoid over-thinking about the connection and getting into a mild anxiety attack, you just need to establish what ground you are standing on, as well, as the ground that your partner is on too.

Question 3: What do you in your relationship in the next three months?

Here you should realize whether you indeed want to continue the relationship with this person or not. Even if you feel like you want to spend a big part of your life with your partner, it is important that you have a discussion with him or her about the romance and relationship.

In our blog you may find more interesting information. Our UBA Team would like to suggest you to read this interesting article and learn more dating advice.

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