Dating advice

Dating advice


November 14, 2019 by

Due to the nature of my work, I’ve met a large number of western men who are dating Ukrainian women. Therefore, I’d like to summarize my findings today.

Many western men dating Ukrainian ladies have high-profile jobs.

Statistics show that a lot of western men dating women from Ukraine are doing very well career-wise. At least 50% of them are executives, CEOs, and entrepreneurs.

Jake is a successful media executive who works for one of the most well-known media companies in the world. His dating preference is ladies from Ukraine. Jake is 28 years old and he got this high-profile job before he graduated from university. Certainly, this isn’t very common, so I interviewed Jake.

ME: Could you talk about how you got involved in important projects before graduation?

JAKE: Years ago, when I was still studying at university, I had quite a few very well-known lecturers and professors who were the leading experts in the industry.

As I always have my radar on, I know who I need to meet. My university days were no exception. Therefore, I decided to make sure those leading experts would mentor me, although many people were saying that those experts were really demanding and strict because they often gave students a low grade or even a Fail grade. However, now I am going to share one example of how I did it successfully so that you can learn from this real story (In order to respect privacy, let me call this mentor ‘Mr. Smith’ so that he won’t be identified):

I was very attentive in class, and one day my opportunity came.

Mr. Smith was teaching a core course which was the cornerstone of the entire degree. While other students were worried about their grades because they really wanted to pass the course, I was pretty sure I would pass the course — better than that, I had a feeling that Mr. Smith would become my mentor in the future as well.

One assignment of this course was to write an essay for a particular website. I completed the essay very well. Two weeks later, Mr. Smith asked each student to do individual conferencing with him so that he could discuss the outcome and feedback on each essay. Apparently, students were a bit anxious to face the strict Mr. Smith one-on-one.

When it was my turn, Mr. Smith said to me: ‘You write beautifully. What is your background? How do you know these concepts so well?’

So basically, I told him a bit about myself and explained what resources I have used.

Then Mr. Smith showed me the grade that he gave me: 98%. At the same time, he said: ‘I haven’t given anyone a high grade like this since a long time ago. But your input is really impressive.’

My heart was filled with joy. Better still, what Mr. Smith told me next was a turning point in my lifehe said: In fact, I am running the national project of this topic, so Id like you to do it with me. Just come to my office on Thursday.’

Life was never the same after that Thursday.

That was only one story among many similar things that I did at university. That was why when I graduated from university, I already had many referees and job offers, whereas most graduates were complaining about the economy.

I worked hard for that. More importantly, I worked smart for that.

When demanding professors and lecturers were teaching the class, my expectation was not just ‘I have to pass the course’. Instead, my much higher expectations set me apart from fellow students.

Always have high expectations and work towards your expectations. Similarly, I expect to date high-quality women only, so I only meet Ukrainian women who are absolutely beautiful.

ME: I’m so impressed. I know many western men dating Ukrainian ladies are very smart and capable. And a growing number of western men between 25 and 30 have become interested in meeting Ukrainian ladies as well.

Western men dating Ukrainian women are very switched-on.

Greg is a 31-year-old guy from Florida. He is a published author and columnist. Most of the time, he writes content about career advice for men. Because I don’t want to miss out on his insights, I interviewed Greg, too.

ME: I read your article called “Who Can Really Help You with Your Career?” the other day and it blew my mind. Would you like to share your insights with our audience at today?

GREG: I’d like to let you know that your friends can’t help you with your career.

At least the majority of your friends can’t.

That’s because if your friends can help you with your career, they must have done it already.  Your friends are people just like you.  They are your peer group.

The brutal truth is: your acquaintances are more likely to help you with your career because they are out of your league – they have the right resources and connections that you desire.

Where are those acquaintances who may become your mentors?  Figure out where they are and you should be there too, and then you just add value to them – ask yourself, “How can I make this person more successful?”  Once you give the value that they need, they will help you (this is the Principle of Reciprocity).

Everyone has problems, no matter how successful they are.  Therefore, you need to figure out how you can help them to solve their problems.

In life, you don’t get what you want, you get what you give.

You don’t get what you want, you get who you are.  And your reality is teaching you who you really are. For example, I’m dating a gorgeous woman from Ukraine who absolutely adores me. I’m pretty sure that’s the feedback that life has given me.

