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HOW TO CHOOSE BETWEEN TWO WOMEN: AN EXPERT’S TOP 7 TIPS

From very early childhood, everyone knows that love is a pure feeling, a heart rush that any person can have. So, indeed we need useful tips. But all are silent about the fact that sometimes there is a place in the heart for two ladies.

Perhaps you meet with one of them, maybe you like them both, or maybe you do not like any of them. If you like both women, then take it seriously. Choose one or you will lose both.

Dating tips

  1. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?

Ask yourself, are you looking for something serious or something casual? Do you just want to send someone from time to time? Do you need a regular girl? Or do you want to build a long-term relationship? Think about where you are in life and your goals beyond dealing with these two ladies? Passion can easily cloud your ability to reason logically. Take a step back from these two women to understand what you really want.

Perhaps now you need to concentrate on your career. Perhaps you need some stability that only one of the women can give you? What do you need?

  1. ANALYZE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH EACH WOMAN

Think about what they have in common, and try to understand how each is different. Consider what you can offer each of the ladies, and imagine how you feel about each of them. If you are going to choose, you need to fully understand your choice.

  1. NOTICE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THE LADY

Perhaps one of the ladies makes you feel strong, capable and worthy, while the other lowers you and makes you feel like a stranger to yourself. Perhaps one of the ladies makes you feel happy and careless, while the other only causes stress. Pay attention to changes in yourself, when spending time with each of these women. Think about what aspects of your personality you want to nourish.

  1. BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF

If you cannot bring yourself to say the final “Yes!” to any of the ladies, then perhaps you should not start a serious relationship with either of them. You should not force yourself into a serious relationship, but you need to understand why it’s so hard for you to choose.

  1. LOOK FOR ALTERNATIVE OPTIONS

Perhaps none of these ladies are looking for something serious, or maybe one of them is not even interested in you! This does not mean that you need to “twist” with both at the same time, it only means that the situation can be more simple or more strange than you think. Try talking with the women (separately!) to better understand what they are looking for.

  1. MAKE A LIST.

Make a separate column for each lady and list as much as possible her positive qualities. If you find any qualities that both women possess, cross them out of the list. Take a close look at the unique qualities and compare which ones you like more. The lady with the most of the good unique characteristics may well be the one you should choose. You can also make a list of negative qualities, in which case you should choose a lady with the least number of negative characteristics.

  1. LISTEN TO THE HEART

Remember that the list is just an instrument. Do not make a decision based on the figure, it is better to use this figure to better understand what you are feeling. One of the ladies can look great on paper, but that does not mean that you are really attracted to her. If it seems to you that there is something wrong with the figures, then perhaps they are wrong. After you have listed all the positive and negative qualities, think about how much, in reality, you like each lady. Let your passion guide you.

We watch out for our clients’ best interest and we are always glad to give you the most prominent advice. Please, take note of the advice given in this article and think well about your next date that you plan to have.

  • Collin Hon

    I enjoy reading your advice. They are very helpful. Thank you.

    Reply

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