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WHAT KIND OF WESTERN MEN DATE UKRAINIAN WOMEN?

November 14, 2019 by

Due to the nature of my work, I’ve met a large number of western men who are dating Ukrainian women. Therefore, I’d like to summarize my findings today.

Many western men dating Ukrainian ladies have high-profile jobs.

Statistics show that a lot of western men dating women from Ukraine are doing very well career-wise. At least 50% of them are executives, CEOs, and entrepreneurs.

Jake is a successful media executive who works for one of the most well-known media companies in the world. His dating preference is ladies from Ukraine. Jake is 28 years old and he got this high-profile job before he graduated from university. Certainly, this isn’t very common, so I interviewed Jake.

ME: Could you talk about how you got involved in important projects before graduation?

JAKE: Years ago, when I was still studying at university, I had quite a few very well-known lecturers and professors who were the leading experts in the industry.

As I always have my radar on, I know who I need to meet. My university days were no exception. Therefore, I decided to make sure those leading experts would mentor me, although many people were saying that those experts were really demanding and strict because they often gave students a low grade or even a Fail grade. However, now I am going to share one example of how I did it successfully so that you can learn from this real story (In order to respect privacy, let me call this mentor ‘Mr. Smith’ so that he won’t be identified):

I was very attentive in class, and one day my opportunity came.

Mr. Smith was teaching a core course which was the cornerstone of the entire degree. While other students were worried about their grades because they really wanted to pass the course, I was pretty sure I would pass the course — better than that, I had a feeling that Mr. Smith would become my mentor in the future as well.

One assignment of this course was to write an essay for a particular website. I completed the essay very well. Two weeks later, Mr. Smith asked each student to do individual conferencing with him so that he could discuss the outcome and feedback on each essay. Apparently, students were a bit anxious to face the strict Mr. Smith one-on-one.

When it was my turn, Mr. Smith said to me: ‘You write beautifully. What is your background? How do you know these concepts so well?’

So basically, I told him a bit about myself and explained what resources I have used.

Then Mr. Smith showed me the grade that he gave me: 98%. At the same time, he said: ‘I haven’t given anyone a high grade like this since a long time ago. But your input is really impressive.’

My heart was filled with joy. Better still, what Mr. Smith told me next was a turning point in my lifehe said: In fact, I am running the national project of this topic, so Id like you to do it with me. Just come to my office on Thursday.’

Life was never the same after that Thursday.

That was only one story among many similar things that I did at university. That was why when I graduated from university, I already had many referees and job offers, whereas most graduates were complaining about the economy.

I worked hard for that. More importantly, I worked smart for that.

When demanding professors and lecturers were teaching the class, my expectation was not just ‘I have to pass the course’. Instead, my much higher expectations set me apart from fellow students.

Always have high expectations and work towards your expectations. Similarly, I expect to date high-quality women only, so I only meet Ukrainian women who are absolutely beautiful.

ME: I’m so impressed. I know many western men dating Ukrainian ladies are very smart and capable. And a growing number of western men between 25 and 30 have become interested in meeting Ukrainian ladies as well.

Western men dating Ukrainian women are very switched-on.

Greg is a 31-year-old guy from Florida. He is a published author and columnist. Most of the time, he writes content about career advice for men. Because I don’t want to miss out on his insights, I interviewed Greg, too.

ME: I read your article called “Who Can Really Help You with Your Career?” the other day and it blew my mind. Would you like to share your insights with our audience at UkraineBridesAgency.com today?

GREG: I’d like to let you know that your friends can’t help you with your career.

At least the majority of your friends can’t.

That’s because if your friends can help you with your career, they must have done it already.  Your friends are people just like you.  They are your peer group.

The brutal truth is: your acquaintances are more likely to help you with your career because they are out of your league – they have the right resources and connections that you desire.

Where are those acquaintances who may become your mentors?  Figure out where they are and you should be there too, and then you just add value to them – ask yourself, “How can I make this person more successful?”  Once you give the value that they need, they will help you (this is the Principle of Reciprocity).

Everyone has problems, no matter how successful they are.  Therefore, you need to figure out how you can help them to solve their problems.

In life, you don’t get what you want, you get what you give.