ME: Yes, I’ve met your Ukrainian girlfriend. She is absolutely beautiful! I know you have given your Ukrainian lady some career advice in terms of finding direction in her career. Could you please share your wisdom with us as well?

GREG: I have received many emails from people asking me what they should do work-wise.

Instead of telling them to apply for jobs that are directly relevant to what they studied at university, I tend to reply with these messages:

What did you enjoy doing when you were a child?

What are your natural inclinations?

What are you curious about now?

What is the thing that is obvious to you but it’s amazing to others?

In conclusion, western men dating women from Ukraine are successful and wise. Most noteworthy, they have impressive career ambitions, so they don’t want to have high-maintenance relationships. (Sadly, most relationships with western women are high-maintenance, as evidenced by the high divorce rate in western countries nowadays). Hence, ambitious, intelligent and switched-on western men tend to marry Ukrainian brides.

“Relationships with Ukrainian women are less stressful, so western men can have more time and energy to focus on their careers.”

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November 7, 2019 by

Today is a good day to answer a very bothering question “Why do men need an interpreter at the meeting?”

The first meeting is very exciting. Both men and ladies get ready for the meeting seriously beginning with their appearance and finishing by the decision to use the services of an interpreter or not.

Likewise, sometimes men don’t care about interpreters even if they and their ladies don’t speak on each other’s language. There are three reasons for such behavior. 


 “Why should I pay for an interpreter if the lady doesn’t know English?” 


“We have google translator, so we will understand each other”.


“We don’t need any third person at the meeting, because it will be uncomfortable.”

Consequently, let’s discuss all these situations.

First of all, an interpreter is someone, who helps you and your lady to communicate with each other. As you are in a foreign country and you don’t know its language you should ask yourself a question: “How will I understand my lady?”

Even if your lady doesn’t know English, please mind, that you speak neither Ukrainian nor Russian. Hence, it is obvious that you need someone, who will help you to communicate. 

Some men say that google translator will be enough. However, are you sure that in such a case your words will be understood correctly? Most noteworthy, on the strength of our experience, the answer is “no”. There was one couple who broke up their relations after the first meeting without the interpreter. 

The man thought the lady was in a hurry and said to her that she had to go. The lady didn’t understand why he was telling that all the time as she had no other things to do, so she decided he wasn’t interested in communication or was hurrying to the meeting with other ladies. After this date, the man shared his impressions by saying that she had no time to be with him. Certainly, they just misunderstood each other because of using google translator. Google can’t translate correctly. Even if you try to translate a sentence you will have the translation of only separated words. That’s why you will lose the sense of your words and the main idea of what you are trying to say. 

Here are a few examples

As for interpreters, they translate not the words but the whole sentences trying to pass the main idea, intonation, and mood of the phrase from speaker to listener, so you will easily understand each other. 

Yes, he will be the third person, but he will help you if you don’t know what to say or how to ask your question. If somebody is late for the meeting or there happened some unexpected nuances during the meeting, the interpreter can help you to solve any issue. The translation isn’t as easy as you may think. The interpreter should find a key to both lady and man to explain their thoughts correctly. Consequently, it is very hard work and it can’t be made for free. It is worth paying as interpreters are the “bridges” which connect you and your lady. We hope this information will help you to prepare for the first meeting.

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October 31, 2019 by

As we know, the first date is an exciting time when everybody has hopes for better, makes plans and gets ready for a wonderful meeting. However, it is hard to decide what to do, where to go and what to talk about on a first date.

We are pleased to give you a couple of ideas of places to visit on the first meeting with your lady.

We are pleased to give you a couple of ideas of places to visit on the first meeting with your lady.

The first meeting is something special. It is the first time you will be so close to each other, look into each other’s eyes, in other words, see each other in real life.

Both ladies and men prepare for this meeting thoroughly to make a great first impression. More relevant, choosing the correct place is as important as choosing clothes.

What to do?

It has as many answers as many people live on Earth because everybody has his own opinion. Some people say it depends on the lady’s character and interests. That means, if she likes animals, you should go to the zoo; if she listens to rock music, then it should be a concert; or, if she likes to sing, the perfect place is karaoke.

Moreover, does it really work?

We don’t think so, as the main goal of the meeting is to get to know each other better, not to do hobbies.

What to choose then?

