Dating advice

Dating advice

TOP TOOLS FOR SHOWING ATTENTION TO YOUR SPOUSE

April 25, 2019 by

Men and women are very different. Women defined themselves as ‘Relationship Beings’. But men are on the other hand. Well, the thing here is that you have a ‘Relationship Being’ in the most important relationship of her life with someone who is ‘Not’. So now there is one question on your mind “how do they survive?”. Let’s take a look.

The two of them have “jobs” in the relationship. Woman is more naturally oriented towards relationships, so she is the navigator. The man’s “job” is to make his wife happy. When you make your lady happy, she multiplies that happiness, and gives it back to you tenfold. So now you might have the question “How do you make a woman happy? How can you show attention?”.

RESPECT HER

Respect her thoughts, feelings, opinions, priorities, values, work, wants, and time as much as you want her to respect yours. Most men quickly discount their wives’ thoughts, feelings, opinions, priorities, values, needs, and time when these things in any way conflict with what they want. For most men, it’s not on purpose because it’s how they would treat another man. But, remember, your wife feels disrespected when you continually push your agenda ahead of hers.

HONOR HER NEED FOR EMOTIONAL SECURITY

Women value emotional security more than financial security. Women need to feel safe to express themselves. Most of women are emotional beings and need to know that their husbands respect this about them.

SPEND QUALITY TIME TOGETHER

Her idea of quality time might be totally different than yours, so you need to be sure and do things that she really enjoys doing, not just things that she does with you to please you.

ALWAYS SHOW LOVE AND AFFECTION

Tell your wife that you love her every single day. No matter what. Take the time to not only tell your wife you love her, but tell her why you love and appreciate her so much. Remind her why she’s special.

We hope this information will help you to build even stronger relationship with your lady.

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DAVID (THE USA) – ALIONA (UKRAINE) – APRIL 2019

April 15, 2019 by

UBA Team is tremendously happy to announce a new happy couple. Aliona and David fell in love at first sight, at the first meeting. What a coincidence! They felt so comfortable with each other. However, the relationship is a hard daily job which requires a lot of efforts and patience.

How did it start?

After 15 minutes, at the meeting, the consultant who accompanied them decided that he was unnecessary in their love atmosphere. Aliona immediately in the same evening expressed words of gratitude and happiness that fate brought them together. Moreover, despite the large distance, the difference in time, they are so identical, they feel each other at a glance, David is very warm and anxiously caring for Aliona. However, a couple, a day later in Kiev, they went to meet Alina’s children and mother, the children were delighted with David, spoke English, and most importantly, they wished them happiness, because what could be more important than their mother’s smile and full of love eyes. It was tremendously difficult for Aliona to let David go back to the USA. Nevertheless, the couple is preparing all the documents for moving to America. More relevant, David will soon take Alena and her children to America.

What a fantastic couple. You may watch the video of their love story and also wish them all the best. We believe 2019 brings more amazing happy stories.

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WHAT TO TEXT A GIRL

April 13, 2019 by

Lots of men struggle with what to text a lady and how to communicate effectively with her. Moreover, most of men have no idea what to do after they get a phone number of a lady.

Just think about it. You really only have that first interaction with a lady, the time you actually get her number, to give her your best impression. If you correspond with the letters on dating sites you have to learn how to grab her attention. However, to text a lady you like, you just have to learn how to flirt without coming on too strong.

Here are some essential tips you better learn to have a great conversation with your lady:

  1. Be original. Try to send your lady a text that not just any man could send. Do not just say hi or send her a weird emoticon. Find a way to make her smile or to pick her interest. Do whatever you have to do to make her think: “Hey, there is something special about this guy. I want to keep talking to him”. Here are some ways to be original:
    – Charm her with your wit.
    – Make her laugh.
    – Tell her something she has not heard before.
  2. Ask a good question. A question is a great place to start because then your woman will know that you are waiting for an answer.
    – Ask about her day or her week.
    – Make sure the question is something she can easily answer.
    – Keep it simple. Just one short sentence can communicate a large message.
  3. Watch your grammar. You should make sure to watch your spelling and punctuation before you text the lady.
  4. Do not try too hard. If you are trying too hard when you are first texting a woman. She will be able to tell right away. Remember to be yourself and do not go out of your way to say something that does not even sound like you just because you think it will impress her.
  5. Keep her attention. Be engaging. Show your woman that you are capable of keeping up a fun conversation over the phone. Your goal in texting the woman you like is giving her just a sliver of your personality and make her want more.

