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October 18, 2019 by

We offer Free and Personalized matchmaking.

How do they work?

All you need is to request matchmaking and fill in a questionnaire.

We consider Matchmaking very seriously and we will provide you with the usernames of the ladies who we feel match your criteria and personality. The list of the ladies is based on your questionnaire.

If you request a personalized form we will make a deep search on our site among all the ladies from the site according to your requirements.

Also, we will take a look at the ladies you choose if they are interested in you too. Consequently, you will know for sure they are opened to communicate with you.

How to get better results?

Here are some tips that will help you.

1. Be attentive while filling in a questionnaire form. 

Give yourself time to think, who you want to find and which criteria are important for you.

If you give more detailed answers, you will have better results.

2. While filling in the form try to be realistic about who you want to find.

Especially pay attention to the age of ladies.

Everybody wants to find a young beautiful slim lady. Sometimes people think that if she is older she is not pretty.

It’s just a stereotype. Ladies of all ages look amazing. Don’t be afraid to choose someone closer to your age. 

You may have more common interests, similar views on life and life values, so you will understand each other better. That’s why we advise looking for ladies with the age difference, not more than 15 years.

3. If you look through the list of ladies and see someone, who doesn’t match your criteria completely, don’t be disappointed. Just take a look at their profiles.

Maybe you will find out interesting information that will touch your heart. Give a chance for both of you to get to know each other better.

We believe this article was useful for you. You may find more wonderful tips and advice on our blog and get the results of your search faster.

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JAMES (ENGLAND) – IRYNA (UKRAINE) – 2019

October 13, 2019 by

One of the most beautiful seasons in Ukraine is autumn. It also brings us wonderful news about our new couples.

We are happy to share with you that James and Iryna got married this year.

We have recently received amazing news from James and Iryna. Are you excited about it? We are here to share and inspire you.

First meeting of our beautiful couple was in Mykolaiv. Here their chemistry happened and they realized it might be something special between them. Both James and Iryna like travelling, thus they decided to got to Egypt for vacation. Also, they visited some European countries. They went to Paris and Berlin and spent some time in Cyprus.

Iryna also visited James in England. She met his family. All members of James family liked Iryna and got on well with her.

They spent Christmas together in the UK and this relationship flourished. Iryna and James got married in Kyiv on the 13th of March.

James also came to Mykolaiv and met Iryna’s family. Now Iryna is in the UK. She started college and has been learning English to pass the local language test. More relevant, the couple will visit Iryna’s family soon.

James is thankful for the service we provided in arranging the first meeting for Iryna and him in Ukraine.

We are happy for both James and Iryna. Most noteworthy, learning English in the UK might be easier for Iryna. Consequently, the possibility to hear the same language around creates the right environment for learning.

We wish them prosperity, mutual understanding, and endless love.

Site founder, Keith Gordon corresponded with James many times during the time James used our services and courted Iryna. James sent this message to Keith along with his happy news:

Hello Keith.
                 Thank you for your congratulations,it was very nice to hear from you personally.
Yes, I  found your  dating services very good,and a site to be trusted.
I would have no hesitation to recommend them,to anyone.
I have  thanked your staff in Nikolaev, and now a opportunity to thank you.
It’s very important to be able to trust a site with so many scams about,.
Once again thank you Keith

James and Iryna

Hence, if you would like to see other happy couples, do not hesitate to visit our blog .

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How to Date Ukrainian Ladies Confidently

October 10, 2019 by

Now you have access to a large number of Ukrainian ladies. Congratulations! But… do you know how to confidently date Ukrainian women? In fact, there are three layers of confidence, according to modern psychology.

Your external confidence is more important than you think.

This layer of confidence is best characterized by how you look, how you walk, how you talk and how you carry yourself. Without external confidence, you won’t have a chance to showcase your internal confidence.

The first impression is determined by external confidence.

Therefore, instead of buying 10 cheap shirts this season, you’d better buy 2 shirts – each shirt should be more expensive & high-quality. For instance, previously you bought 10 cheap shirts from Kmart ($20 each); now you will buy 2 high-quality shirts from Hugo Boss ($100 each). In this way, you spend the same amount of money, but I can guarantee that shirts from Hugo Boss will last longer and will make you look (and feel) confident instantly.

Next, whenever you are talking to Ukrainian ladies, you will speak with certainty and clarity. Let’s have a look at the following two situations:

Situation 1:

I guess probably those could be books written by Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Christiane Northrup, and so on.”