The Internet has lots of variants. Let’s discuss the most popular ones. We combined all the answers into several groups.

The first one combines the zoo, museums, exhibitions and theme parks.

All these places are very interesting and specific.

Internet has lots of variants. Let’s discuss the most popular ones. We combined all answers into several groups. 
The first one combines zoo, museums, exhibitions and theme parks.

Even if you know the hobbies of your lady, you won’t be able to guarantee she will enjoy such a place. So be attentive.

There you will have time to talk and to have a good rest. The only thing is that such places are so attractive and interesting that you may forget why you are there.

You should not only enjoy the place but also try to enjoy conversation with your lady.

Another group consists of night clubs, karaoke, bowling, concerts, theaters, and cinemas.

Another group consists of night clubs, karaoke, bowling, concerts, theaters and cinemas.

Sure you may spend a great time, but you won’t get closer to your mate, as your attention will be on screen, scene or game, so you’ll have no time to speak.

You’ll have bright memories of your activities, but not of each other.

That’s why such places are not good for the first meeting. The next group is represented by parks, restaurants, and cafes.

Next group is represented by parks, restaurants and cafes.

And it’s the winner of our list.

These places are less noisy, calm and cozy. There you can concentrate your attention on each other, ask bothering questions, listen to life stories.

Whether you are walking in the park or drinking tea in a café or restaurant, the atmosphere is more private and dispositive to the conversation.

And the last group is called “Places not to visit in any case”, and the first one is your hotel room.

If you don’t want to offend a lady, never invite her to your hotel room, especially on the first date!

Even if you have good intentions it may cause a big misunderstanding.

Ladies may take such an offer as a sign, which means, that a man isn’t looking for a long-term relationship. So that may break up your relations.

Another bad place is the shopping mall.

Ladies love shopping very much. Even if they have no money, they can “travel” through lots of shops, searching looking for something special. Consequently, it may last for hours.

Likewise, don’t waste your time and money on buying things instead of learning something new about each other. Even if you prefer going to café or cinema, don’t choose those, which are in huge shopping centers.

That was the last advice for today, and we think now you will make the right choice of the first place for meeting.

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October 24, 2019 by

Nowadays various stereotypes appear more often and may influence someone’s mind easily. We will find out if the stereotypes about Ukrainian ladies are true.



Hence, let’s start with the most famous one which is that Ukrainian ladies are the most beautiful. And that’s true. Our ladies pay great attention to their appearance. Wherever they go, whatever the weather is, they always look fantastic. It doesn’t mean that ladies can’t live without make-up. It means they look tidy and stylish in any situation whether they are shopping at the supermarket, visiting the cinema or get ready for a date.

That’s why it’s impossible not to fall in love with them.

Excellent housewives

Yes, they are really great at doing household duties. The house will always be clean and have a marvelous scent of tasty dishes. Such things as ironing, washing, cleaning, and cooking are just usual things to do.

However, our ladies are modern and likewise, want to realize themselves. Most noteworthy, they can combine household duties with upbringing their children and career. Hence, you should not think they will just stay at home because they can do much more than you think.

Furthermore, one more true is that Ukrainian ladies value family. Most of the Ukrainian ladies are family-oriented. They know the secret of making coziness at home. It’s love. Even more, if your lady will go for work 5 days a week, you won’t feel a lack of love or communication as she will find time to share her emotions, happiness, and support with you.

Our ladies are wise. Hence, they know how to get good results by making many things simultaneously.


More relevant, our ladies are not only wise but also smart and well-educated. Most of the Ukrainian women have a degree in the field of science they studied. Certainly, this makes them professionals at their job. But they never stop learning something new. They have lots of activities such as going in for sports, singing, reading, being outside, traveling, etc.

Most noteworthy, you’ll never be bored and maybe will find something in common to have a great time together.

Hence, taking to the point all information said before we can make a conclusion that Ukrainian ladies are hard-working. They never stop developing themselves as there are no limits on the way to perfection.

But there is still one more stereotype left.

Some people think that if Ukrainian ladies are looking for a soulmate abroad, they are desperate in love and fully disappointed in Ukrainian men. It’s the only one stereotype that is false. Our Ukrainian brides know how to create happiness without depending on men. Consequently, the only reason why some of them are still lonely is that they just haven’t met the one to live the whole life together. Certainly, ladies are opened to new experiences and meetings.

