A crucial prerequisite to having an amazing love life is to build a positive mindset. Never underestimate the mindset of Slavic women, because that alone can determine the direction of your love life.
Common limiting beliefs that get in the way of Slavic women
Limiting Belief 1: “There aren’t any quality men out there.”
The truth:
As Slavic women, you have probably dated six or seven men. If your conclusion is that there aren’t any quality men out there, then you probably reached this conclusion too soon. How many relationships have you had so far? 100? Probably not that many. So, the quality of the men that you have been with or have dated doesn’t represent the quality of men in general.
To find quality, quantity matters! I understand you want to find a good man, but before finding that great guy, you need to meet a lot of guys in the first place. An analogy: when you want to buy a dress, you often go to different shops and try on different dresses. Finally, you find the perfect dress after spending a whole afternoon in shopping malls and stores. Usually, you wouldn’t find the perfect dress in the first shop. But you wouldn’t say, “There aren’t any quality dresses out there”.
Limiting Belief 2: “All the men I meet have commitment issues.”
The truth:
You need to meet enough men to come to this conclusion. If you have only dated four or five guys, they certainly don’t represent all men. In fact, even if he really has commitment issues, you can do something about it. You can change the dynamics of your relationship with him so he wants to commit!
Two analytical scenarios with Slavic women
Scenario One:
You may want to know how to make a guy you date commit.
If you are dating a guy, maybe he doesn’t want to commit. That’s usually because he feels he has given you enough and you are okay with it, so it’s all good.
You could say this to him, “Hey John, I’m not the kind of person who sees different people at the same time. I need to get out there and meet the right guy for me. That’s why I can’t be that close to you anymore. Don’t get me wrong, I think you’re great! But I just want to make sure I find the right guy for myself.”
Say it calmly and positively. When he hears this, he will decide whether he wants to have a long-term relationship with you or not. If he doesn’t make a decision quickly, he will lose you! You are not threatening him; you are just stating a fact. In all likelihood, he will see you as a high-value woman who he wants to have a serious relationship with.
Scenario Two:
You just started seeing a guy and you want to know how to make him commit as quickly as possible.
The reason guys have commitment issues is that often they may have negative associations with commitment. Commitment means a boring relationship, exhausting responsibilities, a lack of variety, a lack of excitement, and predictability. These men have positive associations with casual dates, i.e., variety, different experiences, and excitement.
The best way to make a guy like this commit is by meeting his needs. In other words, when he sees that his needs (unpredictability, excitement, and variety) can be met in his relationship with you, he will commit!
A positive mindset will eliminate limiting beliefs, thereby improving the quality of your dating life. Many Slavic women have found love after joining Ukraine Brides Agency where they could meet good men who are looking for true love online.
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