Situation 2:

“Books published by Hay House are written by authors such as Dr. Joe Dispenza and Dr. Christiane Northrup.”

As you can see, in Situation 1, this person talks without certainty – the speaker hedges with modifying phrases frequently.

In contrast, in Situation 2, this person talks with certainty – hedging doesn’t exist.

Furthermore, you should smile, but don’t smile too much. Research shows that women tend to smile more than men do because women have been conditioned to believe that they should be liked by others from a young age. However, a study in Australia suggests that smiling too much shows less power and less intelligence. Certainly, I know this isn’t the most politically correct thing to say, but I don’t want to lie to you.

When a man smiles too much, he looks less trustworthy as well. Hence, you only smile when your smile is actually genuine – Ukrainian beauties will take you more seriously if your smile actually means something.

Remember: The higher your status, the less you need to smile. A CEO usually smiles less than a secretary does. Smiling too much lowers an individual’s authority.

Your lifestyle confidence is about where you derive your confidence from.

The second layer of confidence is about your career, your love life, your hobbies, your health, your social life, etc. That means you derive lifestyle confidence from different areas of a matrix.

When an individual only derives confidence from their career, this person is less attractive. Thus, you need to derive confidence from a wide variety of areas of your life.

So, it’s time to assess your lifestyle confidence: Do you spend 90 hours working every week? Do you believe that your love life means everything to you? Do you think you can’t live without your friends? Of course, these are all very important, but in order to achieve real confidence at this level, you’d better make sure various areas of the matrix can give you confidence and make you happy, thereby attracting Ukrainian ladies effortlessly.

For instance, if you are a workaholic, you will have to spend more time working on your health, your social life, and your love life. Do cultivate some hobbies because life is short.

If you spend too much time hanging out with your friends, it’s time to evaluate whether you should allocate more time and other resources to your career or your own business.

This isn’t about work/life balance. Certainly, it’s about building the second layer of confidence so that you will become a very attractive man that Ukrainian ladies like and admire.

Your core confidence is the most important layer of confidence.

Core confidence is also known as internal confidence. This layer of confidence isn’t affected by external factors. No matter what happens in your life, your confidence is backed up by your self-esteem and self-worth, so you truly love yourself. More relevant, a truly confident man knows his self-worth and has high self-esteem because he knows what he has to offer while dating a Ukrainian woman.

I know this is easier said than done, so I’d like to show you some examples regarding how to build core confidence.

  1. Furthermore, become an avid reader. Leaders are readers. I know reading books takes a lot of time, but if you don’t read books, you will have less powerful ideas. Note that you can listen to audiobooks when you are in the gym or commuting to/from work. You may read a book every two weeks. Most noteworthy, in this way, you will read 26 books a year. Honestly, many books aren’t very good; therefore, you should be choosier – only read books that you actually want to read and consider successful people’s recommendations. Consequently, you should read your role models’ biographies so that you will become like-minded.
  2. Hence, attend an educational seminar at least once a year. Most people spend money on toys and entertainment, but if you have decided to become a confident man that attracts Ukrainian ladies, you will want to invest in yourself. Moreover, that’s why you should attend educational seminars where you can learn more knowledge and improve yourself. Therefore, you will meet a lot of like-minded people who are also interested in personal development or business development.

Other words, have “me time” once a week. For instance, every Saturday afternoon is “me time” – that’s when you rejuvenate and work on yourself. Consequently, you can use “me time” to write in your journal and do some meditation. Meanwhile, science has proved that these activities are good for your internal confidence and self-esteem as well, so you may want to try these suggestions from now on.

“Your confidence is backed up by your competence.”

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Dating Ukrainian Women: How to be an outstanding conversationalist

October 8, 2019 by

Before you marry a Ukrainian bride, obviously you will meet her in person. For instance, perhaps you would like to go to Ukraine and actually date her for a while before marrying her. That’s totally understandable. When you are on a date with a Ukrainian lady, do you know how to be a good conversationalist?

How to train yourself to listen well:

First of all, you need to maintain eye contact. If you would like to see a good example, you may watch Bill Clinton’s videos on YouTube so that you will see how Bill Clinton maintains eye contact when he is talking to someone.