Hence, they try not to restrict their search to one country. Even more, it doesn’t matter how far they live, they will inevitably meet each other. And we hope you’ll meet your Ukrainian bride on our site.

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October 24, 2019 by

Eastern European ladies are well-known for their beauty, femininity, and elegance. It is said that these women are ideal girlfriends. According to American author Roosh V, women from Eastern Europe are the best girlfriends. Have you wondered why this is a fact?

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Eastern European women don’t waste money.

Adam is an Australian guy who is dating an Eastern European lady. Last year I interviewed his girlfriend, an intelligent woman with a wealth of wisdom.

ME: Today is Boxing Day and you are happy to do this interview. Could you tell me why not going shopping on Boxing Day is probably a wise decision?

HER: Today is Boxing Day in Australia and the shopping malls are full of shoppers. But I never go shopping on Boxing Day & here are my reasons:

1. Boxing Day’s sales make people buy things they don’t really need.

Being able to tell the difference between things you want and things you need is very important for your financial success.

If you are interested in becoming financially successful, this is a very helpful question to ask –

Before you buy something, ask yourself, “Do I want this? Or do I need it?” If you need it, you should buy it. But if you want it, just don’t buy it.

On Boxing Day, everyone is busy looking at discounts rather than whether these are necessities or not. Therefore, people are more likely to buy things they don’t even need on Boxing Day.

2. Shopping on Boxing Day is very time-consuming, which means you’ll lose time in the process. And time is your most precious asset.

Many people are very careful when it comes to spending their money, but in terms of spending their time, they spend it like billionaires!

Because the queue is too long on Boxing Day, you’ll have to waste a lot of your time while shopping on this day – Some shoppers were waiting in the queue before 5am this morning! And the shops weren’t open until 9am or even 11am!

If I get a bargain on Boxing Day, it may save me $50 or even $100. However, I will never waste hours for that bargain because that amount of time brings me more money than what the bargain saves me.

I hope this makes sense and can help retail workers get some more rest during the Christmas holidays in the future.

I really admire this beautiful Eastern European lady’s insight into money and time. Hence, when Adam told me that his girlfriend is a successful businesswoman in Australia now, I wasn’t surprised at all.

Ladies from Eastern Europe look very youthful.

Joe is a New Zealand guy who is engaged to an Eastern European fiancée. She is 39 years old, but she looks like a lady in her late 20s, so I have to interview her!

ME: What’s the fountain of youth?

HER: Actually, inner health is the prerequisite of outer beauty. That is to say, outer beauty reflects inner health. In my opinion, a woman who understands radical self-love should treat her body with the respect it deserves by warding off toxins externally and internally.

ME: Do you eat or drink anything special?

HER: Every day, I eat cinnamon. It’s a spice that is high in antioxidants. Modern science has proved that cinnamon can turn on longevity-related genes because it activates neuroprotective proteins and can reduce the negative effects of oxidative damage. Apart from that, I drink whole citrus bergamot earl grey tea every morning. Even more, this wonderful tea removes toxins from my cells and keeps my heart very healthy, thereby improving insulin sensitivity to lower blood sugar and decreasing total cholesterol and triglyceride levels. Likewise, I drink green tea in the afternoon, as green tea can increase metabolism and reduce anxiety. And when I’m cooking, I only use coconut oil – it is nature’s richest source of healthy medium-chain fatty acids, so it’s the perfect ingredient.

ME: Do you have any beauty rituals?

HER: Yes, I do. I have a facial and a massage every two weeks. This is more than just a luxurious form of pampering because it’s been shown to help reduce anxiety, pains, and aches (it can relieve sore muscles). Hence, my favorite massage types are Swedish massage and deep-tissue massage. Furthermore, I only use skin-care products from Estee Lauder and makeup from NARS.

Eastern European women have realistic expectations.

Unlike western women who think they deserve the best at all times, Eastern European ladies tend to have more realistic expectations, so it’s hard to let them down!

Ted’s partner is an Eastern European lady who has shared her insights into realistic expectations with me.

ME: What’s the difference between western women’s expectations and Eastern European women’s expectations?

