It’s easy to feel incredibly close and connected with someone you’re dating at the beginning of the relationship, but after a while, the honeymoon period ends, and then you find out whether the two of you suit each other or not.
There are signs that the person you’re with is not “The One.
YOU INTUITIVELY KNOW YOUR PARTNER IS WRONG FOR YOU
It happens sometimes when you just come to know in your heart that no matter how perfect and wonderful this person may be, and no matter how much you wish with every fiber of your being that you could actually love this person … [he or she] is not the right one for you. If this is the case, it may be best to say goodbye to love.
YOU ARE NOT ON THE SAME PAGE
If you disagree on major topics, things might not work out, which is why it’s wise to discuss such things in the first year or so. Whether it comes to finances, religion, kids, or other issues. If you two are just not clicking on major topics, you’re not with ‘The One.
YOU DON’T TRUST YOUR PARTNER
If you don’t trust or respect your partner, or they don’t trust or give respect to you, this is a near-impossible problem to fix. Once trust and respect are lost, then so is the relationship. In order for a relationship to be successful, it has to be built on a strong foundation, which includes trust and respect.
USED TO LOVED THINGS ARE REPELLENT NOW
Little things and not so little things start to bother you about this person, and many of the personality traits that drew you to this person in the first place are … the selfsame things that start to repel you. If you find yourself unsettled by the way your partner is, and disinterested in being understanding of them and trying to figure out how to make things work, they may not be a good fit for you.
YOU CAN’T IMAGINE THE FUTURE TOGETHER
Even if you’re happy together, it’s a sign that you might not be together forever if you can’t really imagine what it would be like to be with them for many years. You just don’t see a future with them. You can’t see yourself growing old with them. If you can’t see yourself living happily ever after — regardless of any challenges that you may be facing, big or small — chances are, he or she is not ‘The One.
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