Here is why Bill Clinton is charismatic:

Furthermore, when someone in the audience asks him a question, Bill Clinton maintains eye contact with that person all the time while answering the question. Towards the end of his answer, Bill Clinton’s body language indicates that he is going to end it, but he still maintains eye contact with that individual. In other words, his feet begin to point at somewhere else, and then slowly, gradually he breaks eye contact. This technique is called “sticky eyes” which makes the person who asked Bill Clinton a question feel that he/she is the only person in the room.

Now you’ve understood the importance of maintaining eye contact.

Therefore, when you take a Ukrainian girl to a coffeehouse for a date, remember to maintain eye contact and try not to look elsewhere when she is talking to you. This shows your respect and interest.

Second, instead of talking about yourself too much on the date with a Ukrainian beauty, you would be well-advised to let her talk more so that you can observe her and consider what you’d really like to find out. Also, you should avoid playing conversation tennis & you’d better play conversation basketball. Let me explain.

Please have a look at two scenarios:

Scenario A:

YOU: What do you do?

HER: Artist.

YOU: Awesome. Do you like it?

HER: Yes. It’s good.

YOU: Excellent. I’m an accountant.

Scenario B:

YOU: What do you do?

HER: Artist.

YOU: That’s great. I think your work must be very interesting and highly creative when you spend a lot of time creating beautiful art. Why do you choose this profession?

Clearly, Scenario A is playing conversation tennis – both of you are trying to get the other person to talk immediately without providing much information/value in the conversation. In other words, Scenario A is about expecting the other person to give more value.

In contrast, Scenario B is playing conversation basketball – she gives you an answer, and then you provide much more value in your response. Better still, you also ask her why she wants to be an artist, which will probably help you find out two things about her: 1) her motivation at work; 2) her emotions about work. Remember: as long as you’ve figured out this Ukrainian woman’s motivation and emotions, you will feel closer to each other psychologically.

Understanding the beauty from Ukraine that you are dating:

Once the Ukrainian bride has told you why she wants to do her job, you can mentally step into her shoes and imagine her feelings, doing what she does. Then, you ask a deeper question. So, let’s continue Scenario B:

HER: I always wanted to be an artist because I was inspired by Megan Hess. She is the most successful fashion illustrator in the world. I truly love her work and she is my role model. That’s why I’m working on fashion illustration as well.

YOU: You must be very passionate about fashion illustration, so you’ve become an artist. Do you think fashion is art or just a type of business?

Above all, now you’ve asked her a much deeper question. You have to really listen to this Ukrainian lady’s answer. Keep the focus on her, as when you try to see things from her perspective, you ignite her personal passions and inner life. Hence, she will want to share everything about why she loves her work with you.

Now you’ve asked her a much deeper question. You have to really listen to this Ukrainian lady’s answer. Keep the focus on her, as when you try to see things from her perspective, you ignite her personal passions and inner life. Hence, she will want to share everything about why she loves her work with you.

Please note that Ukrainian beauties are very honest, so when she talks about whether fashion is a type of art or a kind of business, you will also know her worldview, i.e. how she understands art and how she looks at business.

Consequently, this is how you have sparkling and connected conversations with a lady from Ukraine.

How to turn awkward silences into massive attraction:

Most westerners feel uncomfortable when there is an awkward silence, but if you know how to turn this into something powerful, you will have another tool in your toolbox.

Above all, I encourage you to create silences deliberately by introducing pauses to your conversation with your Ukrainian girlfriend.

As a matter of fact, if you have to constantly talk, you look more nervous and less confident. By contrast, when you feel okay during silences, you look more relaxed and more confident.

Therefore, when you want to build massive sexual tension with the girl from Ukraine, you can talk slowly and then pause. Certainly, now you look at her eyes for a second, look at her nose for a second, look at her lips for a second, and look at her eyebrows for a second. Likewise, you don’t have to count “1, 2, 3, 4” in your head, but you’ve got the gist – your eyes are slowly “traveling” on her beautiful face during the silence.

The Ukrainian girl has seen enough romantic movies, so she understands what that means. Hence, now you’ve built massive sexual tension with her.

Consequently, chances are she is secretly thinking… “When is he going to kiss me?” And that’s exactly what you want.

Bonus tips:

  1. Always say more statements and ask fewer questions. Using statements more often, you look more confident. If you ask too many questions, you look less certain.
  2. Asking your Ukrainian stunner a question, make sure the question is meaningful and deep if you can.
  3. Hence, most statements that you say should be some kind of comment on her motivations, emotions, and feelings. Remember: women are more emotional than men, so it’s easier for you to build a strong emotional connection with your Ukrainian woman if you can connect with her emotions directly.

