Yana is a Ukrainian lady who is very successful in love, life and career. That’s why I decided to interview a few people who shared their wisdom with us on our blog.
How Yana navigates her career goals
Many individuals think it’s more difficult for ladies to be wildly successful at work. Well, that is only true to some extent as some ladies understand how to use female advantages in their careers. Hence, it’s not necessarily more difficult for ladies to succeed.
“My boss is a man, so he isn’t competing with me,” says Yana, “That’s why I have more opportunities to be promoted at work.”
I was given a similar insight from our member, David is a member of UkraineBridesAgency.com and he told me that he likes talking to ladies simply because when he is talking to ladies, he could have genuine conversations. However, when he is talking to guys, he oftentimes feels the competitive vibe. Yes, men are usually validated by achievements and there is nothing wrong with that, but it makes men less likely to connect with each other.
In his book 48 Laws of Power, Robert Greene writes, “Never outshine the master” – that’s the first law in this book. Technically, this law is correct, for if you look smarter than your supervisor, your supervisor probably wouldn’t like you very much as envy is only human nature. Yet in reality, when a woman has a male boss, he will probably like her intelligence as most guys are not competing with ladies anyway.
A woman’s first business card…
“I believe that a woman’s first business card is her smile,” says Yana, an intelligent Ukrainian lady, “Research shows that women are much more likely to smile than guys and this has an impact at work too.”
Renowned psychologist Paul Ekman suggests that even from 30 meters away, we can sense another person’s smile. It’s no surprise that a warm smile from someone new can instantly win us over. This holds immense importance in workplace interactions. Take Yana, for instance – a smart Ukrainian professional. Before approaching a customer’s door, she ensures her outfit, makeup, and radiant smile are all in place. This becomes her potent advantage. Looking good translates to feeling good.
“Ladies are usually less stressed emotionally. And managing my own emotions is so key in my career success,” says Yana, the clever Ukrainian lady, “That’s my secret to success.”
In the pages of their book “Midas Touch,” Robert Kiyosaki and Donald Trump highlight an often overlooked gem: the power of managing emotions. Whether or not you’re a fan of these personalities, there’s always something to glean from their insights. Learning, after all, knows no bounds. A switched-on individual could learn something at any time!
The truth resonates: successful individuals tend to possess emotional stability and a knack for handling their feelings. Recent findings from New Zealand and Australia reveal an interesting trend – 69% of those who turned to Employee Assistance Programs in 2019 were women, with men comprising only 31%. This shines a light on women’s strength in seeking support, a trait that contributes to their adept stress management. This isn’t just a strength; it’s a secret to thriving at work. On the flip side, some men tend to bottle up their emotions, a practice that’s not healthy in the long run.
How Yana lost weight successfully:
Yana was overweight when she was younger, but she has successfully lost weight already. Now she is a slim and fit!
“Honestly, goal-setting alone wouldn’t help me achieve my goal,” says Yana, a very healthy woman from Ukraine, “As I see it, both goal-setting and daily rituals are equally important.”
Here is how Yana made it: She decided that her weight must become 45kg before 1st January, 2020. This was a great goal as it was very specific. Furthermore, what she also did is daily rituals, i.e. every day Yana did something that helped her to achieve this goal – she was exercising every morning; she was eating fruit and vegetables every day… On a daily basis, Yana did something to move the needle forward.
In the end, Yana achieved her fitness goals in December 2019!
How Yana found true love:
According to Yana, there are several things that make a guy want to commit to a lady.
“Attraction is very different from commitment,” says Yana, “Attracting a man isn’t hard, but it takes a bit more to keep a guy.”
First of all, intelligent women from Ukraine would give men a bit of a taste tester in order to make them want the entire meal. When a woman is attracted to a man, it’s tempting to invest too much quickly. Yet the more she invests in this guy, the less he will actually feel attracted as he needs to earn her investment in this relationship.
“I don’t invest based on how much I like a man. I invest based on how much a man invests in me,” says Yana, “It’s my job to show him my value and make him want to invest in this relationship and look for more.”
Second, a man wants to know that a relationship actually means variety in life. Truthfully, the real reason why many guys associate a single life with good fun is because they literally think a single life equals variety. Therefore, an elegant lady could make a guy associate seeing her with having more variety – she is interesting, spontaneous and fun-loving. Then this guy will change his usual associations with a serious relationship & want to commit to her.
Being the best version of yourself
Next, when a man says he does not want a long-term relationship, an elegant woman still shows him the best version of herself.
“If a man tells me that he does not want a relationship, I never become angry,” says Yana, “I simply invest less in this guy. That means each time he would like to see me, he is not my priority any longer as now my priority has become my friends and family. However, when he actually sees me again, I still show him my positive attitude and delightful personality because I always want to be the best version of myself. That is to say, this guy still has a good time each time he sees me, yet my investment in him has significantly reduced as he told me he isn’t into a relationship. He usually then changes his mind because he wants more from me – he is amazed by my personality and beautiful energy!”
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Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
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