You don’t get what you want, you get who you are.  And your reality is teaching you who you really are. For example, I’m dating a gorgeous woman from Ukraine who absolutely adores me. I’m pretty sure that’s the feedback that life has given me.

ME: Yes, I’ve met your Ukrainian girlfriend. She is absolutely beautiful! I know you have given your Ukrainian lady some career advice in terms of finding direction in her career. Could you please share your wisdom with us as well?

GREG: I have received many emails from people asking me what they should do work-wise.

Instead of telling them to apply for jobs that are directly relevant to what they studied at university, I tend to reply with these messages:

What did you enjoy doing when you were a child?

What are your natural inclinations?

What are you curious about now?

What is the thing that is obvious to you but it’s amazing to others?

In conclusion, western men dating women from Ukraine are successful and wise. Most noteworthy, they have impressive career ambitions, so they don’t want to have high-maintenance relationships. (Sadly, most relationships with western women are high-maintenance, as evidenced by the high divorce rate in western countries nowadays). Hence, ambitious, intelligent and switched-on western men tend to marry Ukrainian brides.

“Relationships with Ukrainian women are less stressful, so western men can have more time and energy to focus on their careers.”

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SCOTT (THE USA) – IANA (UKRAINE) – 2019

November 7, 2019 by

Ukraine Brides Agency is pleased to introduce a new happy couple and inspire you to believe in real love.

Scott from the USA and Iana from Ukraine united their hearts and are happy to continue their path together.

Likewise, all happy stories, this one has a deep background of various feelings and situations Scott and Iana overcame through to reach the success.

These beautiful people have lots in common. This shows they are created for each other. Scott and Iana met at the right time and in the right place.

They discuss their future, the way the will bring up their kids, travel plans, etc.
This couple has an unusual dream. They saved all the letters they exchanged on the site and will write a book together.

This will definitely inspire their future children. Scott and Iana want to share their love story.

Yana and Scott know for sure that miracles happen in real life. More relevant, everything is possible. Just people have to go together to the common aim and fulfill all the tasks that life gives to them.

We wish them prosperity and all the best as they embark on this wonderful union.

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KEVIN (ENGLAND) – TATIANA (UKRAINE) – 2019

October 31, 2019 by

Welcome to our amazing world of lovely couples of Ukraine Brides Agency. We are extremely excited to share with you our latest news! Hence, please, greet our new happy couple, Kevin and Tatiana.

KEVIN (ENGLAND) – TATIANA (UKRAINE) – 2019

Kevin and Tatiana met in Kyiv, Ukraine.
Therefore, the couple spent their first moments together in the capital city of Ukraine. Discovering fascinating places, they enjoyed each other’s company. Warm talks, holding hands, tasty dishes in a warm atmosphere, meaningful conversations…This created chemistry between them.

They were happy that online communication on Ukraine Brides Agency realized in real life.

Consequently, after the first meeting, they were communicating every single day. This helped them to stay in touch. Certainly, he missed his love like the shore misses the gentle lap of the seafoam as the tides go out.

Most noteworthy, the lady inspired the gentleman to visit Ukraine several times and both of them absolutely enjoyed getting to know each other more and more step by step.

KEVIN (ENGLAND) – TATIANA (UKRAINE) – 2019

Our couple decided to travel together abroad. Hence, they visited wonderful Italy. Therefore, this trip left unforgettable memories for Kevin and Tatiana. They enjoyed fantastic views of the ocean and warm sunny days.
Above all, Kevin and Tatiana have become truly precious for each other and they are happy to plan their future together.

KEVIN (ENGLAND) – TATIANA (UKRAINE) – 2019

As a result, the lady does her best to learn English for her man and their life in England.

“He is the man I was waiting for all my life!”


Tatiana describes Kevin


May their life be full of joy.

We believe it will inspire you to follow the voice in your heart and build a successful relationship. Be happy and believe in a blessing.

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WHY EASTERN EUROPEAN WOMEN ARE THE BEST GIRLFRIENDS

October 24, 2019 by

Eastern European ladies are well-known for their beauty, femininity, and elegance. It is said that these women are ideal girlfriends. According to American author Roosh V, women from Eastern Europe are the best girlfriends. Have you wondered why this is a fact?

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Eastern European women don’t waste money.

Adam is an Australian guy who is dating an Eastern European lady. Last year I interviewed his girlfriend, an intelligent woman with a wealth of wisdom.

