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THE FIVE GOLDEN RULES FOR CONTACTING WOMEN ON DATING SITES

June 21, 2019 by

Love is an innate feeling that fuels the biological and neurological condition. We all have a desire for a strong connection and to be with someone who fulfills our heart, soul, and mind. We do not want to feel empty.

Messaging women on a dating site is not always easy. Competition can be tough, especially if you are admiring for an attractive woman. Here are the five golden rules to keep in mind when you are composing your first message to the possible woman of your dreams.

HAVE A SUCCESSFUL PROFILE.

Ladies always read a man’s profile attentively. A good photo is obviously a must. You will miss your chance to win her and those beautiful messages will not help if your photo is not appropriate.

BE RESPECTFUL.

Different women are going to respond in different ways to different messages, but the vast majority of women prefer to be treated with respect. It is fine to be a little bit cheeky and flirty, but there is a fine line between that and being rude or nasty. Although, do not discuss her appearance in a direct way and do not send any weird photos.

PAY ATTENTION.

Look carefully at the lady’s photo’s and have a good read of her dating profile. More relevant, start the conversation in the best way you can. Studying her profile will help you to write her not just an ordinary message but a nice and interesting one.

KEEP IT SHORT.

Do not write essays. A couple of paragraphs will be enough. However, try to include some interesting questions in your message and show her your curiosity.

DO NOT TRY TO HARD TO IMPRESS.

Moreover, it is hard to impress on a dating site, but trying too hard to be cool can often change the situation. Do not try to make yourself to be a superhero, be yourself. Most women hate when men show off.

We hope that the advice given in this article will help you to find your Ukrainian lady through our dating site. You can find more tips on our blog.


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BRIAN (THE USA) – IRINA (UKRAINE) – MAY 2019

June 8, 2019 by


One of the most beautiful seasons is spring, isn’t it? It is a time of love and happiness. We are anxious to share with you great news. Our new couple Brian and Irina are together and planning to get married.

When did it start?

Irina and Brian got acquainted on our web site on the 6th of March. Most noteworthy, their communication from the very first chat and letter gave hope to both of them that this is for real and they both decided not to talk to anybody else on the website! In a couple of days Irina received her first romantic gift from Brian – a bouquet of flowers – it was the 8th of March – International Women’s Day! Such an action from Brian impressed her and Irina’s heart felt that he is the One for her.

They communicated daily – sharing news, talking about everything and their feelings developed day by day! Certainly, every weekend they had video-chats. As a true gentleman, Brian helped Irina to get to the agency’s office by offering transportation to her. Hence, every single step he took to persuade Irina that he will love her, appreciate, protect and take care of his lady.
Nevertheless, they agreed to meet in Zaporizhzhia – on the 18th of May and their first meeting was fabulous!
More relevant, Irina completely showed her seriousness and she introduced Brian to her mother! Even more, her mother Tatiana was so welcoming. Therefore, she treated her future son-in-law with national cuisine which totally impressed Brian!

Moreover, their meeting was romantic and adventurous. They have seen many places in Zaporizhzhia and its region. Hence, the most exciting emotions are only awaiting this beautiful couple! Furthermore, Brian proposed to Irina and they have started the process for her to get K-1 visa!
We all congratulate Irina and Brian! We wish you a lifetime of love and happiness!

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FEEDBACK ABOUT TRIP TO UKRAINE FROM OUR CLIENT ADAM

May 9, 2019 by

Welcome to Ukraine Brides agency. Here we are always happy to share our latest news with our precious clients.

Recently, our client Adam from the USA has visited Ukraine and was glad to share his experience with UBA service and meeting organization. He pointed out how to video chat system is important before you are going to meet your lady.

We are tremendously excited about Adam’s positive review as he is indeed satisfied with our service. By the way, he was looking for a long time for a well developed trustworthy website with a great level of transparency. He confidently ensures that each lady is vetted on our site. A lady who any man talks to has been interviewed.

Nothing is better than knowing that our clients loved everything about our services and highly recommend us.

Also, Adam mentioned that travelling to Ukraine has no security issues and it is completely safe to come over here.

Please, take a look at this wonderful review from Adam.

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TOP TOOLS FOR SHOWING ATTENTION TO YOUR SPOUSE

April 25, 2019 by

Men and women are very different. Women defined themselves as ‘Relationship Beings’. But men are on the other hand. Well, the thing here is that you have a ‘Relationship Being’ in the most important relationship of her life with someone who is ‘Not’. So now there is one question on your mind “how do they survive?”. Let’s take a look.

The two of them have “jobs” in the relationship. Woman is more naturally oriented towards relationships, so she is the navigator. The man’s “job” is to make his wife happy. When you make your lady happy, she multiplies that happiness, and gives it back to you tenfold. So now you might have the question “How do you make a woman happy? How can you show attention?”.

