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HOW TO APPRECIATE YOUR DIFFERENCES

September 13, 2019 by

Can you accurately answer: what attracts us more in the person – opposites or common qualities? The answer to this question is ambiguous and very subjective. But certainly, opposites attract us very much. On the other hand, a relationship with a person who is different in everything threatens with frequent confrontations and can destroy relations. In the early stages of relationships, we like how these differences complement relationships. After marriage, the same differences become obstacles in a common life. Consequently, all because we tend to focus on these traits or preferences and wonder why she or he cannot be the same as me? And here everything is falling apart. Instead of talking about this, we are complaining and arguing and ultimately trying to change our spouse with manipulative tactics.

The most important thing is that one should understand that a person will not change cardinally, and all his habits will most likely remain with him forever.

Most couples have little understanding of their differences and that it is what makes their relationship stronger. The biggest disappointments come when we start thinking about opposites from the point of view of right and wrong. Usually, this means: “I’m right, but you’re wrong.” Therefore, they begin the process of trying to turn their spouse into the “right” or “best option”.

We offer you two steps on the way of understanding and accepting your opposites.

1. Understand and accept your differences.

The easiest way is the way of denial. Once you humble yourself and accept your differences, everything will fall into place. Let your partner be the way he or she is because that’s how you love him\her.

2. Look at your differences as qualities that complement you.

Try to determine why this person has become so important to you, despite all its drawbacks.

Hence, once you clearly identify all the qualities that distinguish you, you will understand that they are precisely those qualities that you love in your partner. After all, if your partner changes – it will be a completely different person and your relationship will be under a very big threat. If the spouses stand together and value their differences, there is little that can prevent them from solving even the biggest problems that life can throw on them. Accepting and assessing the differences between you, you will understand how much you need each other.

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WORDS THAT EVERY LADY WOULD LIKE TO HEAR

September 5, 2019 by

From a long time, the skill of eloquence was considered as a science. And the current, the one who knows how to find the right words in time without controversy is obviously a successful person. The same applies to the relationship with the ladies. After all, to find the right words in a conversation with your lady is a great knowledge.

Earlier men could tell nice words for a lady, but then somehow they lost this skill. And it is absolutely in vain. Men should be able to say nice things to the ladies they care for. And even the already conquered lady is worth pampering her with your oratory.


So why is it so important to learn to say pleasant words to a lady?

Women love with their ears.

This slightly beaten up and a slightly annoying phrase is still absolutely true and relevant.

Without exaggeration, today it is very actual because modern ladies are not too spoiled by beautiful confessions of love, intricate compliments, sincere apologies. Moreover, to meet a man who is able to maintain a conversation on a variety of topics without stumbling along, without inserting word parasites, jargon – this is the limit of all dreams.

Certainly, it is not entirely clear why it happened that men lost the skill to talk with the ladies. Why did they start to think that squeezing once a year “You are sexy” or grumble “Well, I’m sorry” is a feat worthy of all conceivable and unimaginable awards?

Perhaps it’s all the fault of the unnecessarily tense of the 21st century with its constant rush and tendency to reduce everything that can be reduced. Look, after all, we are even too lazy to write a full-fledged “How are you?”. Instead of this, we write three simple letters. Have we forgotten how to speak?

However, men who know how to speak beautifully will always have an advantage over their brethren who believe that “all kinds of compliments and confessions of love are babbling and there is nothing to go about with these extortionists.”

You have already set out on the path of correction if you are trying to master the art of beautiful speeches, which are pleasing to any lady.

Here are some useful tips for you:

– Say everything sincerely: compliments, and confessions, and apologies, and wishes, and even – passionate obscenity. Women feel false in your words for a mile. Of course, a long speech about the lady’s beauty is already too much and only one compliment will be enough there so that the lady understands that you like her a lot.

– If you cannot say in your own words – steal ideas from the great ones. Both poets and prose writers have said so many pleasant words in their works that it will be enough for all the men of the world. You have no time to flip through thick books to find a couple of beautiful words? – Search it on the Internet then. Even if you express your sympathy with other people’s words – the lady will understand that you at least searched for the right words and really paid attention to it.

