If you are preparing for your very first date with an Eastern European woman, you might want to take some notes. In this blog post, I’m going to share with you 3 really good questions that you can ask your Eastern European lady.
How to make her feel much closer to you psychologically on the first date:
The first intriguing question that you can ask an Eastern European woman on the first date is “What do you suck at?”. This question inspires her to be vulnerable.
Of course, this question shouldn’t be the very first question that you ask her on your first date. I mean you should totally talk about what she is good at first. Then after the warming-up stage of the date, you can start to be more playful and then while adding a flirtatious energy to the interaction, you ask her, “What do you suck at?”
She will smile and might say something like, “I suck at sports. I really would like to play a sport, but I just can’t do that well.”
You can respond to her statement by saying something along the lines of, “You’d better still learn a sport, and then allow yourself to suck at it. I give you permission to suck at something because it’s totally okay. You don’t have to be perfect. And you certainly don’t need to be good at everything. By sucking at something, you enjoy more freedom to be who you really are – the most authentic version of you.”
I’m sure this Eastern European lady will open up and be more willing to share more about herself with you. Now the date is going to become a relationship because she feels psychologically closer to you after knowing that she can be vulnerable while communicating with you.
How to make her feel safe when she is with you:
Truthfully, when most women meet a man, their first response is fear (at least that’s happening in their subconscious mind).
On the first date, chances are your Eastern European lady is even more nervous than you. So it’s your responsibility to help her relax.
A wonderful question that you can ask her on the first date is “What’s the geekiest thing about you?”. This question encourages her to confide in you.
When she knows that she can confide in you, she will trust you even more. That is good for a genuine and meaningful relationship.
Remember: She has to feel safe before she starts a long-term relationship with you as safety is the prerequisite of a serious relationship.
A question that will make the first date more compelling:
When you ask her, “What are you most excited about this year?”, your Eastern European lady finds you more captivating. This is because you focus on her passion, i.e., what makes her happy and excited in life.
Note that when you make the topic about her, she is more likely to talk more on the date. That means you don’t have to keep coming up with new content to say on the date!
“Good preparation for the first date will help you start a great relationship.”
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Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
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