How to be an interesting man in an international relationship

“I’m a successful and attractive guy who runs a really good business. I’m funny, kind and look after others around me. However, the first dates that I went on often lead nowhere,” says Stanley, “What am I missing?”

• The connection has nothing to do with your resume qualities.

Don’t make the mistake of looking at your qualities on paper while wondering why you are single if you bring a lot of value to a relationship. Remember that connection isn’t really about any of your resume qualities such as whether you have an impressive career or not. Most people worry about their resume qualities too much. Personally, I know some men who have amazing ‘resume qualities’ (height, careers, etc.) Yet they have been single for a very long time because they don’t know how to connect with women. So, if you also have Stanley’s problem, this article is definitely for you.

While you are looking for an international relationship, please focus on connecting with your lady emotionally and making her feel wonderful in your company. Are you coming across as confident, interesting, and charismatic – somebody who will surely be a good husband? Are you able to open up and be vulnerable? (Note that a lot of men rely on their achievements as a crutch that they derive all of their confidence from.)

Your personality, the way you approach things in life, your attitude, your vibe as well as your lifestyle make a much bigger impact than the external qualities that you have based on success and achievements.

Nobody can trade external achievements for a beautiful relationship with a high-value individual. As a result, you would be well-advised to do the inner work about yourself while thinking of how you can communicate with your lady more effectively each day in an international relationship & if you create attraction and chemistry through what you do and say rather than your ‘resume qualities’.

• Does she actually look forward to seeing you again?

If a woman is madly in love with you, she can’t get enough of you on each date & she is dying to see you between two dates. Usually, that means she is truly attracted to you because of your character, your communication style, and your fascinating life. 

When a woman needs to use her logic to justify why she should see you again, that’s a concern because that often means she is thinking about factors like resume qualities, including things such as “I’m already 39 years old, so I must get married as soon as possible and have a baby.” – Frankly, that’s a wrong reason to marry someone that only has good ‘resume qualities’ because marriage is a very long conversation that should last for decades – if the connection is absent, the relationship can’t last.    

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Olga P

Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.