– Do not be embarrassed and do not laugh when you say something pleasant to a lady. It is clear that it is difficult to overcome embarrassment, but if you are shy and nervous, you will spoil all the impression.

How often should you say nice words for a girl?

Quite often, but so that she will not get bored with the flow of your words. In this matter, it is better to focus on the lady’s personality.

What kind of pleasant words do you need to be able to say to a lady?

Certainly, there are dozen and even hundreds of words that every lady wants to hear. In general, pleasant words for each of the ladies are confessions of love, compliments, apologies. All the words and phrases, that conveys your care, for example, wishes for a speedy recovery, etc.

Each lady wants you to notice her beauty, mind and other virtues.

Talk about her specific merits, and not just limit yourself to the general phrases “You’re so beautiful”, “You’re so sexy,” etc.

Most noteworthy, there is something she considers her worth – find out what it is and praise it.

More relevant, it is better not to remember her shortcomings. Ladies are so arranged that at any age they will find a reason to be dissatisfied with their appearance. Probably, if you know that she thinks her legs are crooked (this may not be so, but it seems to her), then do not invent a compliment about her legs. You can only make it worse.

Remember diversity. Do not say the same things, it gets boring. Even if you come up with a terrific compliment, you should not repeat it every day.

Above all, look for new words that will help you to express your admiration for the lady.

Hence, just imagine what trump cards you will have if you learn to say beautiful words of love and defy embarrassment to speak calmly and confidently.

Yes, you will master any woman’s heart!

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INDEPENDENCE DAY IN UKRAINE

August 23, 2019 by

Ukraine Brides Agency is happy to share with you more news about Ukrainian traditions and holidays.

Have you ever traveled to Ukraine? Have you ever visited this blooming and joyful country? If not, now is the best time to do it.

Summertime is a great choice to start your trip. We have a lot of beautiful places to see and fascinating holidays to celebrate. Join us and we will tell you what a wonderful country is waiting for you.

Furthermore, Ukraine is an amazing country which has much to celebrate. One of the largest celebratory days in the Ukrainian calendar is Independence Day on August 24, which is a public holiday.

What do Ukraine people usually do on this special day?

Ukrainians are cheerful and optimistic people who like to celebrate the Day of Independence in Ukraine with marvelous fireworks, concerts, and festivals.

You have a great opportunity to see famous and traditional Ukrainian clothing. However, Ukrainians love to wear national blouses with traditional ornaments on them. Certainly, you may not see people wearing traditional clothes every day but on holidays in Kiev, you would definitely get this opportunity.

Outdoor exhibitions are a fantastic opportunity to see fascinating pictures painted by talented people. Hence, it is popular to set up free public markets and people may try tasty national Ukrainian food and drinks. Nevertheless, on this day young people always paint their faces in blue and yellow colors. Ukrainians walk outside with the country’s flag to show their honor and respect.

Independence Day is a national public holiday and that is why many shops, museums, government offices, banks, and universities are closed.

Moreover, every year you may watch an annual concert where famous Ukrainian singers are singing their most popular songs to raise the people spirits even higher.

More relevant, children love this holiday because there are lots of amusements open for kids.

Most noteworthy, this holiday honors the memory of those who made the ultimate sacrifice to gain the independence of Ukraine and to provide the best life for this country.

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Hence, we will be happy to answer all your questions about life in Ukraine and its traditions.

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DATING OLDER WOMEN

August 17, 2019 by

Age should never stand in the way of true love. If you’re considering dating older women, here are some top tips for you:

You should know your age. Here is the breakdown of how the differences of women change as they get older:

25-30 years old:

Ladies in that age range are “older” only if you are in your late teens. Such women are starting to wise up and they’re seriously looking for future husbands. They still will be out to have a good time, but you should understand that getting into a relationship with these women means that they see you as having long term potential.

– 30-40 years old:

These ladies are very interested in having kids as this is the “last call for kids” age range. So if you are not interested in having kids yet, don’t waste what little time they have left. Let them find their partners.