RESPECT HER

Respect her thoughts, feelings, opinions, priorities, values, work, wants, and time as much as you want her to respect yours. Most men quickly discount their wives’ thoughts, feelings, opinions, priorities, values, needs, and time when these things in any way conflict with what they want. For most men, it’s not on purpose because it’s how they would treat another man. But, remember, your wife feels disrespected when you continually push your agenda ahead of hers.

HONOR HER NEED FOR EMOTIONAL SECURITY

Women value emotional security more than financial security. Women need to feel safe to express themselves. Most of women are emotional beings and need to know that their husbands respect this about them.

SPEND QUALITY TIME TOGETHER

Her idea of quality time might be totally different than yours, so you need to be sure and do things that she really enjoys doing, not just things that she does with you to please you.

ALWAYS SHOW LOVE AND AFFECTION

Tell your wife that you love her every single day. No matter what. Take the time to not only tell your wife you love her, but tell her why you love and appreciate her so much. Remind her why she’s special.

We hope this information will help you to build even stronger relationship with your lady.

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DAVID (THE USA) – ALIONA (UKRAINE) – APRIL 2019

April 15, 2019 by

UBA Team is tremendously happy to announce a new happy couple. Aliona and David fell in love at first sight, at the first meeting. What a coincidence! They felt so comfortable with each other. However, the relationship is a hard daily job which requires a lot of efforts and patience.

How did it start?

After 15 minutes, at the meeting, the consultant who accompanied them decided that he was unnecessary in their love atmosphere. Aliona immediately in the same evening expressed words of gratitude and happiness that fate brought them together. Moreover, despite the large distance, the difference in time, they are so identical, they feel each other at a glance, David is very warm and anxiously caring for Aliona. However, a couple, a day later in Kiev, they went to meet Alina’s children and mother, the children were delighted with David, spoke English, and most importantly, they wished them happiness, because what could be more important than their mother’s smile and full of love eyes. It was tremendously difficult for Aliona to let David go back to the USA. Nevertheless, the couple is preparing all the documents for moving to America. More relevant, David will soon take Alena and her children to America.

What a fantastic couple. You may watch the video of their love story and also wish them all the best. We believe 2019 brings more amazing happy stories.

More relevant, check our blog for more useful advice and wonderful articles that may make your relationship easier.

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WHAT TO TEXT A GIRL

April 13, 2019 by

Lots of men struggle with what to text a lady and how to communicate effectively with her. Moreover, most of men have no idea what to do after they get a phone number of a lady.

Just think about it. You really only have that first interaction with a lady, the time you actually get her number, to give her your best impression. If you correspond with the letters on dating sites you have to learn how to grab her attention. However, to text a lady you like, you just have to learn how to flirt without coming on too strong.

Here are some essential tips you better learn to have a great conversation with your lady:

  1. Be original. Try to send your lady a text that not just any man could send. Do not just say hi or send her a weird emoticon. Find a way to make her smile or to pick her interest. Do whatever you have to do to make her think: “Hey, there is something special about this guy. I want to keep talking to him”. Here are some ways to be original:
    – Charm her with your wit.
    – Make her laugh.
    – Tell her something she has not heard before.
  2. Ask a good question. A question is a great place to start because then your woman will know that you are waiting for an answer.
    – Ask about her day or her week.
    – Make sure the question is something she can easily answer.
    – Keep it simple. Just one short sentence can communicate a large message.
  3. Watch your grammar. You should make sure to watch your spelling and punctuation before you text the lady.
  4. Do not try too hard. If you are trying too hard when you are first texting a woman. She will be able to tell right away. Remember to be yourself and do not go out of your way to say something that does not even sound like you just because you think it will impress her.
  5. Keep her attention. Be engaging. Show your woman that you are capable of keeping up a fun conversation over the phone. Your goal in texting the woman you like is giving her just a sliver of your personality and make her want more.

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DATE NIGHT IDEAS

April 3, 2019 by

Have you ever been stumped about what to do on a date night? Well, we have your back. We prepared some good date night ideas for you and your lady.

However, there are two main questions that you need to answer:

1. What are you going to do on your date?

2. Where are you going to go?

So here are some ideas for your date night:

1. You can invite your lady to your place. You can cook for her a nice dinner and have a movie marathon together.

2. Go to the beach or to the park. You can rent bikes and have a little ride through the park. Also, you can crab a bottle of fine wine and snacks, and have a picnic there, watching the sunset.

3. Visit a museum or some art gallery that you both show interest in. Both of you will have a lot talk about.

4. Go and check out a new part of the city. Consequently, maybe there are some parts of the city that you do not explore very often. So you and your lady might take a little walk and explore new areas.