Examples:

HER: Making art is a soothing process. I love how it makes me feel. It’s so enjoyable and I lose myself in the art.

YOU: Oh. That’s nice. I’m impressed. It sounds like creating art has added a tremendous amount of value to your life. That even makes me want to try it, too. Tell me more about your art.

More relevant, note that in this response above, you say “I’m impressed” which is a very powerful statement that pre-frames the situation: This Ukrainian lady is here to impress you; she should prove herself to you.

Also, the longer statement is expressive, so you are going to have a real and dynamic interaction with her.

Hence, it is obvious that connecting with a lady from Ukraine means you always go deeper and understand more about her world than the boring facts that you can easily see by looking at her dating profile.

How you say it is just as important as what you say.”

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HOW TO APPRECIATE YOUR DIFFERENCES

September 13, 2019 by

Can you accurately answer: what attracts us more in the person – opposites or common qualities? The answer to this question is ambiguous and very subjective. But certainly, opposites attract us very much. On the other hand, a relationship with a person who is different in everything threatens with frequent confrontations and can destroy relations. In the early stages of relationships, we like how these differences complement relationships. After marriage, the same differences become obstacles in a common life. Consequently, all because we tend to focus on these traits or preferences and wonder why she or he cannot be the same as me? And here everything is falling apart. Instead of talking about this, we are complaining and arguing and ultimately trying to change our spouse with manipulative tactics.

The most important thing is that one should understand that a person will not change cardinally, and all his habits will most likely remain with him forever.

Most couples have little understanding of their differences and that it is what makes their relationship stronger. The biggest disappointments come when we start thinking about opposites from the point of view of right and wrong. Usually, this means: “I’m right, but you’re wrong.” Therefore, they begin the process of trying to turn their spouse into the “right” or “best option”.

We offer you two steps on the way of understanding and accepting your opposites.

1. Understand and accept your differences.

The easiest way is the way of denial. Once you humble yourself and accept your differences, everything will fall into place. Let your partner be the way he or she is because that’s how you love him\her.

2. Look at your differences as qualities that complement you.

Try to determine why this person has become so important to you, despite all its drawbacks.

Hence, once you clearly identify all the qualities that distinguish you, you will understand that they are precisely those qualities that you love in your partner. After all, if your partner changes – it will be a completely different person and your relationship will be under a very big threat. If the spouses stand together and value their differences, there is little that can prevent them from solving even the biggest problems that life can throw on them. Accepting and assessing the differences between you, you will understand how much you need each other.

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WORDS THAT EVERY LADY WOULD LIKE TO HEAR

September 5, 2019 by

From a long time, the skill of eloquence was considered as a science. And the current, the one who knows how to find the right words in time without controversy is obviously a successful person. The same applies to the relationship with the ladies. After all, to find the right words in a conversation with your lady is a great knowledge.

Earlier men could tell nice words for a lady, but then somehow they lost this skill. And it is absolutely in vain. Men should be able to say nice things to the ladies they care for. And even the already conquered lady is worth pampering her with your oratory.


So why is it so important to learn to say pleasant words to a lady?

Women love with their ears.

This slightly beaten up and a slightly annoying phrase is still absolutely true and relevant.

Without exaggeration, today it is very actual because modern ladies are not too spoiled by beautiful confessions of love, intricate compliments, sincere apologies. Moreover, to meet a man who is able to maintain a conversation on a variety of topics without stumbling along, without inserting word parasites, jargon – this is the limit of all dreams.

Certainly, it is not entirely clear why it happened that men lost the skill to talk with the ladies. Why did they start to think that squeezing once a year “You are sexy” or grumble “Well, I’m sorry” is a feat worthy of all conceivable and unimaginable awards?

Perhaps it’s all the fault of the unnecessarily tense of the 21st century with its constant rush and tendency to reduce everything that can be reduced. Look, after all, we are even too lazy to write a full-fledged “How are you?”. Instead of this, we write three simple letters. Have we forgotten how to speak?

However, men who know how to speak beautifully will always have an advantage over their brethren who believe that “all kinds of compliments and confessions of love are babbling and there is nothing to go about with these extortionists.”

You have already set out on the path of correction if you are trying to master the art of beautiful speeches, which are pleasing to any lady.