ME: Today is Boxing Day and you are happy to do this interview. Could you tell me why not going shopping on Boxing Day is probably a wise decision?

HER: Today is Boxing Day in Australia and the shopping malls are full of shoppers. But I never go shopping on Boxing Day & here are my reasons:

1. Boxing Day’s sales make people buy things they don’t really need.

Being able to tell the difference between things you want and things you need is very important for your financial success.

If you are interested in becoming financially successful, this is a very helpful question to ask –

Before you buy something, ask yourself, “Do I want this? Or do I need it?” If you need it, you should buy it. But if you want it, just don’t buy it.

On Boxing Day, everyone is busy looking at discounts rather than whether these are necessities or not. Therefore, people are more likely to buy things they don’t even need on Boxing Day.

2. Shopping on Boxing Day is very time-consuming, which means you’ll lose time in the process. And time is your most precious asset.

Many people are very careful when it comes to spending their money, but in terms of spending their time, they spend it like billionaires!

Because the queue is too long on Boxing Day, you’ll have to waste a lot of your time while shopping on this day – Some shoppers were waiting in the queue before 5am this morning! And the shops weren’t open until 9am or even 11am!

If I get a bargain on Boxing Day, it may save me $50 or even $100. However, I will never waste hours for that bargain because that amount of time brings me more money than what the bargain saves me.

I hope this makes sense and can help retail workers get some more rest during the Christmas holidays in the future.

I really admire this beautiful Eastern European lady’s insight into money and time. Hence, when Adam told me that his girlfriend is a successful businesswoman in Australia now, I wasn’t surprised at all.

Ladies from Eastern Europe look very youthful.

Joe is a New Zealand guy who is engaged to an Eastern European fiancée. She is 39 years old, but she looks like a lady in her late 20s, so I have to interview her!

ME: What’s the fountain of youth?

HER: Actually, inner health is the prerequisite of outer beauty. That is to say, outer beauty reflects inner health. In my opinion, a woman who understands radical self-love should treat her body with the respect it deserves by warding off toxins externally and internally.

ME: Do you eat or drink anything special?

HER: Every day, I eat cinnamon. It’s a spice that is high in antioxidants. Modern science has proved that cinnamon can turn on longevity-related genes because it activates neuroprotective proteins and can reduce the negative effects of oxidative damage. Apart from that, I drink whole citrus bergamot earl grey tea every morning. Even more, this wonderful tea removes toxins from my cells and keeps my heart very healthy, thereby improving insulin sensitivity to lower blood sugar and decreasing total cholesterol and triglyceride levels. Likewise, I drink green tea in the afternoon, as green tea can increase metabolism and reduce anxiety. And when I’m cooking, I only use coconut oil – it is nature’s richest source of healthy medium-chain fatty acids, so it’s the perfect ingredient.

ME: Do you have any beauty rituals?

HER: Yes, I do. I have a facial and a massage every two weeks. This is more than just a luxurious form of pampering because it’s been shown to help reduce anxiety, pains, and aches (it can relieve sore muscles). Hence, my favorite massage types are Swedish massage and deep-tissue massage. Furthermore, I only use skin-care products from Estee Lauder and makeup from NARS.

Eastern European women have realistic expectations.

Unlike western women who think they deserve the best at all times, Eastern European ladies tend to have more realistic expectations, so it’s hard to let them down!

Ted’s partner is an Eastern European lady who has shared her insights into realistic expectations with me.

ME: What’s the difference between western women’s expectations and Eastern European women’s expectations?

HER: A while ago, I watched a YouTube video called ‘A Drink with Louise Roe’ in which fashion blogger Louise Roe talks about why western women have extremely high expectations in every area of their lives. Most noteworthy, I think the mainstream media taught western women to be that way. But in Eastern European culture, women are more practical. Consequently, instead of looking for “the dream guy”, we are happy to date “the real guy”.

ME: Indeed. When we pursue perfection, we always feel that we are not good enough. Yet when we pursue progress, we can feel we are good enough.

HER: Yes. Perfection doesn’t exist, so it’s impossible to reach. Brene Brown once said, “Perfection is a self-destructive and addictive belief system which fuels this primary thought: Certainly, if I look perfect and do everything perfectly, I can avoid or minimize the painful feelings of shame, judgment, and blame.” Most noteworthy, too many western women spend too much time trying to perfect something before they actually take action. Instead of waiting for perfection, I’d rather run with what I’ve got and fix it as I go.