– 40-60+ years old:

That’s too old! – you might say, but you’re wrong. There are a lot of benefits that age can bring to women.

You need to convince her. Hence, one thing that almost all older women have in common is that they know that their looks have faded. Consequently, they may still have confidence in their appearance, but it mostly only goes so far as to expect attention only from men that are around their age or older. So how do you convince them? Well, it is quite simple. Actions can speak louder than words in some cases but make sure it’s clear that this isn’t just you giving them charity compliments.

Most noteworthy, they know what they want and this is one of the great benefits of older women. Certainly, they do not play games. Even more, make sure that you’re always honest with them about what you want and where things are going. Don’t think that these women only want a serious relationship, many of them do not want it. That depends on their history.

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TRAVIS (THE USA) – INESSA (UKRAINE) – JULY 2019

August 4, 2019 by

Summer time does not stop impressing us with its gifts and wonderful news.

We are happy to announce our new happy couple Inessa and Travis! 

How did it start

The newlywed couple met for the first time in Kiev. Before the meeting they were chatting and writing each other through www.ukrainebridesagency.com. The chemistry was there since very beginning, and the face-to-face meeting supported their desire to be together. 
Travis met Inessa at Kiev airport and a beautiful limousine took them on a trip around the city – their first romantic date! They were exploring Kiev and suburbs together. Also,they were building their relationship step by step. More over, on the very first date they were assisted by the interpreter which was convenient for both of them. Inessa was studying English and she was able to use basic words and phrases, so the couple decided to try and communicate on their own.
Several months later, we can witness the power of love that brought these two lonely hearts together! We wish all the best to the new family, let love and wisdom be with them at all times! And everyone who is still in search can be sure that with the help of UBA you will find your soul mate! 

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FEEDBACK ABOUT TRIP TO UKRAINE FROM ARTHUR (USA)

June 26, 2019 by

Welcome to Ukraine Brides agency. Here we are always happy to share our latest news with our precious clients.

Recently, our client Arthur from the USA has visited Ukraine and was glad to share his experience with UBA service.

– Dear Arthur, we are glad to see you in Ukraine. And we would like to ask a few questions about Ukraine, your experience and about your trip in general. At the beginning could you please introduce yourself and tell us how did you know about our site?

– Arthur: Well, I’m from the United States (I know it was difficult to guess) from Colorado. I found about this site through the friend I met in Kyiv in 2015 and we kept in touch by email.  I guess I won’t say his name; I know you know who he is. He’s been in your office. He told me about ukrainebridesagency.com. However, being sceptical especially in the level of scams that we are here about. He says that these guys are really legitimate, these guys are real. I dot online and look at this and say hey let me go ahead. Give this a chance, see how it works out.

– Thank you. And is it your first trip to Ukraine or you were here before?

–  Arthur: I’ve been to Ukraine second time. My first time in Ukraine was in 2004 and 2006. Generally saying, it’s mostly vacation leisure. I wasn’t necessary here in Ukraine for a lady. This is more explore thing as I like traveling. And there was a long gap when I was not traveling to places. So my last time in Ukraine when I come back was in June 2015. And I came back several times since then. And especially being on Ukraine Brides and being working outside of the word it is more easy for me to fly to Ukraine and then go back to the United States.

– As I told you before a lot of our clients do worry whether t is safe to come to Ukraine. Could you please share some information, do you feel safe here?

– Arthur: Oh yes, I was kidnapped in the office =) Kidding. I didn’t have any problems. The only thing is I quickly learned is to take taxi drivers. But have never had anybody try to rob me. ‘Course, I mean I’m careful driving anyways. It doesn’t matter what city you are going to in the world every city has its not good parts. But I’ve never had any issues. I’ traveled all over the Ukraine I’ve been to many cities in Ukraine.

– And according to your experience, I see that you are an experienced traveler, and as you told you was here several times – What do think about Ukraine? Could you please share your feelings, your thoughts about our country, what people you met?