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DATE NIGHT IDEAS

April 3, 2019 by

Have you ever been stumped about what to do on a date night? Well, we have your back. We prepared some good date night ideas for you and your lady.

However, there are two main questions that you need to answer:

1. What are you going to do on your date?

2. Where are you going to go?

So here are some ideas for your date night:

1. You can invite your lady to your place. You can cook for her a nice dinner and have a movie marathon together.

2. Go to the beach or to the park. You can rent bikes and have a little ride through the park. Also, you can crab a bottle of fine wine and snacks, and have a picnic there, watching the sunset.

3. Visit a museum or some art gallery that you both show interest in. Both of you will have a lot talk about.

4. Go and check out a new part of the city. Consequently, maybe there are some parts of the city that you do not explore very often. So you and your lady might take a little walk and explore new areas.

5. You can go to a new café or restaurant and grab a coffee there. Or you can invite your lady to a fancy restaurant and have a nice dinner there. This date will be rather romantic.

6. You can invite your lady to some game, for example a Baseball game.

7. You can go to the water park or you can play ping pong together. You can choose many other activities to do. Maybe you and the lady are both interested in sports or etc.

Nevertheless, the most important is for you to keep it casual, so that it is fun both for you.

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HOW TO SURVIVE A CRISIS IN RELATIONSHIP

March 18, 2019 by

If you understand that now your relationship is not going through the best period, you should think about how to save them.

HOW TO SURVIVE A CRISIS IN RELATIONSHIP

You should not act alone, but with your lady. It should be understood that any couple is facing a crisis in relations. It’s just that someone is making efforts and working on themselves, but someone does not want to strain and part. What can you do to keep the relationship?

1. BE HONEST

If you are extremely honest, you will show that you trust her. And do not be afraid to open your most vulnerable parts. Tell her everything you think about, and what feelings you are experiencing at the moment. This will make a huge impact on your future relationship. You do not have to pick words, because the main requirement for such a conversation is sincerity. Do not blame your lady for anything, but only talk about your feelings and emotions that you are trampling at the moment when she is doing something wrong.

2. WORK TOGETHER

Very many couples broke up because it was more important for them to defend their case, and not to admit mistakes and come together to a compromise. It is necessary to understand, if you are in a relationship, you will make certain concessions. If you want to be together, you need to work out a common strategy and follow it.

3. MAKE A DECISION

This is one of the most difficult steps. You will need to make such a decision, with which you will agree. You should find such a way out of the situation that would suit you and your lady at the same time. The two of you should understand that to find a compromise is not to give up your own opinion. This is to find a mutually beneficial solution.

4. LEARN TO FORGIVE

It is necessary to sincerely forgive a woman for what she did to you. For all the negative emotions that you experienced, for all quarrels and scandals. For all the unpleasant words she told you. It’s clear that you cannot just forget all this. And do not take such as the norm. You just have to let go of all the emotions that this situation causes in you and forgive your girlfriend. Yes, she made a mistake. But you both have already learned from this lesson. Do not get hung up, move on.

5. MOVE ON

If you have already determined what exactly your problem was, you just need to act according to your plan. This must be a mutual decision. You must do everything synchronously. If only one person tries, nothing will work out.

6. SET THE BOUNDARIES

Of course, you no longer hold evil against each other. But you need to discuss what you will not allow anymore. For example, you are terribly annoying when she raises her voice at you. Do not be afraid to tell her about it openly and emphasize that you will not tolerate this anymore.

