At Ukraine Brides Agency, we offer a video chat feature so that men and Slavic ladies can chat online more effectively. Today I’d like to share with you some powerful tips about how to stand out and be outstanding.
Wear a true red tie.
Yes, red. Pure red.
Psychologists point out that red is the most attractive color as it gets attention fast. For instance, anything packaged in red can sell reasonably well; therefore, red is often used in sales, advertising, and marketing. Dating is the only situation where both parties are buying and selling at the same time. Hence, just wear a red tie – remember, you are packaging yourself for an international relationship.
When you start a video chat with a Ukrainian woman, instead of asking ‘How are you?’, it would be better to ask her, ‘How was your day?’ or ‘How have you been today?’. In this way, she doesn’t have to answer a generic question. Instead, she will feel closer to you emotionally.
Also, rather than trying very hard to impress a woman all the time, you can demonstrate this attitude: you are trying to find out if this woman meets your standards. You can turn the tables instantly.
During the online video chat, please don’t touch your hair, face, or shirt. You don’t want to look nervous or edgy. A dating coach even argues that men can wear some makeup when necessary. I know this is very controversial in our society. However, if you look significantly better in person than on camera, you may consider wearing some makeup, i.e., some eyeliner and a little bit of foundation.
Speak with a gentle voice.
When you lower your pitch so you sound gentler and more masculine, the Ukrainian woman will feel that you are paying full attention to her. Well, if you actually feel nervous, it’s okay to drink some wine to relax and loosen up a bit. Remember to drink moderately!
If you do feel quite nervous or overwhelmed before an online video chat, you have to surrender to your feelings because feelings are not facts (they are just feelings). Therapeutic surrender can immediately reduce your anxiety.
What’s more, you would be well-advised to manage your micro-expressions, i.e., subtle facial expressions. For instance, to look more self-confident, you have to try and relax the muscle between your eyebrows.
Moreover, you must be okay with silence during the online video chat. The silence is only awkward if you think it’s awkward.
I would argue that when you introduce silence to the video chat deliberately, the Ukrainian lady might feel a little nervous – this can help build chemistry between the both of you faster.
According to NLP, when you mirror a woman’s behaviour, she likes you more. That means if her voice is louder, you can also speak with a louder voice. Yet if her voice is lower, your voice needs to be lower, too. This strategy will help amplify the attraction between you quickly.
Please do not sit too close to the camera/screen.
Most men look a bit better when they sit slightly away from the camera/screen. If you sit too close to your laptop, chances are the effect is too close for comfort.
Also, you would be well-advised to display a classy and elegant background in your video. Make sure that you are not showing a Ukrainian woman a very messy room.
A good question to ask a Ukrainian lady is, “What’s…?” That can be, “What’s in the photo on your wall?” That is to say, if something in the woman’s video makes you curious, you are supposed to ask her. This is a good way to break the ice.
Incidentally, please do not imitate James Bond. A lot of men assume that if they behave as cool as James Bond, ladies will like them more. Unfortunately, this is a huge mistake. You must make sure you give positive & warm vibes so that you look more natural and approachable.
Usually, it’s okay to imitate a male celebrity that you admire, especially if that’s a celebrity that you look like to some degree. You can analyze that male celebrity’s gestures and facial expressions & use those to your advantage.
Towards the end of a video chat, you can pay the Ukrainian woman a very subtle compliment like ‘You are so sweet’. Remember to say thanks when the video chat ends. Good manners, as well as etiquette, also matter on the Internet.
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We have plenty more information, tips, tricks and more covered on our site, Ukraine Brides Agency. Feel free to check out our online dating blogs which will give you advice that will help you gain knowledge about various situations. You can also learn more about Eastern European women so you will be more prepared. Register today so you can get one step closer to finding your soulmate!
Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
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