HER: A while ago, I watched a YouTube video called ‘A Drink with Louise Roe’ in which fashion blogger Louise Roe talks about why western women have extremely high expectations in every area of their lives. Most noteworthy, I think the mainstream media taught western women to be that way. But in Eastern European culture, women are more practical. Consequently, instead of looking for “the dream guy”, we are happy to date “the real guy”.

ME: Indeed. When we pursue perfection, we always feel that we are not good enough. Yet when we pursue progress, we can feel we are good enough.

HER: Yes. Perfection doesn’t exist, so it’s impossible to reach. Brene Brown once said, “Perfection is a self-destructive and addictive belief system which fuels this primary thought: Certainly, if I look perfect and do everything perfectly, I can avoid or minimize the painful feelings of shame, judgment, and blame.” Most noteworthy, too many western women spend too much time trying to perfect something before they actually take action. Instead of waiting for perfection, I’d rather run with what I’ve got and fix it as I go.

ME: Just like Harriet Braiker famously said, “Striving for excellence motivates you; striving for perfection is demoralizing.” It seems that many Eastern European women are satisficers. Certainly, by that I mean a lot of women from Eastern Europe can accept good enough, don’t obsess over options, move on after deciding and end up being happier with outcomes.

HER: Exactly. Hence, as a perfectionist is an opposite: A perfectionist exhaustively seeks the best options, compare everything against others to an unhealthy extent, spend too much time and energy and end up unhappier with the outcomes.

ME: As I see it, there is a difference between perfectionism and excellence. Excellence is knowing when good enough is good enough. Consequently, why not let it be good enough?

HER: Couldn’t agree more. The pursuit of perfection oftentimes impedes improvement. Certainly, giving up perfection has a lot of benefits. First, there is more time available because trying to be perfect wastes time. Second, Eastern European women are easier to get along with because we are less stressed and less worried about whether we are perfect or not.

“Eastern European ladies are more youthful, frugal and practical.”

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Our Matchmaking Services

October 18, 2019 by

We offer Free and Personalized matchmaking.

How do they work?

All you need is to request matchmaking and fill in a questionnaire.

We consider Matchmaking very seriously and we will provide you with the usernames of the ladies who we feel match your criteria and personality. The list of the ladies is based on your questionnaire.

If you request a personalized form we will make a deep search on our site among all the ladies from the site according to your requirements.

Also, we will take a look at the ladies you choose if they are interested in you too. Consequently, you will know for sure they are opened to communicate with you.

How to get better results?

Here are some tips that will help you.

1. Be attentive while filling in a questionnaire form. 

Give yourself time to think, who you want to find and which criteria are important for you.

If you give more detailed answers, you will have better results.

2. While filling in the form try to be realistic about who you want to find.

Especially pay attention to the age of ladies.

Everybody wants to find a young beautiful slim lady. Sometimes people think that if she is older she is not pretty.

It’s just a stereotype. Ladies of all ages look amazing. Don’t be afraid to choose someone closer to your age. 

You may have more common interests, similar views on life and life values, so you will understand each other better. That’s why we advise looking for ladies with the age difference, not more than 15 years.

3. If you look through the list of ladies and see someone, who doesn’t match your criteria completely, don’t be disappointed. Just take a look at their profiles.

Maybe you will find out interesting information that will touch your heart. Give a chance for both of you to get to know each other better.

We believe this article was useful for you. You may find more wonderful tips and advice on our blog and get the results of your search faster.

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How to Date Ukrainian Ladies Confidently

October 10, 2019 by

Now you have access to a large number of Ukrainian ladies. Congratulations! But… do you know how to confidently date Ukrainian women? In fact, there are three layers of confidence, according to modern psychology.

Your external confidence is more important than you think.

This layer of confidence is best characterized by how you look, how you walk, how you talk and how you carry yourself. Without external confidence, you won’t have a chance to showcase your internal confidence.

The first impression is determined by external confidence.

Therefore, instead of buying 10 cheap shirts this season, you’d better buy 2 shirts – each shirt should be more expensive & high-quality. For instance, previously you bought 10 cheap shirts from Kmart ($20 each); now you will buy 2 high-quality shirts from Hugo Boss ($100 each). In this way, you spend the same amount of money, but I can guarantee that shirts from Hugo Boss will last longer and will make you look (and feel) confident instantly.

Next, whenever you are talking to Ukrainian ladies, you will speak with certainty and clarity. Let’s have a look at the following two situations:

Situation 1:

I guess probably those could be books written by Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Christiane Northrup, and so on.”

