How To Cultivate The Behaviors You Desire In An International Relationship

At the very beginning of an international relationship, it is your responsibility to create the behaviours that you desire because your lady can only know what you tell her. She can’t read your mind. Sadly, a lot of people enter relationships assuming that their partners already know what they want and expect. But that’s not how reality works. Therefore, in today’s article, I’d like to share the ultimate technique that you can utilise in your relationship, helping you build your wonderful love life.

Pre-framing is the best way to create the behaviours that you want in an international relationship.

In psychology, pre-framing means giving someone a roadmap of how to be with you before they make mistakes in a relationship. For example, you take your lady to the movies to see a movie. When the woman in the movie does something nice for her man, you say, “Wow. I find this quality really attractive. She truly pays attention to the details in life.” Now your lady will remember that attention to detail is important to you & you find that quality attractive, so she will try and pay attention to the details in your life because you matter to her!

Alternatively, you can read a novel with your lady at home, e.g., every day you read a chapter and she also reads the same chapter (perhaps one of you reads it on Kindle & the other reads the traditional book). When both of you read a certain chapter about how a woman gives her man emotional support, you say, “She is a lovely lady. I find her caring nature very attractive. I’m deeply moved.” I’m sure your lady will clearly remember what you’ve said because the keyword is ‘attractive’, so that’s a quality that she would consider having. In other words, when you pre-frame behaviours with her, she knows what is expected very early in this international relationship.

Communicate with your internal relationship:

If you are still at the very initial stage of your relationship (maybe you are on the first date), you can tell her your friend’s story which includes things that you definitely wouldn’t want in a future romantic relationship as well as values that you find quite attractive, e.g., “The person that I’ll end up with is certainly a very kind woman.” (The phrase ‘I’ll end up with’ indicates that she may or may not be the one as this is the first date. She knows that both of you have to invest more in this relationship in order to make it last long term.)

When you are in a genuine relationship with a woman, be kind to her to encourage her whenever she does something you like, e.g., “When I was walking downstairs this morning, I saw you cooking breakfast in the kitchen. I find you very attractive at that moment because it’s so romantic.” Now she will want to pamper you every day!

This is a highly effective way to use attraction language to make her link positivity to the behaviours that you like about her. When you acknowledge each other’s good qualities, you feel that you have earned a place in each other’s amazing life.

Why you should remain positive and romantic at all times:

These days a lot of people are cynical. If you use social media, you can see a large number of cynical posts and comments about relationships in this day and age. It seems that cynicism is commonplace nowadays. That’s exactly why when you remain romantic and positive, your lady finds being with you very refreshing.

Say romantic and positive things about love as often as possible! Tell your lady that you still strongly believe in love after overcoming a variety of challenges in life.

Look toward the future in your international relationship:

“My grandparents’ relationship is so inspiring,” Simon says to his Ukrainian girlfriend, “They have supported each other for more than 60 years. I also look forward to a long-lasting relationship like that!” 

Now Simon’s girlfriend knows what he expects in an international relationship!

“It’s your job to foster good behaviors in your relationship. And you can do that!”

We know how much those three little words mean to you and we’re certain you’ll hear the “I love you” soon, from your internation relationship. In the meanwhile, make sure to sign up with Ukraine Brides Agency for more insightful and prudent observations about the world of international dating!

Olga P

Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.