7. WHO WANTS TO CHANGE?

If the goal is that you no longer want to be nervous. And you dream that you are left alone, then you are not ready to change. You will simply, as before, control your lady and her behavior. And for relationships this will not be progress. This will only exacerbate all your problems.

8. FIND TIME FOR COMMUNICATION

Do you remember your first meetings when you just started dating? How did you get involved in each other, how you did not want anything else, but how to be close? It is very important to learn how to keep this atmosphere after a certain time spent together. Try to communicate as much as possible with her, ask about her life, work, hobbies. Show that you are really interested. Thus, you will establish new boundaries in your relations, which will try not to pass. When is it worth trying to maintain a relationship? A long relationship means that you really love each other. You just need to accept the fact that a crisis in a relationship is normal. It happens even in couples that seem ideal at first sight. If you understand that this relationship no longer brings you pleasure, do not continue them. Honestly talk to the girl, tell me about everything that does not suit you. Sometimes parting means making the right decision.

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HOW TO AVOID SCANDALS

March 10, 2019 by


 

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The most difficult period of any, even very strong, the relationship is conflict. As it’s known, that a peak and a very unsightly part of the conflict is the scandal, in which both sides pass to individuals and can fall into the heat of discussion to direct insults aimed at each other

Of course, both men and women bring arguments in their defense during the conflict, but these arguments do not always work. The fact is that women and men assess the arguments of the opposite side in different ways. We have some useful tips on how to avoid escalating disputes and quarrels in scandals.

  1. LOOKING IN THE EYES

Most women and men do not want to settle disputes through passive communication like SMS, Viber or any social networks. People are ready to tell each other absolutely everything, even what they do not really think behind the back. Direct communication, in the opinion of the majority, is much more conducive to the reign of peace and tranquility.

  1. DO NOT SAY THESE PHRASES

There are certain phrases, the utterance of which can easily turn any conflict into a scandal. And although these phrases themselves are not offensive or so, and women and men in the majority claim that the use of certain words can lead them out of balance. For the majority, these the phrases are: “You do not understand!” And “Calm down!”.

  1. AVOID SENSITIVE TOPICS

This is the most difficult of all that can be. Here we mean, not the themes as they are, but the charges associated with these topics. Women are not able to bear when a partner accuses them of squandering or in poor housekeeping. Think before you speak.

  1. JOINT WORK ON CONFLICT RESOLUTION

Anyway, the conflict cannot last forever. Sooner or later it needs to be finished. Men feel that they are more inclined than women to compromise during disagreements, however, women believe that twice as often as men are able to admit they are wrong.

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5 WAYS TO GET OVER FIRST DATE NERVES

February 17, 2019 by


Feeling anxious about an upcoming first date? The thought of a first date can be very stressful. Don’t worry, first date nerves are completely normal.

Here are 5 tips Ways to Get Over First Date Nerves.

1. CALM DOWN BEFORE THE DATE

 Going into a date feeling negative or too stressed won’t make for a good date. To help with this negativity, try to get yourself into a positive mood before going on the date. Do something before your date that makes you happy and increases your mood.

2. PLAN A SIMPLE DATE

If you tend to get first date nerves, it’s fine to keep things simple. Drinking coffee, getting drinks, or meeting for dinner are all perfect first date ideas and they take a bit of the pressure off.

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3. BE CONFIDENT

Going on a date is a mutual decision, which means the other person wants to go on a date with you. This should give you a bit of confidence to help with your nerves. Try to find ways to increase your confidence as you prepare for your date so you can be your best self.

 4. AVOID BEING IN UNREALISTIC WORLD.

If every date went perfectly, people wouldn’t need to date multiple people or feel worried. The reality is that some first dates are awkward, bad, or boring. That’s normal. Don’t let everything ride on this one date, and it may help lessen your nervousness.

5. FOCUS ON YOUR DATE NOT ON YOURSELF.

And listen to what they’re saying. The more time you spend getting to know your date, the less time you’ll have to worry about why you’re nervous or what could go wrong.

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HOW TO BE A GOOD BOYFRIEND

October 24, 2018 by


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All of you want to be the best man for your lady.