Situation 2:

“Books published by Hay House are written by authors such as Dr. Joe Dispenza and Dr. Christiane Northrup.”

As you can see, in Situation 1, this person talks without certainty – the speaker hedges with modifying phrases frequently.

In contrast, in Situation 2, this person talks with certainty – hedging doesn’t exist.

Furthermore, you should smile, but don’t smile too much. Research shows that women tend to smile more than men do because women have been conditioned to believe that they should be liked by others from a young age. However, a study in Australia suggests that smiling too much shows less power and less intelligence. Certainly, I know this isn’t the most politically correct thing to say, but I don’t want to lie to you.

When a man smiles too much, he looks less trustworthy as well. Hence, you only smile when your smile is actually genuine – Ukrainian beauties will take you more seriously if your smile actually means something.

Remember: The higher your status, the less you need to smile. A CEO usually smiles less than a secretary does. Smiling too much lowers an individual’s authority.

Your lifestyle confidence is about where you derive your confidence from.

The second layer of confidence is about your career, your love life, your hobbies, your health, your social life, etc. That means you derive lifestyle confidence from different areas of a matrix.

When an individual only derives confidence from their career, this person is less attractive. Thus, you need to derive confidence from a wide variety of areas of your life.

So, it’s time to assess your lifestyle confidence: Do you spend 90 hours working every week? Do you believe that your love life means everything to you? Do you think you can’t live without your friends? Of course, these are all very important, but in order to achieve real confidence at this level, you’d better make sure various areas of the matrix can give you confidence and make you happy, thereby attracting Ukrainian ladies effortlessly.

For instance, if you are a workaholic, you will have to spend more time working on your health, your social life, and your love life. Do cultivate some hobbies because life is short.

If you spend too much time hanging out with your friends, it’s time to evaluate whether you should allocate more time and other resources to your career or your own business.

This isn’t about work/life balance. Certainly, it’s about building the second layer of confidence so that you will become a very attractive man that Ukrainian ladies like and admire.

Your core confidence is the most important layer of confidence.

Core confidence is also known as internal confidence. This layer of confidence isn’t affected by external factors. No matter what happens in your life, your confidence is backed up by your self-esteem and self-worth, so you truly love yourself. More relevant, a truly confident man knows his self-worth and has high self-esteem because he knows what he has to offer while dating a Ukrainian woman.

I know this is easier said than done, so I’d like to show you some examples regarding how to build core confidence.

  1. Furthermore, become an avid reader. Leaders are readers. I know reading books takes a lot of time, but if you don’t read books, you will have less powerful ideas. Note that you can listen to audiobooks when you are in the gym or commuting to/from work. You may read a book every two weeks. Most noteworthy, in this way, you will read 26 books a year. Honestly, many books aren’t very good; therefore, you should be choosier – only read books that you actually want to read and consider successful people’s recommendations. Consequently, you should read your role models’ biographies so that you will become like-minded.
  2. Hence, attend an educational seminar at least once a year. Most people spend money on toys and entertainment, but if you have decided to become a confident man that attracts Ukrainian ladies, you will want to invest in yourself. Moreover, that’s why you should attend educational seminars where you can learn more knowledge and improve yourself. Therefore, you will meet a lot of like-minded people who are also interested in personal development or business development.

Other words, have “me time” once a week. For instance, every Saturday afternoon is “me time” – that’s when you rejuvenate and work on yourself. Consequently, you can use “me time” to write in your journal and do some meditation. Meanwhile, science has proved that these activities are good for your internal confidence and self-esteem as well, so you may want to try these suggestions from now on.

“Your confidence is backed up by your competence.”


Dating Ukrainian Women: How to be an outstanding conversationalist

October 8, 2019 by

Before you marry a Ukrainian bride, obviously you will meet her in person. For instance, perhaps you would like to go to Ukraine and actually date her for a while before marrying her. That’s totally understandable. When you are on a date with a Ukrainian lady, do you know how to be a good conversationalist?

How to train yourself to listen well:

First of all, you need to maintain eye contact. If you would like to see a good example, you may watch Bill Clinton’s videos on YouTube so that you will see how Bill Clinton maintains eye contact when he is talking to someone.

