One of the disadvantages of modern technology is that a lot of people often communicate with others via texting instead of face-to-face communication these days. Consequently, many men find it hard to confidently attract women while going out on dates, in particular Eastern European women. We understand how hard it must be to approach women when you feel underconfident, so here are a few tips!
When it comes to building confidence, there are two ways to primarily achieve this:
1) Convince your mind that you are already confident, so your body actually behaves accordingly. This will ensure that you look confident as well! Unfortunately, this approach takes lots of time on the psychologist’s sofa to alleviate anxiety.
2) Train your body to immediately act confidently so that your mind can follow suit. Honestly, this is the approach that I recommend most often. This is because it’s easier to whip the body into shape than the brain. I’m sure you already know the basic tips: smile, stand tall, look Eastern European women in the eye, etc. Studies and experiments successfully have successfully shown that body language helps bring about a confident state of mind.
- How to look truly confident:
When you’re at a party, please don’t stand too close to the snacks or close to the wall all the time. Staying in the center of the room along with the confident people is the right way to go and is the easiest way to ensure that your presence is felt. This is especially important in a social context.
Another tip would be – when you’re going through a big door, please don’t walk in through one side. I’d like you to walk straight through the middle of the doors because this indicates true confidence.
When you are in a restaurant, you should sit at the end of the table which faces the door. It helps give an aura of confidence and power. This is unless there is already an established hierarchy and you can’t sit there.
When you are having a meeting at work, you can sit in the tallest chair. However, you shouldn’t be at a greater height than your boss, of course.
Remember: confident men’s bodies always occupy more space, so you can make more fluid and large movements. Shy men have the habit of occupying a small amount of space. When they try to take up more space, their behavior still gives the vibe of “Sorry for taking up so much space.” In contrast, confident men are not apologetic in this regard.
According to American author Leil Lowndes, confident men always keep their hands away from their faces and never fidget. This seems to be excellent advice so you should also try it out!
Another pro tip: When you agree with your Eastern European woman, please nod in a gentle manner. This is as opposed to nodding your head vigorously.
When you walk, swing your arms more significantly so you’ll look like a leader. When you are walking towards Eastern European women and passing, you should be the last person to break eye contact. This implies core confidence. When you are sitting down, try putting one arm up on the back of a chair, and then lean back with your arms up occasionally & your hands behind your head – this is exactly what Don Draper does!
Basically, when you move like a confident person all day long, gradually your mind will strongly believe that you are already a confident man.
- How to master great eye contact:
Have you mastered good eye contact before the first date?
When you are on the first date with an Eastern European woman, after you have sincerely smiled, please silently say, “I love you” to her. Now your eye contact looks very confident and extremely natural at the same time because of the following factors:
First of all, the amount of time that it takes for you to silently say “I love you” is exactly the amount of time that your eye contact is supposed to last. If the eye contact lasts for too long, you are simply staring at her – that’s creepy.
Second, when you are silently saying “I love you”, you have a warm and approachable facial expression. Please note that your mind cannot say “I love you” when your body language says “I’m intimidated by your attractiveness.”
Last but not least, silently saying “I love you” keeps your mind from saying, “I’m not sure if you are attracted to me or not, so now I’m quite nervous.”
Of course, after practicing this technique for a while, your eye contact will be good enough. Hence, you won’t need to keep silently saying “I love you” anymore. 😉
We have plenty more information, tips, tricks and more covered on our site, Ukraine Brides Agency. Feel free to check out our online dating blogs which will give you advice that will help you gain knowledge about various situations. You can also learn more about Eastern European women so you will be more prepared. Register today so you can get one step closer to finding your soulmate!
Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
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