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Dating advice for western men dating Eastern European women: What are the red flags?

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Not every Eastern European woman is the right candidate for you, and you are not for everyone either. But how can you identify red flags early?

Red flag 1: She has limited interest in learning anything about you, but she tells you a sob story about herself.

Women who are scammers will tell men sob stories about themselves and then ask men to send them money. Remember: never send money to any member on a dating website. If you like an Eastern European lady, you can buy her a gift. But she shouldn’t ask for your money. This is especially problematic if she doesn’t even want to know anything about you.

Red flag 2: She is happy for you to see her flirting with other men.

If you are already dating an Eastern European woman and she flirts with other men in front of you, that’s a huge red flag. If she isn’t too bothered about being caught out flirting with other men (because she needs to keep expanding her options for when she moves on), she isn’t interested in you genuinely. On the same day she meets you, don’t be surprised if she is giving her phone number to another man later.

Red flag 3: She makes no effort to become part of your life.

A woman with a secret agenda would avoid all the awkwardness of meeting your family and friends because she knows she will move on to someone else soon (usually after getting what she wants from you). If she shows no keenness to become part of your life, it’s a red flag that she prefers a clear exit strategy.

After analyzing these common red flags in international dating, I’d like to talk about other frequent topics of discussion now.

How to date younger Eastern European women:

Dating individuals of different ages could be some of the most interesting relationships we have in life. Yet we cannot make the most this opportunity if we are not sure how to handle the situation well. If you prefer younger women from Eastern Europe, here is my advice:

#1. You may have very different priorities.

Rather than trying to hide your differences and pretend you are both the same age, please understand that you may have very different priorities in life and be in completely different positions in the society. In other words, you are probably different people emotionally and professionally.

Don’t try and pull your younger Eastern European girlfriend up to your level too fast. When she feels this, she will feel out of her depth or decide it’s not even worth the hassle.

#2. A youthful man is an attractive man.

Some older men have certain limiting beliefs that hold them back. Many men who are above 50 believe that women care about age. But that’s not true. In fact, many younger ladies from Eastern Europe are happy to marry older men from western countries.

Frankly, it’s not young men that attract young women; it’s youth.

If you exude youth through your energy and your lifestyle, a younger woman wouldn’t care about your age. You may exude youthfulness by showing some cheekiness, the ability to still tease a lady and showing her that you need to be impressed by her, or by just having stimulating hobbies and a varied social life which keeps you passionate.

This is exactly why when you introduce a younger woman to only bored married friends around you, she will assume that you expect her to become the same, too. Not that there is something wrong with introducing your younger lady to married friends, but just show her you have a varied social life than that. You don’t really want your younger girlfriend to assume that you are the only guy of the group left who is single and urgently needs a wife. Even if this isn’t true, it can begin to look like that.

#3. Never compare yourself to younger guys.

Never be envious of younger men and believe they have something that you don’t have. You can’t undervalue what you bring to the table as an older, mature and sophisticated man. Younger women from Eastern Europe will like the idea that you know more about their needs emotionally. Don’t hide these qualities by acting like a clueless younger man. That’s not cute; that’s just clueless!

A younger lady from Eastern Europe wants to see that you have lots of experience and you understand dating and relationships. Never hide your emotional maturity and sophistication.

#4. Younger Eastern European ladies aren’t necessarily more exciting.

I know some older men fantasize about younger women; nevertheless, when they actually date younger ladies, they find their company shallow, immature and boring. Hence, it’s worth knowing whether or not it’s only a fantasy or something you actually desire.

Truthfully, not every younger lady is exciting. If you want to attract a youthful woman in your life, don’t obsess over the age gap between you two. Worry generally leads to a self-fulfilling prophecy. When you obsess over the age gap, she will do the same soon.

What if you are a younger western man looking for an older Eastern European woman?

Now please note that there are many false ideas about older women, and we must get this straight: Not every older lady is more mature about a relationship.

A lot of men assume dating older women is the ideal way to have secure relationships, but that’s not true. In fact, it’s not about age, but more about the personality type you are actually dealing with in your love life.

If you are dating an older woman from Eastern Europe, you may need to consider the following:

#1. What is her future plan?

What are her long-term plans? What does she talk about when it comes to her career? If she is happy to talk about her future plans with you, she is probably serious. I’m saying this because not every older woman is serious in terms of dating younger men.

#2. Can you fit into her lifestyle?

If her plan is to be married and take care of her kids from her previous marriage but you want to have your own children, then her plan does not fit with your blueprint.

If it doesn’t fit with your blueprint, you can ask yourself whether your plan can be changed and if it’s not, think about how much time and energy you are able to risk investing in this woman.

#3. How does this older woman look at her love life right now?

Have a look at her reality. Why is she single and what’s reason for her current dating life? Is she single because she is a tough woman and is willing to wait for the right man, or does she have some psychological issues?

Analyze the language she uses, the way she talks about dating and relationships, her family background and the way she treats her love life.

“If you are dating an older lady from Eastern Europe, never let her belittle your problems.”

  • Chris

    I am 58. I have been looking for a girl under 30 for several years. In total I married a girl who is only a couple of years younger than me.

    Reply

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