Here is why Bill Clinton is charismatic:

Furthermore, when someone in the audience asks him a question, Bill Clinton maintains eye contact with that person all the time while answering the question. Towards the end of his answer, Bill Clinton’s body language indicates that he is going to end it, but he still maintains eye contact with that individual. In other words, his feet begin to point at somewhere else, and then slowly, gradually he breaks eye contact. This technique is called “sticky eyes” which makes the person who asked Bill Clinton a question feel that he/she is the only person in the room.

Now you’ve understood the importance of maintaining eye contact.

Therefore, when you take a Ukrainian girl to a coffeehouse for a date, remember to maintain eye contact and try not to look elsewhere when she is talking to you. This shows your respect and interest.

Second, instead of talking about yourself too much on the date with a Ukrainian beauty, you would be well-advised to let her talk more so that you can observe her and consider what you’d really like to find out. Also, you should avoid playing conversation tennis & you’d better play conversation basketball. Let me explain.

Please have a look at two scenarios:

Scenario A:

YOU: What do you do?

HER: Artist.

YOU: Awesome. Do you like it?

HER: Yes. It’s good.

YOU: Excellent. I’m an accountant.

Scenario B:

YOU: What do you do?

HER: Artist.

YOU: That’s great. I think your work must be very interesting and highly creative when you spend a lot of time creating beautiful art. Why do you choose this profession?

Clearly, Scenario A is playing conversation tennis – both of you are trying to get the other person to talk immediately without providing much information/value in the conversation. In other words, Scenario A is about expecting the other person to give more value.

In contrast, Scenario B is playing conversation basketball – she gives you an answer, and then you provide much more value in your response. Better still, you also ask her why she wants to be an artist, which will probably help you find out two things about her: 1) her motivation at work; 2) her emotions about work. Remember: as long as you’ve figured out this Ukrainian woman’s motivation and emotions, you will feel closer to each other psychologically.

Understanding the beauty from Ukraine that you are dating:

Once the Ukrainian bride has told you why she wants to do her job, you can mentally step into her shoes and imagine her feelings, doing what she does. Then, you ask a deeper question. So, let’s continue Scenario B:

HER: I always wanted to be an artist because I was inspired by Megan Hess. She is the most successful fashion illustrator in the world. I truly love her work and she is my role model. That’s why I’m working on fashion illustration as well.

YOU: You must be very passionate about fashion illustration, so you’ve become an artist. Do you think fashion is art or just a type of business?

Above all, now you’ve asked her a much deeper question. You have to really listen to this Ukrainian lady’s answer. Keep the focus on her, as when you try to see things from her perspective, you ignite her personal passions and inner life. Hence, she will want to share everything about why she loves her work with you.

Now you’ve asked her a much deeper question. You have to really listen to this Ukrainian lady’s answer. Keep the focus on her, as when you try to see things from her perspective, you ignite her personal passions and inner life. Hence, she will want to share everything about why she loves her work with you.

Please note that Ukrainian beauties are very honest, so when she talks about whether fashion is a type of art or a kind of business, you will also know her worldview, i.e. how she understands art and how she looks at business.

Consequently, this is how you have sparkling and connected conversations with a lady from Ukraine.

How to turn awkward silences into massive attraction:

Most westerners feel uncomfortable when there is an awkward silence, but if you know how to turn this into something powerful, you will have another tool in your toolbox.

Above all, I encourage you to create silences deliberately by introducing pauses to your conversation with your Ukrainian girlfriend.

As a matter of fact, if you have to constantly talk, you look more nervous and less confident. By contrast, when you feel okay during silences, you look more relaxed and more confident.

Therefore, when you want to build massive sexual tension with the girl from Ukraine, you can talk slowly and then pause. Certainly, now you look at her eyes for a second, look at her nose for a second, look at her lips for a second, and look at her eyebrows for a second. Likewise, you don’t have to count “1, 2, 3, 4” in your head, but you’ve got the gist – your eyes are slowly “traveling” on her beautiful face during the silence.

The Ukrainian girl has seen enough romantic movies, so she understands what that means. Hence, now you’ve built massive sexual tension with her.

Consequently, chances are she is secretly thinking… “When is he going to kiss me?” And that’s exactly what you want.

