After conducting a survey regarding men’s challenges in dating, we have discovered that the No. 1 challenge that most men face is how to keep the conversation going on the 1st date. Fret not, this Ukrainian dating site is here to help!
Therefore, today I’d like to share with you several tips about how you can be a fascinating conversationalist on the very first date.
How to relate to her:
According to our dating consultant on this real Ukrainian dating site, you can relate to a lady by finding conversation links in what she has said. Please have a look at the example below.
HER: “I went to Cher’s concert last night.” (Cher’s concert is the conversation link that you can comment on.)
YOU: “That’s something that I plan to do. I went to Celine Dion’s concert last year, and I would like to go to Cher’s concert next year.”
Note that this is only an example. You don’t necessarily have to be interested in Cher’s concert, which means you don’t have to have the exact same thing in common to relate to a woman because you may connect on the emotions/feelings and/or experience of doing a particular activity. Please have a look at this example:
HER: “I went to see a comedy show yesterday.”
YOU: “I have never seen a comedy show before, but I do like a podcast called The Science of Humor.” / “I’m sure that’s wonderful and laughing out loud helps you to stress less after work. I get that feeling as well when I read funny novels.” / “I wish I could go to busy venues more often. I’m an introvert, so I spend most of my spare time watching hilarious TV shows at home.”
Clearly, all of the above-mentioned responses are about relating to the topic that she brings up, yet none of these needs you to go to see a comedy show!
How to connect with her:
First and foremost, you’d better make eye contact & hold it! Please do this often on the first date: When you agree with her opinion, when you disagree with her opinion when you share an inside joke with her… (Yes, you can disagree with her on the first date as long as you add some humour to the interaction!)
Second, you would be well-advised to let your guard down on the first date by being emotionally vulnerable – share your feelings with her honestly & be emotionally available for each other. Be authentic and genuine.
Next, please don’t look at your phone on the first date. Just be present; really be there with her at the moment. No distraction.
Lastly, honestly communicate your emotions and feelings. Say “Our first date is amazing. I really like this” if this is how you actually feel.
The key to a successful first date is to keep the conversation flowing and make a genuine connection with your partner. Don’t be afraid to show your personality and share your interests and passions. Remember to actively listen to your date and ask thoughtful questions to show your interest and engagement. And most importantly, trust your instincts and be true to yourself. With these simple tips and a positive attitude, you can make a great first impression and set the foundation for a wonderful relationship.
So go out there, have fun, and enjoy the journey to true love!
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Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
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