ME: Just like Harriet Braiker famously said, “Striving for excellence motivates you; striving for perfection is demoralizing.” It seems that many Eastern European women are satisficers. Certainly, by that I mean a lot of women from Eastern Europe can accept good enough, don’t obsess over options, move on after deciding and end up being happier with outcomes.

HER: Exactly. Hence, as a perfectionist is an opposite: A perfectionist exhaustively seeks the best options, compare everything against others to an unhealthy extent, spend too much time and energy and end up unhappier with the outcomes.

ME: As I see it, there is a difference between perfectionism and excellence. Excellence is knowing when good enough is good enough. Consequently, why not let it be good enough?

HER: Couldn’t agree more. The pursuit of perfection oftentimes impedes improvement. Certainly, giving up perfection has a lot of benefits. First, there is more time available because trying to be perfect wastes time. Second, Eastern European women are easier to get along with because we are less stressed and less worried about whether we are perfect or not.

“Eastern European ladies are more youthful, frugal and practical.”

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JAMES (ENGLAND) – IRYNA (UKRAINE) – 2019

October 13, 2019 by

One of the most beautiful seasons in Ukraine is autumn. It also brings us wonderful news about our new couples.

We are happy to share with you that James and Iryna got married this year.

We have recently received amazing news from James and Iryna. Are you excited about it? We are here to share and inspire you.

First meeting of our beautiful couple was in Mykolaiv. Here their chemistry happened and they realized it might be something special between them. Both James and Iryna like travelling, thus they decided to got to Egypt for vacation. Also, they visited some European countries. They went to Paris and Berlin and spent some time in Cyprus.

Iryna also visited James in England. She met his family. All members of James family liked Iryna and got on well with her.

They spent Christmas together in the UK and this relationship flourished. Iryna and James got married in Kyiv on the 13th of March.

James also came to Mykolaiv and met Iryna’s family. Now Iryna is in the UK. She started college and has been learning English to pass the local language test. More relevant, the couple will visit Iryna’s family soon.

James is thankful for the service we provided in arranging the first meeting for Iryna and him in Ukraine.

We are happy for both James and Iryna. Most noteworthy, learning English in the UK might be easier for Iryna. Consequently, the possibility to hear the same language around creates the right environment for learning.

We wish them prosperity, mutual understanding, and endless love.

Site founder, Keith Gordon corresponded with James many times during the time James used our services and courted Iryna. James sent this message to Keith along with his happy news:

Hello Keith.
                 Thank you for your congratulations,it was very nice to hear from you personally.
Yes, I  found your  dating services very good,and a site to be trusted.
I would have no hesitation to recommend them,to anyone.
I have  thanked your staff in Nikolaev, and now a opportunity to thank you.
It’s very important to be able to trust a site with so many scams about,.
Once again thank you Keith

James and Iryna

Hence, if you would like to see other happy couples, do not hesitate to visit our blog .

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How to Date Ukrainian Ladies Confidently

October 10, 2019 by

Now you have access to a large number of Ukrainian ladies. Congratulations! But… do you know how to confidently date Ukrainian women? In fact, there are three layers of confidence, according to modern psychology.

Your external confidence is more important than you think.

This layer of confidence is best characterized by how you look, how you walk, how you talk and how you carry yourself. Without external confidence, you won’t have a chance to showcase your internal confidence.

The first impression is determined by external confidence.

Therefore, instead of buying 10 cheap shirts this season, you’d better buy 2 shirts – each shirt should be more expensive & high-quality. For instance, previously you bought 10 cheap shirts from Kmart ($20 each); now you will buy 2 high-quality shirts from Hugo Boss ($100 each). In this way, you spend the same amount of money, but I can guarantee that shirts from Hugo Boss will last longer and will make you look (and feel) confident instantly.

Next, whenever you are talking to Ukrainian ladies, you will speak with certainty and clarity. Let’s have a look at the following two situations:

Situation 1:

I guess probably those could be books written by Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Christiane Northrup, and so on.”

Situation 2:

“Books published by Hay House are written by authors such as Dr. Joe Dispenza and Dr. Christiane Northrup.”