So we collected some tips to help you to become the best boyfriend you can be.

  1. The first thing to do is to figure out what you want in a girlfriend and relationship. It’s important to think about it. Usually you want to find someone who enjoys the same things you do. But at the same time you can’t make someone like what you like, and it isn’t going to make you a good boyfriend. And it’s totally OK to have different likes and hobbies. You can learn from each other, and it can give you some time to do your activity on your own.
  2. The next thing to do is to learn how to communicate effectively. The ability to communicate effectively is a skill that needs to be practiced. Many guys struggle with what to say and how to say it and this is totally OK. But if you really shy and don’t practice, you’re never going to get good at it. Talking about how you feel is never a weakness and is relevant a huge strength. Girls love it when you can express what you are thinking or feeling.
  3. You should keep it simple. Things like carrying her bag, doing some little work at home, or even taking out the trash. These small gestures constantly reaffirm your feelings for her. Ask her how her day was. Offer to help her with something. Small things you do for her will keep gently fanning the flame of love.
  4. You should be a master of compromises. Compromise is one thing a lot of couples struggle with. Sometimes, if you want to be a good boyfriend, ask her what she’d love to do, to watch or etc., if she could pick anything, and be ready to say yes to whatever it is. You’ll surprise her by agreeing and become the best boyfriend in the world.
  5. The next advice is to respect her online presence. Once you guys are dating, it’s totally cool to check out and interact with all of her social media accounts. Don’t comment on everything she posts. Don’t challenge or argue with any of her contacts. What you should do is make sure you like some things she posts, especially the stuff she’s proud of.
  6. And last but not least is to understand that time away from each other is a good thing. Many times in that first flush of love, you want to spend every minute with the object of your lady. But a bit later, it’s important to have some time away from each other. Spending time apart is a great way to miss each other, develop positive feelings of looking forward to seeing each other again, and allows you to talk to each other about what you did when you were apart.

Learning how to be, a good boyfriend, eventually fiancé, and then husband is a lifelong journey.

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Things to Consider Before Choosing Your Life Partner

April 26, 2018 by
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Choosing a life partner is one of the most important decisions you will make in your life. The person you choose is the one whom you will share everything with for the rest of your life – the happy and sad, the ups and downs, the good and the bad. Being with the person you’re meant to be with is a fulfilling experience. But knowing how to pick the right one is easier said than done. Here’s a helpful guide you can use to increase your chances of finding a lifetime of love with the right life partner.

Know yourself better

The first step to finding your partner for life begins with having an accurate view of yourself. To determine the perfect person for you, you must know exactly who you are and what you want. Know what you like and what you don’t like. Know what you’re looking for in a partner. Think about the kind of person you want to spend your whole life with. By honestly examining yourself, it will be easier for you to know if a person is the one for you when you meet them.

Define your life goals

It’s crucial for any person to find someone who will share the same goals and aspirations in life as them. It’s going to be a lot better when you get to be with someone who is on the same page as you when it comes to what you want in your married life. So, it’s imperative you think about what your goals and values are. Think about your deal breakers when it comes to life plans. Are you someone who is serious about building a family and having kids? Where do you want to live? What kind of lifestyle do you want to have?

Don’t rush into making a decision

Many people make the mistake of jumping into a marriage or relationship because of the wrong reasons. Some make the wrong choice out of fear of being alone, and some are just not thinking about it at all. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being single. In fact, it’s much better to be single than to be with the wrong person.

If you can’t find a life partner for you at the moment, there’s no need to rush. You will regret it more than you know.  Don’t jump into a committed relationship right off the bat without giving yourself enough time to know a person well.

Don’t stick to a checklist

Some people have a “relationship checklist” when searching for a partner for life. But it’s something you just don’t need. While it is important to determine the things which matter to you and the things a potential lifetime partner must have, there’s no need for a “required” checklist. You can’t limit yourself to what your checklist tells you. Otherwise, you might just be losing the chance of finding someone who is a great match for you.