Here are some useful tips for you:

– Say everything sincerely: compliments, and confessions, and apologies, and wishes, and even – passionate obscenity. Women feel false in your words for a mile. Of course, a long speech about the lady’s beauty is already too much and only one compliment will be enough there so that the lady understands that you like her a lot.

– If you cannot say in your own words – steal ideas from the great ones. Both poets and prose writers have said so many pleasant words in their works that it will be enough for all the men of the world. You have no time to flip through thick books to find a couple of beautiful words? – Search it on the Internet then. Even if you express your sympathy with other people’s words – the lady will understand that you at least searched for the right words and really paid attention to it.

– Do not be embarrassed and do not laugh when you say something pleasant to a lady. It is clear that it is difficult to overcome embarrassment, but if you are shy and nervous, you will spoil all the impression.

How often should you say nice words for a girl?

Quite often, but so that she will not get bored with the flow of your words. In this matter, it is better to focus on the lady’s personality.

What kind of pleasant words do you need to be able to say to a lady?

Certainly, there are dozen and even hundreds of words that every lady wants to hear. In general, pleasant words for each of the ladies are confessions of love, compliments, apologies. All the words and phrases, that conveys your care, for example, wishes for a speedy recovery, etc.

Each lady wants you to notice her beauty, mind and other virtues.

Talk about her specific merits, and not just limit yourself to the general phrases “You’re so beautiful”, “You’re so sexy,” etc.

Most noteworthy, there is something she considers her worth – find out what it is and praise it.

More relevant, it is better not to remember her shortcomings. Ladies are so arranged that at any age they will find a reason to be dissatisfied with their appearance. Probably, if you know that she thinks her legs are crooked (this may not be so, but it seems to her), then do not invent a compliment about her legs. You can only make it worse.

Remember diversity. Do not say the same things, it gets boring. Even if you come up with a terrific compliment, you should not repeat it every day.

Above all, look for new words that will help you to express your admiration for the lady.

Hence, just imagine what trump cards you will have if you learn to say beautiful words of love and defy embarrassment to speak calmly and confidently.

Yes, you will master any woman’s heart!

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4 ESSENTIAL LOVE TIPS TO GET THE SPARK BACK

August 31, 2019 by

We all are different and time may change lots of things in your relationship. When you think about your partner and the way that you usually feel when you are together, what comes to your mind? Are these words positive or negative? It is all about your feelings.

If the spark has faded and gone out in your relationship then maybe you have to reload your mind and change your attitude to something…

Try these love tips to bring the spark back and see what happens.

#1: Be Yourself. Be more You.

If you’ve become bogged down in your day-to-day routine of chores and lists of things you have to do for work and home, you may lose yourself and not be that one who you really are. To bring more spark to your relationship, start by bringing more spark to YOU. Certainly, do not forget to do what you like, pay special attention to your hobby. Therefore, this will help you to return to what makes your heart sing and will let you be inspired and have energy.

#2: Learn your partner.

Do you attribute your partner to “passive”, “lazy”, “aggressive” or “controlling”? If the labels you apply to your partner are mostly negative, not only does this kill connection, it also is probably not completely accurate. Consequently, invite yourself to see the bigger picture. Furthermore, this might take practice if you have been viewing your partner. Hence, when you come from a more objective perspective, you may find that your partner can be more and does far more than you think.

#3: Question expectations.

Think about what you expect from your partner and question whether or not that’s true now and will necessarily be true in the future. This opens the door for new and exciting possibilities.

#4: Calm your fears

Most noteworthy, most of the time, when we are not experiencing what we want, It is fear that is keeping us frozen in place. However, as much as you want more passion in your marriage, maybe there is a part of you that is afraid to give your all to this relationship. Moreover, maybe you were hurt in the past and you are resistant to being vulnerable again.

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INDEPENDENCE DAY IN UKRAINE

August 23, 2019 by

Ukraine Brides Agency is happy to share with you more news about Ukrainian traditions and holidays.

Have you ever traveled to Ukraine? Have you ever visited this blooming and joyful country? If not, now is the best time to do it.

Summertime is a great choice to start your trip. We have a lot of beautiful places to see and fascinating holidays to celebrate. Join us and we will tell you what a wonderful country is waiting for you.

Furthermore, Ukraine is an amazing country which has much to celebrate. One of the largest celebratory days in the Ukrainian calendar is Independence Day on August 24, which is a public holiday.

What do Ukraine people usually do on this special day?