As you can see, in Situation 1, this person talks without certainty – the speaker hedges with modifying phrases frequently.

In contrast, in Situation 2, this person talks with certainty – hedging doesn’t exist.

Furthermore, you should smile, but don’t smile too much. Research shows that women tend to smile more than men do because women have been conditioned to believe that they should be liked by others from a young age. However, a study in Australia suggests that smiling too much shows less power and less intelligence. Certainly, I know this isn’t the most politically correct thing to say, but I don’t want to lie to you.

When a man smiles too much, he looks less trustworthy as well. Hence, you only smile when your smile is actually genuine – Ukrainian beauties will take you more seriously if your smile actually means something.

Remember: The higher your status, the less you need to smile. A CEO usually smiles less than a secretary does. Smiling too much lowers an individual’s authority.

Your lifestyle confidence is about where you derive your confidence from.

The second layer of confidence is about your career, your love life, your hobbies, your health, your social life, etc. That means you derive lifestyle confidence from different areas of a matrix.

When an individual only derives confidence from their career, this person is less attractive. Thus, you need to derive confidence from a wide variety of areas of your life.

So, it’s time to assess your lifestyle confidence: Do you spend 90 hours working every week? Do you believe that your love life means everything to you? Do you think you can’t live without your friends? Of course, these are all very important, but in order to achieve real confidence at this level, you’d better make sure various areas of the matrix can give you confidence and make you happy, thereby attracting Ukrainian ladies effortlessly.

For instance, if you are a workaholic, you will have to spend more time working on your health, your social life, and your love life. Do cultivate some hobbies because life is short.

If you spend too much time hanging out with your friends, it’s time to evaluate whether you should allocate more time and other resources to your career or your own business.

This isn’t about work/life balance. Certainly, it’s about building the second layer of confidence so that you will become a very attractive man that Ukrainian ladies like and admire.

Your core confidence is the most important layer of confidence.

Core confidence is also known as internal confidence. This layer of confidence isn’t affected by external factors. No matter what happens in your life, your confidence is backed up by your self-esteem and self-worth, so you truly love yourself. More relevant, a truly confident man knows his self-worth and has high self-esteem because he knows what he has to offer while dating a Ukrainian woman.

I know this is easier said than done, so I’d like to show you some examples regarding how to build core confidence.

  1. Furthermore, become an avid reader. Leaders are readers. I know reading books takes a lot of time, but if you don’t read books, you will have less powerful ideas. Note that you can listen to audiobooks when you are in the gym or commuting to/from work. You may read a book every two weeks. Most noteworthy, in this way, you will read 26 books a year. Honestly, many books aren’t very good; therefore, you should be choosier – only read books that you actually want to read and consider successful people’s recommendations. Consequently, you should read your role models’ biographies so that you will become like-minded.
  2. Hence, attend an educational seminar at least once a year. Most people spend money on toys and entertainment, but if you have decided to become a confident man that attracts Ukrainian ladies, you will want to invest in yourself. Moreover, that’s why you should attend educational seminars where you can learn more knowledge and improve yourself. Therefore, you will meet a lot of like-minded people who are also interested in personal development or business development.

Other words, have “me time” once a week. For instance, every Saturday afternoon is “me time” – that’s when you rejuvenate and work on yourself. Consequently, you can use “me time” to write in your journal and do some meditation. Meanwhile, science has proved that these activities are good for your internal confidence and self-esteem as well, so you may want to try these suggestions from now on.

“Your confidence is backed up by your competence.”

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Dating Ukrainian Women: How to be an outstanding conversationalist

October 8, 2019 by

Before you marry a Ukrainian bride, obviously you will meet her in person. For instance, perhaps you would like to go to Ukraine and actually date her for a while before marrying her. That’s totally understandable. When you are on a date with a Ukrainian lady, do you know how to be a good conversationalist?

How to train yourself to listen well:

First of all, you need to maintain eye contact. If you would like to see a good example, you may watch Bill Clinton’s videos on YouTube so that you will see how Bill Clinton maintains eye contact when he is talking to someone.