5. You can go to a new café or restaurant and grab a coffee there. Or you can invite your lady to a fancy restaurant and have a nice dinner there. This date will be rather romantic.

6. You can invite your lady to some game, for example a Baseball game.

7. You can go to the water park or you can play ping pong together. You can choose many other activities to do. Maybe you and the lady are both interested in sports or etc.

Nevertheless, the most important is for you to keep it casual, so that it is fun both for you.

You can find more date ideas in our blog.

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WHAT NOT TO MESSAGE A LADY ONLINE

March 26, 2019 by

You spend so much time and energy searching your beloved person, reading profiles, crafting good messages. So when a girl finally replies, you’re having an ongoing conversation, it feels like total success. And it is!

But what if you ask her to meet…and she says, “not yet”? What if you are the only one keeping the communication going?

Maybe she is just looking for attention, or not really interested in meeting someone for real. Do not let her waste your time. You deserve to find a lady who is excited to meet you in person.

So what has changed in the world of online dating since? We have got fancier and more sleek looking aspps and websites as opposed to clunky chatrooms. Surely, one of the things any online dater would want to know is what type of first contact message is the most likely to draw a positive response. Should it be humorous, should it be factual, or should you just introduce yourself?

Further, exactly how much should you say about yourself in this message?

So, what not to message a girl online and how to increase your chances of reply to your messages?

  1. Pay some attention to what the recipient has said in their profile description to show that you have actually taken an interest in them. Do not just send generic messages. Our site allows users to respond by sending introduce letters and nudges, although this type of communication may also be perceived as low-effort or generic.
  2. Do not just make a statement in your message. Ask a question. Asking a question allows someone to respond, which is more difficult with a statement. And use the recipient’s name – it’s friendlier.
  3. Be honest about yourself. We know that it is easy to establish a degree of rapport by saying you have similar interests to someone else, but there is really no point saying that you share an interest in collecting strange bookmarks if this is not really an interest of yours.
  4. Also, do not write a book instead of message.
  5. Do not cut and paste the same thing to everyone. Watch out grammatical mistakes and punctuation. Ladies like smart men.
  6. Do not be overly sexual and aggressive.
  7. Make sure you include a call to action or reason for her to reply.

However, we would be glad if you could take these tips into consideration.

We are sure that would help you to start your dialogue successfully.Nevertheless, this awesome article may make your communication and dates with the ladies much easier.


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HOW TO SURVIVE A CRISIS IN RELATIONSHIP

March 18, 2019 by

If you understand that now your relationship is not going through the best period, you should think about how to save them.

HOW TO SURVIVE A CRISIS IN RELATIONSHIP

You should not act alone, but with your lady. It should be understood that any couple is facing a crisis in relations. It’s just that someone is making efforts and working on themselves, but someone does not want to strain and part. What can you do to keep the relationship?

1. BE HONEST

If you are extremely honest, you will show that you trust her. And do not be afraid to open your most vulnerable parts. Tell her everything you think about, and what feelings you are experiencing at the moment. This will make a huge impact on your future relationship. You do not have to pick words, because the main requirement for such a conversation is sincerity. Do not blame your lady for anything, but only talk about your feelings and emotions that you are trampling at the moment when she is doing something wrong.

2. WORK TOGETHER

Very many couples broke up because it was more important for them to defend their case, and not to admit mistakes and come together to a compromise. It is necessary to understand, if you are in a relationship, you will make certain concessions. If you want to be together, you need to work out a common strategy and follow it.

3. MAKE A DECISION

This is one of the most difficult steps. You will need to make such a decision, with which you will agree. You should find such a way out of the situation that would suit you and your lady at the same time. The two of you should understand that to find a compromise is not to give up your own opinion. This is to find a mutually beneficial solution.

4. LEARN TO FORGIVE

It is necessary to sincerely forgive a woman for what she did to you. For all the negative emotions that you experienced, for all quarrels and scandals. For all the unpleasant words she told you. It’s clear that you cannot just forget all this. And do not take such as the norm. You just have to let go of all the emotions that this situation causes in you and forgive your girlfriend. Yes, she made a mistake. But you both have already learned from this lesson. Do not get hung up, move on.

5. MOVE ON

If you have already determined what exactly your problem was, you just need to act according to your plan. This must be a mutual decision. You must do everything synchronously. If only one person tries, nothing will work out.

6. SET THE BOUNDARIES

Of course, you no longer hold evil against each other. But you need to discuss what you will not allow anymore. For example, you are terribly annoying when she raises her voice at you. Do not be afraid to tell her about it openly and emphasize that you will not tolerate this anymore.

