An international relationship ages over time like a fine wine

A fine wine ages pretty well; it becomes more subtle, layered, and complex. We appreciate the process of drinking fine wine; we savour the whole experience rather than guzzle it down quickly.

As I see it, relationships in the long term are pretty much the same: a serious relationship takes its time and fully shows every aspect of the connection. There is no KPI to focus on; a happy couple simply enjoys their true love as it gradually unfolds over time.

A high-quality international relationship is all about appreciating each moment.

Many people get into relationships while wondering, “What’s in it for me?” But that is not how this world works because you can only get what you give in life & in love.

Law of Reciprocity

Don’t forget that the Law of Reciprocity is absolutely real. If you proactively offer your partner good value first, your partner will also reciprocate if she is a good person. That’s exactly why ‘invest and test’ is a good strategy in dating and relationships. You would be well-advised to invest in this relationship first and then test your partner’s reaction. If she isn’t investing in this relationship willingly, you must walk away in time before the relationship is pushed to crisis point.

Relationships & Being In Love

In a healthy relationship, you tend to savour the entire experience of being in love instead of consuming it fast to get what you want right now. Honestly, you get your needs met by meeting your partner’s needs. In other words, if you can’t meet your partner’s needs in the first place, you can’t expect your partner to meet your needs either. Never ask for what you can’t give in a win-win situation when it comes to the amount of value that every person offers in a relationship. That is to say, while you are looking for a high-value partner, you have to ask yourself whether you are a high-value partner. This is because, in life, you only attract who you are. You don’t get what you want in life; you only get who you are (everything that is happening in your life is teaching you who you actually are!)

A healthy international relationship becomes easier over time.

I’ve noticed that older couples usually have better and more stable relationships because they understand each other fully. More importantly, they understand themselves better. They have developed a profound understanding of how relationships work as well.

Some people argue that many relationships cannot last for a long time. The majority of serious relationships are quite stressful. Indeed, in Western countries, the divorce rate is approximately 50% these days. In my opinion, a wonderful international relationship can surely become easier with age if you age well.  

Note that if you strongly believe anything that is different from what you were like at 20 years old is not good enough, you won’t age well. You will begin to feel old and inadequate. In order to age well, you have to genuinely appreciate every positive aspect which comes with age over time, e.g., patience, confidence, wisdom & more freedom/time.

A mediocre relationship can’t stand the test of time, whereas a sustainable relationship ages really well like a fine wine! If you are ready for international dating, please don’t hesitate to join Ukraine Brides Agency today and start your journey right now.

Olga P

Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.