Here is why Bill Clinton is charismatic:

Furthermore, when someone in the audience asks him a question, Bill Clinton maintains eye contact with that person all the time while answering the question. Towards the end of his answer, Bill Clinton’s body language indicates that he is going to end it, but he still maintains eye contact with that individual. In other words, his feet begin to point at somewhere else, and then slowly, gradually he breaks eye contact. This technique is called “sticky eyes” which makes the person who asked Bill Clinton a question feel that he/she is the only person in the room.

Now you’ve understood the importance of maintaining eye contact.

Therefore, when you take a Ukrainian girl to a coffeehouse for a date, remember to maintain eye contact and try not to look elsewhere when she is talking to you. This shows your respect and interest.

Second, instead of talking about yourself too much on the date with a Ukrainian beauty, you would be well-advised to let her talk more so that you can observe her and consider what you’d really like to find out. Also, you should avoid playing conversation tennis & you’d better play conversation basketball. Let me explain.

Please have a look at two scenarios:

Scenario A:

YOU: What do you do?

HER: Artist.

YOU: Awesome. Do you like it?

HER: Yes. It’s good.

YOU: Excellent. I’m an accountant.

Scenario B:

YOU: What do you do?

HER: Artist.

YOU: That’s great. I think your work must be very interesting and highly creative when you spend a lot of time creating beautiful art. Why do you choose this profession?

Clearly, Scenario A is playing conversation tennis – both of you are trying to get the other person to talk immediately without providing much information/value in the conversation. In other words, Scenario A is about expecting the other person to give more value.

In contrast, Scenario B is playing conversation basketball – she gives you an answer, and then you provide much more value in your response. Better still, you also ask her why she wants to be an artist, which will probably help you find out two things about her: 1) her motivation at work; 2) her emotions about work. Remember: as long as you’ve figured out this Ukrainian woman’s motivation and emotions, you will feel closer to each other psychologically.

Understanding the beauty from Ukraine that you are dating:

Once the Ukrainian bride has told you why she wants to do her job, you can mentally step into her shoes and imagine her feelings, doing what she does. Then, you ask a deeper question. So, let’s continue Scenario B:

HER: I always wanted to be an artist because I was inspired by Megan Hess. She is the most successful fashion illustrator in the world. I truly love her work and she is my role model. That’s why I’m working on fashion illustration as well.

YOU: You must be very passionate about fashion illustration, so you’ve become an artist. Do you think fashion is art or just a type of business?

Above all, now you’ve asked her a much deeper question. You have to really listen to this Ukrainian lady’s answer. Keep the focus on her, as when you try to see things from her perspective, you ignite her personal passions and inner life. Hence, she will want to share everything about why she loves her work with you.

Now you’ve asked her a much deeper question. You have to really listen to this Ukrainian lady’s answer. Keep the focus on her, as when you try to see things from her perspective, you ignite her personal passions and inner life. Hence, she will want to share everything about why she loves her work with you.

Please note that Ukrainian beauties are very honest, so when she talks about whether fashion is a type of art or a kind of business, you will also know her worldview, i.e. how she understands art and how she looks at business.

Consequently, this is how you have sparkling and connected conversations with a lady from Ukraine.

How to turn awkward silences into massive attraction:

Most westerners feel uncomfortable when there is an awkward silence, but if you know how to turn this into something powerful, you will have another tool in your toolbox.

Above all, I encourage you to create silences deliberately by introducing pauses to your conversation with your Ukrainian girlfriend.

As a matter of fact, if you have to constantly talk, you look more nervous and less confident. By contrast, when you feel okay during silences, you look more relaxed and more confident.

Therefore, when you want to build massive sexual tension with the girl from Ukraine, you can talk slowly and then pause. Certainly, now you look at her eyes for a second, look at her nose for a second, look at her lips for a second, and look at her eyebrows for a second. Likewise, you don’t have to count “1, 2, 3, 4” in your head, but you’ve got the gist – your eyes are slowly “traveling” on her beautiful face during the silence.

The Ukrainian girl has seen enough romantic movies, so she understands what that means. Hence, now you’ve built massive sexual tension with her.

Consequently, chances are she is secretly thinking… “When is he going to kiss me?” And that’s exactly what you want.