– Arthur: People are friendly. I met some coming to Ukraine, I met some a bit of friend. Course some friends I lost. I’ve made some Russian friends, ‘course I’ve been to Russia too. I just met some good friends that I keep in touch with. In fact, some of them I know living in the United States now. I know one lady, she moved from Poltava and she is a friend, she’s now living in the United States with her husband in Montana. I keep in touch with a lot of people. It is easy here to make friends. People here in general very friendly.

– Could you please tell which of our services you have tried? And which of them you like and which you think are not so interesting? Or you would like to suggest something to improve our work?

– Arthur: I’ve used pretty much almost all the services or maybe not all of them, because I don’t like letter writing. In chats, it limits, because you really can build a personality you are not. The video chat I’ve done before. I mean I’m not really can much on video chat, less is Skype you can use and start again. It’s being expansive starting video chat for hours on in. What are the other services? In fact, I travel on my own. I know there are travel services for those who have never been to Ukraine which I would suggest. Somebody has never been to Ukraine and there are skeptical. I was suggesting using Ukraine Brides travel agency – Simply Travel. In fact, I would just spend some time on the request to get the price, but I’ve never done this. The reason is I’ve really experienced traveler. I usually can make some pretty good deals; I mean the less expensive road. But I would suggest for those guys not to waste their nerves on how to get come to Ukraine, they don’t know anything about the language, about the culture. I would suggest for users to use Simply Travel. Don’t think about everything. They can meet you at the airport, they can seat you in a hotel. Somebody will need a local sim card for the phone or if you what they will get you a phone.

– And what about gifts? Have ordered a gift for a lady? Maybe you like delivery?

– Arthur: Yeah, I like the delivery. I did do a gift, not too many times because I don’t really like doing gifts to somebody I don’t know. I could learn that through experience. I have to meet somebody first before I start doing gifts. My recommendations to those who want to send a gift to the lady they have not met yet – Make it simple, don’t go overboard. Because you may meet that lady and she’s not what she is. Cause I even sent a gift for a lady that I brought letters to and even did a video chat with and it even did not work out.so I would suggest to play a safe and wait to meet the lady then she forgets.

– Some of our clients are just unable to come to Ukraine for a meeting after three or four months of communication. And they are really interested in a lady and they want to show that “I appreciate you”, “I’m interested in you” and we also advise them to send to the lady some small gift: some flowers, some chocolate, like this. Something very simple, just to show your attention: “I remember about you”, “I care about you”.

Could you please give advise to our customers how should they act on the site to get success? For example, what did help you more: messages, video chat, real meeting? What was better for you and what would you recommend to our clients?

– Arthur: It’s a hard question. In order, somebody has a success with the lady on a site? I would say first of all for me it should be realistic. If you are sixty don’t think you going to get twenty y. o. It may happen but such cases are pretty rare. I would say I start of a small first like see a lady you might be attractive to. First, send a nudge. See if she nudges you back or reacts on you back. If you don’t hear anything, give her a few days maybe even a week. Send her another nudge, whit a couple of days. If you don’t hear anything, then send an introduction letter. To should introduce yourself to the lady. And if you don’t hear anything after that then probably she may haven’t the interest. She might be kind and nice and send you some kind of respond saying you not the gentleman she’s looking for. I’ve never had such a situation. Usually ladies… they respond… I got some kind work out of there. You can really go there and find the lady you like and book a chat. So she will get a note you really want it, so or book a meeting. If you just book meet with the lady she will just think “this guy just booked a meeting, this guy is serious if he wants to meet”.

– That is really good because a lot of our clients they don’t know how to start, what to start with, send a message, or maybe an introduction or book a chat or what to do. And this is really helpful advice. So, how to go to your dreams step-by-step? How to meet your lady match, then maybe an introduction, then maybe a video chat?

– And another thing is too that a lot of times that I got the case that you just get bombarded with letters and messages. I mean, I have and I just lose track cause a lot of times I can’t be on the Internet all the time, cause I got to work and do things. So, I lost track of the ladies I was interested in and a couple of months later I realize “Oh, this is the lady I really wanted to get to know”. So, in a lot of cases, you probably won’t have sent a message or something, cause a lot of ladies will send you messages.

