Many couples complain about the absence of a spark in their romantic relationships, especially those who have been in long-term relationships for a very long time (in that case, a lot of people have probably forgotten about how to maintain their attractiveness in order to attract someone). To be honest, the art of maintaining a romantic relationship is to never stop attracting and dating your partner. When it comes to how a man can maintain and improve his attractiveness, I’d like to show you a metaphor that will surely help you to navigate this journey in your relationship with a Slavic lady. I learned this metaphor from Australian relationship coach Wala Truscott who has helped many couples to improve their relationships.
- The King:
The King drives the train, keeps his kingdom safe, and makes informed decisions. He is respected as a trustworthy protector.
When a man operates like the King, he is masculine, decisive, and powerful. His woman feels absolutely safe and relaxed when she is with him. She feels attracted to him all the time.
- The Jester:
The Jester is light-hearted and out for a laugh. He is fun to be around, but his jovial ways do not build trust.
Please note that the King is trustworthy and desirable. While the Jester is desirable too, he doesn’t have the depth of the King. So his communication style will eventually become childish, shallow, and unsatisfying.
A unique pairing:
No one can be as serious as the King at all times (and nobody is supposed to be that serious all day every day). The good news is an attractive man doesn’t always have to be the King 24/7. We shouldn’t give every man too much pressure.
Truthfully, a high-value, attractive man has a unique pairing: His frame is definitely the King’s frame because that’s who he really is. Yet at the same time, his personality is playful and spontaneous – the Jester is a flavor of the King. For instance, when you meet the King for the first date, he can be flirting and having fun with you all night long, and then at the end of the date, he seriously asks you, “So, how are you going to get home? Have you called a taxi yet?” (Wow. That’s very attractive: He is fun-loving; meanwhile, he wants to protect you.)
In conclusion, if a man doesn’t have the above-mentioned unique pairing, his woman might be trapped in this uncomfortable reality: being in a romantic relationship with him feels like a task only. Again, the Jester is a flavor of the King, but he’ll never be as respected or desired like a King would be. Therefore, a modern man has to be the King and then have the Jester’s flavor! In this way, his woman will feel attracted, fascinated, and satisfied. Are you ready to impress your Slavic lady?
“Please never stop attracting your Slavic lady because maintaining a relationship is just as important as finding a relationship.”
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Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
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