Bonus tips:

  1. Always say more statements and ask fewer questions. Using statements more often, you look more confident. If you ask too many questions, you look less certain.
  2. Asking your Ukrainian stunner a question, make sure the question is meaningful and deep if you can.
  3. Hence, most statements that you say should be some kind of comment on her motivations, emotions, and feelings. Remember: women are more emotional than men, so it’s easier for you to build a strong emotional connection with your Ukrainian woman if you can connect with her emotions directly.

Examples:

HER: Making art is a soothing process. I love how it makes me feel. It’s so enjoyable and I lose myself in the art.

YOU: Oh. That’s nice. I’m impressed. It sounds like creating art has added a tremendous amount of value to your life. That even makes me want to try it, too. Tell me more about your art.

More relevant, note that in this response above, you say “I’m impressed” which is a very powerful statement that pre-frames the situation: This Ukrainian lady is here to impress you; she should prove herself to you.

Also, the longer statement is expressive, so you are going to have a real and dynamic interaction with her.

Hence, it is obvious that connecting with a lady from Ukraine means you always go deeper and understand more about her world than the boring facts that you can easily see by looking at her dating profile.

How you say it is just as important as what you say.”

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HOW TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

September 22, 2019 by

God created people to love each other and feel the most wonderful feelings, enjoy life and give positivity and kindness to others. Whilst talking about a relationship between a woman and a man we have to consider that fact that no one is perfect and when a person does his best in this very relationship, it does not mean he will be treated equally well in another relationship. All relationships existing in this world have the potential to enrich people’s lives. Likewise, the same relationship can cause discomfort and harm.

There are healthy and unhealthy relationships and one way or another, we may find ourselves in either or both. Relationships are a necessity and an essential part of healthy living, but there is no such thing as a perfect relationship.

Here, we will give you an explanation of the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships.

Healthy relationship

A healthy relationship is based on mutual respect, fairness, support, honesty and trust. Every relationship needs maintenance and time to make it work. There is more happiness than stress in a healthy relationship. Nevertheless, being in a healthy relationship means doing things with friends and family and having activities independent of each other. It also means discussing things, allowing for differences of opinion, and compromising equally. There is room for positive growth and you learn more about each other as you develop and mature. This type of relationship lasts longer. On the contrary, contempt surfaces in unhealthy relationships sooner or later as either of the partners gives up.

Unhealthy relationship

You care for and focus on another person only and neglect yourself or you focus only on yourself and neglect the other person. In unhealthy relationships, both partners strive to complete one of them because it is driven more by “about me” than “about us”. Unhealthy relationships give a feeling of pressure to quit activities you usually enjoy. You will notice arguments are not settled fairly. You may experience a lack of fairness and equality.

If your relationship has some of these characteristics it does not mean the end of your relationship. There is always a chance to change things for the better. By recognizing how these characteristics affect you, you can begin to work on improving the negative aspect of your relationship to benefit both of you.

There is a possibility that both healthy and unhealthy relationships will last a lifetime, but imagine the quality of life for the one who makes all the sacrifices.

Please, take a look at some articles on our blog to be sure about how to make a first date perfect and such.

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HOW TO APPRECIATE YOUR DIFFERENCES

September 13, 2019 by

Can you accurately answer: what attracts us more in the person – opposites or common qualities? The answer to this question is ambiguous and very subjective. But certainly, opposites attract us very much. On the other hand, a relationship with a person who is different in everything threatens with frequent confrontations and can destroy relations. In the early stages of relationships, we like how these differences complement relationships. After marriage, the same differences become obstacles in a common life. Consequently, all because we tend to focus on these traits or preferences and wonder why she or he cannot be the same as me? And here everything is falling apart. Instead of talking about this, we are complaining and arguing and ultimately trying to change our spouse with manipulative tactics.

The most important thing is that one should understand that a person will not change cardinally, and all his habits will most likely remain with him forever.

Most couples have little understanding of their differences and that it is what makes their relationship stronger. The biggest disappointments come when we start thinking about opposites from the point of view of right and wrong. Usually, this means: “I’m right, but you’re wrong.” Therefore, they begin the process of trying to turn their spouse into the “right” or “best option”.

We offer you two steps on the way of understanding and accepting your opposites.

1. Understand and accept your differences.

The easiest way is the way of denial. Once you humble yourself and accept your differences, everything will fall into place. Let your partner be the way he or she is because that’s how you love him\her.

2. Look at your differences as qualities that complement you.

Try to determine why this person has become so important to you, despite all its drawbacks.