7. WHO WANTS TO CHANGE?

If the goal is that you no longer want to be nervous. And you dream that you are left alone, then you are not ready to change. You will simply, as before, control your lady and her behavior. And for relationships this will not be progress. This will only exacerbate all your problems.

8. FIND TIME FOR COMMUNICATION

Do you remember your first meetings when you just started dating? How did you get involved in each other, how you did not want anything else, but how to be close? It is very important to learn how to keep this atmosphere after a certain time spent together. Try to communicate as much as possible with her, ask about her life, work, hobbies. Show that you are really interested. Thus, you will establish new boundaries in your relations, which will try not to pass. When is it worth trying to maintain a relationship? A long relationship means that you really love each other. You just need to accept the fact that a crisis in a relationship is normal. It happens even in couples that seem ideal at first sight. If you understand that this relationship no longer brings you pleasure, do not continue them. Honestly talk to the girl, tell me about everything that does not suit you. Sometimes parting means making the right decision.

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Ten Habits of Couples in a Long term Relationship

March 12, 2019 by
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Being in a relationship is quite common nowadays but maintaining it is more of an arduous task. Most people would love to have a long term relationship where the fire of love is still as strong as how it was in the beginning.

However, maintaining a relationship remains an arduous task for most people because of the failure to develop the habits required for a long lasting relationship.

What are the habits of couples in a long term relationship?

Most couples who have been in a relationship for a long time had made a sacrifice of maintaining their relationship by developing some habits.

In a long term relationship, couples make respect paramount

Couples in a long term relationship always follow the famous phrase “Respect is Reciprocal.” That means that it is essential to show respect to your partner. Showing respect to your partner shows signs of love, acceptance, and warmth.

Respecting your partner in all ways will undoubtedly affect your relationship positively by giving them a sense of belonging and help in maintaining your relationship.

Couples in a long term relationship go to bed together

To have a long lasting relationship, you must develop the habit of going to bed with your partner. This doesn’t necessarily mean having sex together every night but establishing a more significant connection.

Though this may seem to be a little tedious in the beginning, with time, it’ll naturally become a habit. Cuddling each other at night while on the bed is an excellent tool in a long term relationship.

They know their common interest

A crucial factor in maintaining a relationship as a couple is looking for something that interests both of them.  Finding or developing a common interest which brings you together will leave you in each other’s embrace.

However, this doesn’t mean you can’t have things that interest you which is different from your partner’s interests. But developing the habit of knowing your common interests will undoubtedly leave a positive mark on your relationship.

Couples in a long term relationship develop the habit to trust and forgive

Trust in a relationship is a crucial factor in determining the success of a relationship. Therefore, couples in a long term relationship have developed over time the habit of trusting and forgiving their partner. If you don’t develop the habit of trusting and forgiving your partner, your relationship may end in disarray.

They love walking together

Most couples in long term relationships love walking along with their partner. Nothing can replace that feeling of holding hands with your partner while walking together and enjoying the fresh air. It creates a deeper connection, creates room to know more about each other and enjoy your partner’s companionship.

Coupled with the fact that it will affect your relationship positively, developing this habit will also keep you healthy since it serves as a stress-buster.

Focus on their partner’s positive traits

Everybody has their weaknesses and strengths. However, dwelling more on your partner’s weaknesses is undoubtedly not good for your relationship. Therefore, most couples in long-lasting relationships develop the habit of focusing on their partner’s positive side.

Dwelling on your partner’s good side will give room for improvement of the negative traits and also help to grow your relationship.

The word “I Love You” is constant in a long term relationship

Developing the habit of saying “I Love you” constantly is a sign of appreciation and adoration. Saying “I Love You” means they appreciate their partner and makes their partner recognize how they cherish their relationship.

This little show of love goes a long way in giving your relationship a solid foundation.

They never let a fight drag on for too long

One of the most common habits of couples in long term relationships is their habit of never letting a fight drag on for too long. They developed the habit of keeping their arguments at bay and also learning to settle their differences faster.

They bid each other “Good Night” every night

One of the things that make a long term relationship grow is the ability to say “Good Night” every night to your partner. Developing this habit is very important to a healthy relationship. Even if you fought with your partner, saying “Good Night” before going to bed is essential.

Having each other in mind all day long

Few things compare to the joy of knowing your partner has you in mind. Out of your busy work schedule, it is essential to either call or send a text to your partner to know how they’re doing. Developing this habit will contribute significantly to having a long-lasting relationship.


Having a long-lasting relationship while maintaining the kind of love you have for each other at the beginning is achievable if you develop the habits mentioned above.

Whether you’re looking for an in-depth way to go about long term relationships or ready to find a life partner, you can always visit our website, Ukraine Brides Agency.

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