“I’ve been dating an Eastern European woman for a few weeks,” says Brian. “She is quite introverted. It’s going really well. However, I’m scared I might mess it up.”
“Please don’t dull down you just to make it work with somebody,” I explain, “You still have to be you. I know this is a serious relationship. Yet in order to make the dating process more enjoyable, you’d better be more playful and spontaneous—play within the solid boundaries she is in. Still, be reasonable. Relax!”
Do not tiptoe around things when you start dating an Eastern European woman.
At the beginning of a new relationship, many men tiptoe around things because they don’t want to mess it up, which is understandable. Nevertheless, you would be well-advised to flirt more on the phone and via text so as to gauge her level of interest at the very beginning. If she responds well, that means she is very interested. Otherwise, you know it’s time to move on because the right person would invest in this relationship. If she isn’t investing in you, she isn’t the right person for you. Period.
Be confident in yourself.
When you inject more playfulness with honesty into the communication, it can help you transition from the flirtatious stage to a real relationship faster. This is particularly effective when you are apart, i.e., you see each other twice a week, so there are still a few days each week when you don’t see each other. During these days, you should try and inject playfulness into the interactions via text & on the telephone.
Never second-guess yourself. Just be 100% authentic and then you will see whether she meets the beautiful energy you bring. In a romantic relationship, you are supposed to lead with high energy because you are a man. 😉
Does she meet your standards?
Brian has been seeing an Eastern European woman for a while. As that lady is an introvert, Brian doesn’t know how to chat with her. Therefore, Brian asked for my advice.
Here is my advice for anyone who is in this situation: If she isn’t good at texting and talking on the phone, there are two possibilities: 1) She is very introverted, so she isn’t very good with words. 2) She is just not that into you.
The solution is to bring more fun to the interactions via text & on the phone. When you flirt more, the right person will reciprocate. Otherwise, you know that’s the wrong person, so you should stop wasting your time.
If you are a passionate guy, you deserve a passionate woman. If she isn’t passionate, that means she isn’t the right woman for you. It’s time to look for the right woman for you!
Don’t forget that the right Eastern European woman is also looking for you!
Bring passion to every interaction on the date and we’re certain you’ll hear the much-awaited “I love you” soon. In the meanwhile, make sure to sign up with Ukraine Brides Agency for more insightful and prudent observations about the world of international dating!
Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
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