Hence, once you clearly identify all the qualities that distinguish you, you will understand that they are precisely those qualities that you love in your partner. After all, if your partner changes – it will be a completely different person and your relationship will be under a very big threat. If the spouses stand together and value their differences, there is little that can prevent them from solving even the biggest problems that life can throw on them. Accepting and assessing the differences between you, you will understand how much you need each other.

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WORDS THAT EVERY LADY WOULD LIKE TO HEAR

September 5, 2019 by

From a long time, the skill of eloquence was considered as a science. And the current, the one who knows how to find the right words in time without controversy is obviously a successful person. The same applies to the relationship with the ladies. After all, to find the right words in a conversation with your lady is a great knowledge.

Earlier men could tell nice words for a lady, but then somehow they lost this skill. And it is absolutely in vain. Men should be able to say nice things to the ladies they care for. And even the already conquered lady is worth pampering her with your oratory.


So why is it so important to learn to say pleasant words to a lady?

Women love with their ears.

This slightly beaten up and a slightly annoying phrase is still absolutely true and relevant.

Without exaggeration, today it is very actual because modern ladies are not too spoiled by beautiful confessions of love, intricate compliments, sincere apologies. Moreover, to meet a man who is able to maintain a conversation on a variety of topics without stumbling along, without inserting word parasites, jargon – this is the limit of all dreams.

Certainly, it is not entirely clear why it happened that men lost the skill to talk with the ladies. Why did they start to think that squeezing once a year “You are sexy” or grumble “Well, I’m sorry” is a feat worthy of all conceivable and unimaginable awards?

Perhaps it’s all the fault of the unnecessarily tense of the 21st century with its constant rush and tendency to reduce everything that can be reduced. Look, after all, we are even too lazy to write a full-fledged “How are you?”. Instead of this, we write three simple letters. Have we forgotten how to speak?

However, men who know how to speak beautifully will always have an advantage over their brethren who believe that “all kinds of compliments and confessions of love are babbling and there is nothing to go about with these extortionists.”

You have already set out on the path of correction if you are trying to master the art of beautiful speeches, which are pleasing to any lady.

Here are some useful tips for you:

– Say everything sincerely: compliments, and confessions, and apologies, and wishes, and even – passionate obscenity. Women feel false in your words for a mile. Of course, a long speech about the lady’s beauty is already too much and only one compliment will be enough there so that the lady understands that you like her a lot.

– If you cannot say in your own words – steal ideas from the great ones. Both poets and prose writers have said so many pleasant words in their works that it will be enough for all the men of the world. You have no time to flip through thick books to find a couple of beautiful words? – Search it on the Internet then. Even if you express your sympathy with other people’s words – the lady will understand that you at least searched for the right words and really paid attention to it.

– Do not be embarrassed and do not laugh when you say something pleasant to a lady. It is clear that it is difficult to overcome embarrassment, but if you are shy and nervous, you will spoil all the impression.

How often should you say nice words for a girl?

Quite often, but so that she will not get bored with the flow of your words. In this matter, it is better to focus on the lady’s personality.

What kind of pleasant words do you need to be able to say to a lady?

Certainly, there are dozen and even hundreds of words that every lady wants to hear. In general, pleasant words for each of the ladies are confessions of love, compliments, apologies. All the words and phrases, that conveys your care, for example, wishes for a speedy recovery, etc.

Each lady wants you to notice her beauty, mind and other virtues.

Talk about her specific merits, and not just limit yourself to the general phrases “You’re so beautiful”, “You’re so sexy,” etc.

Most noteworthy, there is something she considers her worth – find out what it is and praise it.

More relevant, it is better not to remember her shortcomings. Ladies are so arranged that at any age they will find a reason to be dissatisfied with their appearance. Probably, if you know that she thinks her legs are crooked (this may not be so, but it seems to her), then do not invent a compliment about her legs. You can only make it worse.

Remember diversity. Do not say the same things, it gets boring. Even if you come up with a terrific compliment, you should not repeat it every day.

Above all, look for new words that will help you to express your admiration for the lady.

Hence, just imagine what trump cards you will have if you learn to say beautiful words of love and defy embarrassment to speak calmly and confidently.

Yes, you will master any woman’s heart!

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