Ukrainians are cheerful and optimistic people who like to celebrate the Day of Independence in Ukraine with marvelous fireworks, concerts, and festivals.

You have a great opportunity to see famous and traditional Ukrainian clothing. However, Ukrainians love to wear national blouses with traditional ornaments on them. Certainly, you may not see people wearing traditional clothes every day but on holidays in Kiev, you would definitely get this opportunity.

Outdoor exhibitions are a fantastic opportunity to see fascinating pictures painted by talented people. Hence, it is popular to set up free public markets and people may try tasty national Ukrainian food and drinks. Nevertheless, on this day young people always paint their faces in blue and yellow colors. Ukrainians walk outside with the country’s flag to show their honor and respect.

Independence Day is a national public holiday and that is why many shops, museums, government offices, banks, and universities are closed.

Moreover, every year you may watch an annual concert where famous Ukrainian singers are singing their most popular songs to raise the people spirits even higher.

More relevant, children love this holiday because there are lots of amusements open for kids.

Most noteworthy, this holiday honors the memory of those who made the ultimate sacrifice to gain the independence of Ukraine and to provide the best life for this country.

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DATING OLDER WOMEN

August 17, 2019 by

Age should never stand in the way of true love. If you’re considering dating older women, here are some top tips for you:

You should know your age. Here is the breakdown of how the differences of women change as they get older:

25-30 years old:

Ladies in that age range are “older” only if you are in your late teens. Such women are starting to wise up and they’re seriously looking for future husbands. They still will be out to have a good time, but you should understand that getting into a relationship with these women means that they see you as having long term potential.

– 30-40 years old:

These ladies are very interested in having kids as this is the “last call for kids” age range. So if you are not interested in having kids yet, don’t waste what little time they have left. Let them find their partners.

– 40-60+ years old:

That’s too old! – you might say, but you’re wrong. There are a lot of benefits that age can bring to women.

You need to convince her. Hence, one thing that almost all older women have in common is that they know that their looks have faded. Consequently, they may still have confidence in their appearance, but it mostly only goes so far as to expect attention only from men that are around their age or older. So how do you convince them? Well, it is quite simple. Actions can speak louder than words in some cases but make sure it’s clear that this isn’t just you giving them charity compliments.

Most noteworthy, they know what they want and this is one of the great benefits of older women. Certainly, they do not play games. Even more, make sure that you’re always honest with them about what you want and where things are going. Don’t think that these women only want a serious relationship, many of them do not want it. That depends on their history.

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5 SIGNS HOW TO UNDERSTAND YOUR PARTNER IS NOT THE ONE

August 13, 2019 by

It’s easy to feel incredibly close and connected with someone you’re dating at the beginning of the relationship, but after a while, the honeymoon period ends, and then you find out whether the two of you suit each other or not.

There are signs that the person you’re with is not “The One.


YOU INTUITIVELY KNOW YOUR PARTNER IS WRONG FOR YOU

It happens sometimes when you just come to know in your heart that no matter how perfect and wonderful this person may be, and no matter how much you wish with every fiber of your being that you could actually love this person … [he or she] is not the right one for you. If this is the case, it may be best to say goodbye to love.

YOU ARE NOT ON THE SAME PAGE

If you disagree on major topics, things might not work out, which is why it’s wise to discuss such things in the first year or so. Whether it comes to finances, religion, kids, or other issues. If you two are just not clicking on major topics, you’re not with ‘The One.

YOU DON’T TRUST YOUR PARTNER

If you don’t trust or respect your partner, or they don’t trust or give respect to you, this is a near-impossible problem to fix. Once trust and respect are lost, then so is the relationship. In order for a relationship to be successful, it has to be built on a strong foundation, which includes trust and respect.

USED TO LOVED THINGS ARE REPELLENT NOW

Little things and not so little things start to bother you about this person, and many of the personality traits that drew you to this person in the first place are … the selfsame things that start to repel you. If you find yourself unsettled by the way your partner is, and disinterested in being understanding of them and trying to figure out how to make things work, they may not be a good fit for you.

YOU CAN’T IMAGINE THE FUTURE TOGETHER

Even if you’re happy together, it’s a sign that you might not be together forever if you can’t really imagine what it would be like to be with them for many years. You just don’t see a future with them. You can’t see yourself growing old with them. If you can’t see yourself living happily ever after — regardless of any challenges that you may be facing, big or small — chances are, he or she is not ‘The One.

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