– Yeah, you can just check the messages from these ladies, check their profiles and choose one or few of these ladies who might be a good match for you.

– Yes, and kind of on a personal note to is when I get so many letters from the ladies and from somebody that I am not really interested in, I kind of feel bad because of that. Well, I can be kind and write her back but it can get expensive though if you got to write back to every lady. So then, I really talking to somebody else right now, but thanks, I mean I do not want the lady to think that I’m ignoring her.

– We have such a button…

– Oh, do you?

– Yes, we have it.

– I did not see that.

– You can, when you open a message from a lady – you have a few options there, and you can send her a message that you are not interested in her right now in such a way that “I’m sorry, but I’m in communication with another woman and I wish you good luck in your search”. And this message is free.

– Oh, okay. See, I never knew that, that is new for me.

– We are always here, as you know we work 24/7, so many of our clients can contact us via LiveChat, Viber, WhatsApp, Skype or email. And it can be even a simple question, any questions – we will answer it in 24 hours after receiving. So, if you just wondering how you can reject the lady’s message without paying for it – you can contact us and ask it. We will answer.

– Okay.

– And how do you think what is the best age difference to create a strong and happy family?

– And that’s kind of a judgment call, I would say. For some people maybe 10 years, maybe the most. For some people it may just be 5 years, for some, it’s like 15-20 or more years. I would just remember that the bigger the age gap the more difference they probably going to have, especially when you get to the generation gap 20+ years. And we talking of generation gap when your goals going to be different from her goals, she is going to want kids, you are going to be older – you already have kids, maybe they are already gone. And she going to want to start a family in most cases. So, I would just keep that in mind. My advice is to be real.

-Yeah, that’s right because it depends on the person and his or her views because sometimes the lady in her thirties’ have a mind of the lady in 20. And sometimes the lady in 20 has mid of the lady of 35 years old. So, yeah, that’s right, it depends on the person that’s first and also, you have to be realistic, that’s a good idea.

– I kind of notice that too. Lady that in her 20ies’, usually, I think different from the ladies in their 30ies’ or 40ies’.

– What do you think of that Ukrainian ladies that you have already meet? Either are they intelligent? How do they look like? Are they beautiful in their age? What do you think about them?

– Oh, they are great, very smart. The lady that I had a date last night – she has 2 degrees, very smart, beautiful and she has some good goals and hard-working. So, I mean I was impressed. Maybe some gentlemen had some bad experience with other ladies, but this lady that I’ve seen – she was a really nice, really kind, mature, good character.

– And one last questions, why did you decide to search for your woman in Ukraine? What attracts you in Ukrainian ladies?

– I get that question a lot, you know don’t you stick with American girls? First of all, I’m always traveling, so a lot of times I’m not even home in the United States. And, so I’m always moving around. My job, you know, inquires me to do that. So, it is difficult, to begin with, to meet American women in general. I meet more foreign women than do American women. American women, their mentality is more progressive, they are more interested, not all of them, there are some good ones, but a lot of them are more interested in a career, not really interested in a family. And for the Ukrainian women are the polar opposite. They are like very interested in family. Sure, they are great hard-workers too and they care about their family and they work and I consider them probably in general more responsible in many cases than Western women.

– Thank you for your time, for your answers. It will be very helpful for our clients and also, us. Thank you very much.

This is great when clients are honest and open-minded people who are happy to share with us, their experiences and appreciate our assistance.

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BRIAN (THE USA) – IRINA (UKRAINE) – MAY 2019

June 8, 2019 by


One of the most beautiful seasons is spring, isn’t it? It is a time of love and happiness. We are anxious to share with you great news. Our new couple Brian and Irina are together and planning to get married.

When did it start?

Irina and Brian got acquainted on our web site on the 6th of March. Most noteworthy, their communication from the very first chat and letter gave hope to both of them that this is for real and they both decided not to talk to anybody else on the website! In a couple of days Irina received her first romantic gift from Brian – a bouquet of flowers – it was the 8th of March – International Women’s Day! Such an action from Brian impressed her and Irina’s heartfelt that he is the One for her.