Look for the qualities that help you establish a strong partnership

Looking for a life partner? Your focus should be on looking for the values and qualities which help you build a happy, healthy and strong partnership. Your ultimate goal is to be able to build a successful relationship and/or marriage. So it is important you find a person who has the qualities needed to help you create the kind of relationship you want.

Find someone who won’t feel the need to change you

One of the main reasons why relationships fail and love doesn’t last? Because some people feel the need to change their partners. This usually happens when they’re past that starry eyed honeymoon stage and they get to discover a lot more about their partners. However, true love means that you accept a person for who they are. It means that you won’t feel the need to change anything about them. And the same is true for you.

Find a person who will embrace everything about you. When you find that person, you know that you are in a comfortable place. And you are in a relationship where you won’t have to force yourself to be someone you’re not.

Choosing the perfect partner for life is the first step that will lead you to happy married life. Use these tips to help you find that person. And if you’re interested to meet single Russian women, please visit Ukraine Brides Agency.

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7 BIGGEST MISTAKES MEN MAKE WHEN MEETING AN ONLINE DATE

March 22, 2018 by


Online dating is one of the best ways for men to meet women.  In order to be successful at online dating, however, you need to avoid these seven key mistakes when you meet someone for the very first time.

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BEING IN FANTASY LAND

When you’re going to have your first one-and-one meeting with a lady you met online, the first thing you need to do is to get the fantasy of that person out of your head. Many times women write the fantasy version of themselves in their profile. They write what they want to be or who they think they might be, and not who they really are.  So the first thing to do when you meet an online date in person is to look past the profile, and really just get to know your partner.

JUST TAKE IT EASY

People tend to get too nervous when meeting someone for a date and by that, they end up sabotaging it. Think of it as an opportunity to meet someone new, just like you would meet a friend for coffee, and nothing more.  Getting to know her might make you feel nervous, but nevertheless, you should try to calm down and enjoy your date. So, your judgment is not clouded by your emotions and you can make a clear impression of the date.

 Making it all about them.

Another mistake so many men make when meeting online dates in person for the first time is focusing on what that the lady thinks of him. Stop worrying about this.

What happens when you do that is instead of thinking you had a great time and a chance to meet someone new, you go home and analyze that one thing you said.

The truth is you never know what someone else is thinking unless you ask them. This leads right into the next mistake.

Not being in the moment.

A lot of people never stay in the moment and they spend the whole date wondering whether that other person likes them. You will end up spending the entire date worrying about what a woman thinks about you, and you will forget to enjoy the date. This is a thing you want to avoid, try thinking that you are out with a friend, and really try to get to know the lady better. If all goes well during your first date and you are really excited about her, ask her out on a second one. You have nothing to lose.

MADE-UP RELATIONSHIPS

After you’ve finally decided to go out with this person, after all the communication you have had, you might get a little too excited when you go out. You might even think to yourself, “This is the person for me. I can tell. I can feel it.” Wrong, if you think like this on a first date you will surely find yourself disappointed because you’re not going to enjoy the date or get to know her, which is actually the whole point of a first date. By eliminating those expectations and thoughts that this person is your potential soul mate, and by just going on the date to get to know that person better, you are giving the meeting a chance to succeed.

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CONCENTRATE ON THE OUTCOME

This is another mistake, going out with someone for the first time.  Concentrating on what might happen after the date instead of what is going on during the date is the quickest way to ruin your chance of connecting with that person. Focus on the date itself not on what might come afterward.

WORRYING ABOUT THE CHEMISTRY

Men usually worry about chemistry.  About when they can kiss a woman or when to touch her, as women spend the date worrying about if the man will kiss them or if they will ask them out again. Just enjoy the date, stop worrying so much and live the moment. Enjoy the time you spend with the new lady and get to know her.

Even if the date doesn’t go so well, you can just go home, and try again. It’s really fun meeting people in real life after you’ve met them online, as it gives you some perspective. Just be patient and calm.

Please, follow these four tips and you will be a stronger person that others seek out and want to be with. However, for more information follow the link https://blog.ukrainebridesagency.com/ways-couples-can-fix-a-relationship

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