Bonus tips:

  1. Always say more statements and ask fewer questions. Using statements more often, you look more confident. If you ask too many questions, you look less certain.
  2. Asking your Ukrainian stunner a question, make sure the question is meaningful and deep if you can.
  3. Hence, most statements that you say should be some kind of comment on her motivations, emotions, and feelings. Remember: women are more emotional than men, so it’s easier for you to build a strong emotional connection with your Ukrainian woman if you can connect with her emotions directly.


HER: Making art is a soothing process. I love how it makes me feel. It’s so enjoyable and I lose myself in the art.

YOU: Oh. That’s nice. I’m impressed. It sounds like creating art has added a tremendous amount of value to your life. That even makes me want to try it, too. Tell me more about your art.

More relevant, note that in this response above, you say “I’m impressed” which is a very powerful statement that pre-frames the situation: This Ukrainian lady is here to impress you; she should prove herself to you.

Also, the longer statement is expressive, so you are going to have a real and dynamic interaction with her.

Hence, it is obvious that connecting with a lady from Ukraine means you always go deeper and understand more about her world than the boring facts that you can easily see by looking at her dating profile.

How you say it is just as important as what you say.”

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September 29, 2019 by

There are a lot of useful things about how a lasting relationship should be: Studies show that happy couples, in many ways, have better health and overall wellbeing than their single or divorced peers. After all, a loving partner can offer companionship, comfort, and physical and emotional support when you need it. 

But after years of marriage or dating, a significant other can start to feel more like a roommate than a romantic partner. Maybe you’ve grown apart, you’re busy with work and kids, or the spark’s just not there anymore. For whatever reason you’ve found yourself falling out of love, here’s how the experts suggest you find your way back in.


Couples should ask “getting to know each other” types of questions when they were dating and getting to know each other

In such a way they are starting off knowing additional new information about each other


One of the biggest complaints that all-time couples feel ignored. Spouses get used to one another and, over time, don’t really notice what they’re each going through.

Sometimes, people, think they’re paying attention to their spouses but they really aren’t. Always look into eyes when you’re having a conversation. It’s much easier to concentrate on someone’s words and share when your partner is looking right at you.


Show how you appreciate your partner, just say “Thank you,” and “I appreciate everything you do.” This goes a long way in showing respect to each other.

Try not to expect all the time something from your partner and always require the actions. Your beloved also wants to get this from you, so you should act as a team in your life.

Please, take a look at some articles on our blog to be sure about how to make a first date perfect and such.



September 22, 2019 by

God created people to love each other and feel the most wonderful feelings, enjoy life and give positivity and kindness to others. Whilst talking about a relationship between a woman and a man we have to consider that fact that no one is perfect and when a person does his best in this very relationship, it does not mean he will be treated equally well in another relationship. All relationships existing in this world have the potential to enrich people’s lives. Likewise, the same relationship can cause discomfort and harm.

There are healthy and unhealthy relationships and one way or another, we may find ourselves in either or both. Relationships are a necessity and an essential part of healthy living, but there is no such thing as a perfect relationship.

Here, we will give you an explanation of the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships.

Healthy relationship

A healthy relationship is based on mutual respect, fairness, support, honesty and trust. Every relationship needs maintenance and time to make it work. There is more happiness than stress in a healthy relationship. Nevertheless, being in a healthy relationship means doing things with friends and family and having activities independent of each other. It also means discussing things, allowing for differences of opinion, and compromising equally. There is room for positive growth and you learn more about each other as you develop and mature. This type of relationship lasts longer. On the contrary, contempt surfaces in unhealthy relationships sooner or later as either of the partners gives up.

Unhealthy relationship

You care for and focus on another person only and neglect yourself or you focus only on yourself and neglect the other person. In unhealthy relationships, both partners strive to complete one of them because it is driven more by “about me” than “about us”. Unhealthy relationships give a feeling of pressure to quit activities you usually enjoy. You will notice arguments are not settled fairly. You may experience a lack of fairness and equality.

If your relationship has some of these characteristics it does not mean the end of your relationship. There is always a chance to change things for the better. By recognizing how these characteristics affect you, you can begin to work on improving the negative aspect of your relationship to benefit both of you.

There is a possibility that both healthy and unhealthy relationships will last a lifetime, but imagine the quality of life for the one who makes all the sacrifices.

Please, take a look at some articles on our blog to be sure about how to make a first date perfect and such.