They communicated daily – sharing news, talking about everything and their feelings developed day by day! Certainly, every weekend they had video-chats. As a true gentleman, Brian helped Irina to get to the agency’s office by offering transportation to her. Hence, every single step he took to persuade Irina that he will love her, appreciate, protect and take care of his lady.
Nevertheless, they agreed to meet in Zaporizhzhia – on the 18th of May and their first meeting was fabulous!
More relevant, Irina completely showed her seriousness and she introduced Brian to her mother! Even more, her mother Tatiana was so welcoming. Therefore, she treated her future son-in-law with national cuisine which totally impressed Brian!

Moreover, their meeting was romantic and adventurous. They have seen many places in Zaporizhzhia and its region. Hence, the most exciting emotions are only awaiting this beautiful couple! Furthermore, Brian proposed to Irina and they have started the process for her to get K-1 visa!
We all congratulate Irina and Brian! We wish you a lifetime of love and happiness!

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MOTHER’S DAY

May 11, 2019 by

What a tremendous occasion is coming – Mothers Day! We have been waiting for this day anxiously as it is a very important day, even though it is not a public holiday. All people in Ukraine show their great love and appreciation for their mothers.

This year Ukraine celebrates Mother’s Day on Sunday, 12 May.

What do people do?

We bring mom flowers. A lovely bouquet of flowers symbolizes your respect and gratitude. However, various flowers have their special meanings for this very day. People also give mom a live plant. Those who are green thumbs will appreciate this present and this plant will always remind her of you. Also, people cook special meals for their moms. It may be a beautiful creative cake with waffles and ice cream on the top.

Whatever you wish – your creativity will be welcomed. Bake a cake, spend some time on this occasion and your mom will indeed appreciate your efforts. Moreover, you are free to create something special by thinking of a handmade gift. It may be some jewelry with a special symbol or clothing, hobby equipment, gift vouchers, etc. Take your mom somewhere for a great relaxing day.

You may try your best and write a poem for your mom. She will keep it forever.

Being a mom is a great and precious job. Take some time to show your gratitude to your mom – she deserves it.

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FEEDBACK ABOUT TRIP TO UKRAINE FROM OUR CLIENT ADAM

May 9, 2019 by

Welcome to Ukraine Brides Agency. Here we are always happy to share our latest news with our precious clients.

Recently, our client Adam from the USA has visited Ukraine and was glad to share his experience with UBA service and meeting organization. He pointed out how to video chat system is important before you are going to meet your lady.

We are tremendously excited about Adam’s positive review as he is indeed satisfied with our service. By the way, he was looking for a long time for a well developed trustworthy website with a great level of transparency. He confidently ensures that each lady is vetted on our site. A lady who any man talks to has been interviewed.

Nothing is better than knowing that our clients loved everything about our services and highly recommend us.

Also, Adam mentioned that travelling to Ukraine has no security issues and it is completely safe to come over here.

Please, take a look at this wonderful review from Adam.

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DAVID (THE USA) – ALIONA (UKRAINE) – APRIL 2019

April 15, 2019 by

UBA Team is tremendously happy to announce a new happy couple. Aliona and David fell in love at first sight, at the first meeting. What a coincidence! They felt so comfortable with each other. However, the relationship is a hard daily job which requires a lot of efforts and patience.

How did it start?

After 15 minutes, at the meeting, the consultant who accompanied them decided that he was unnecessary in their love atmosphere. Aliona immediately in the same evening expressed words of gratitude and happiness that fate brought them together. Moreover, despite the large distance, the difference in time, they are so identical, they feel each other at a glance, David is very warm and anxiously caring for Aliona. However, a couple, a day later in Kiev, they went to meet Alina’s children and mother, the children were delighted with David, spoke English, and most importantly, they wished them happiness, because what could be more important than their mother’s smile and full of love eyes. It was tremendously difficult for Aliona to let David go back to the USA. Nevertheless, the couple is preparing all the documents for moving to America. More relevant, David will soon take Alena and her children to America.

What a fantastic couple. You may watch the video of their love story and also wish them all the best. We believe 2019 brings more amazing happy stories.

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