When I was 25 years old, I was working in footwear retail. The store manager taught me the concept of pre-framing, which transformed the way I looked at human dynamics. The most powerful way to influence the outcome of an interaction is to pre-frame the situation, i.e., when the customer is trying a pair of leather shoes on, the salesperson is supposed to ask, “Do you know the best way to look after this shoe?” The salesperson can then naturally introduce the importance of using leather conditioner before the customer decides to buy the shoes, thereby selling the shoes as well as a bottle of leather conditioner in the end. In other words, pre-framing implies the direction the situation could take before the outcome arises. In this situation, the outcome is influenced by the salesperson. Interestingly, this concept can be utilised in international dating as well!
How to pre-frame your girlfriend’s behaviour in international dating:
You can use pre-framing with your girlfriend’s actions by indirectly showing her your standards, e.g., “My colleague’s wife texted her co-worker for a long time because they were flirting. My colleague found it out, and he is not happy with that, but she says that’s just some banter. But I’m pretty sure that’s also a type of cheating. My colleague just shouldn’t be with her.” Now your girlfriend knows your standards in this aspect!
A lot of people only start to talk about their definition of cheating after something like that has already happened. Sadly, many long-term relationships end like that. Yet you can always tell your girlfriend your expectations in this regard by talking about other people’s experiences and your opinion on their experiences early on in your relationship. This way, your girlfriend would know how to treat you in your relationship. 😊
Clearly, this is an example of pre-framing and it can help your girlfriend understand your expectations of behaviour naturally and effortlessly.
How to pre-frame your girlfriend’s emotions:
In order to keep your girlfriend and have a wonderful international dating life, you would be well-advised to pre-frame her emotions. This would help her to always associate dating you with positive feelings.
The most important part of this process is to have a good sense of humour. Actually, having a good sense of humour is an indicator of having a high IQ. If you need some inspiration, you can watch some comedy shows and hilarious movies, so you can have more jokes and ideas to share with your girlfriend in your daily life. Research shows that couples who enjoy a good sense of humour stay together for much longer than couples who don’t leverage humour in life. Further examination indicates that humour makes people less petty. Therefore, couples who have a good sense of humour laugh more, think less and enjoy life more. Indeed, overthinking is the least fun part of any relationship.
“I hope you have found something helpful in this blog post and I wish you a successful international dating life!”
We know how much those three little words mean to you and we’re certain you’ll hear the “I love you” soon, you can pre-frame it in your dating life! In the meanwhile, make sure to sign up with Ukraine Brides Agency for more insightful and prudent observations about the world of international dating!
Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
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