How to make the Slavic woman want to have a second date with you

July 29, 2021 at 8.03am by in Slavic Women
Slavic women

Many men can get the first date, so the real question is how to get the second date. Now please allow me to share some techniques with you. 😉

  • The untold reasons why some guys cannot get the 2nd date:

In general, there are 2 reasons why some guys cannot get the 2nd date: A) Women find them too boring. B) Women pigeonhole these guys as ‘fun guys who do not understand love’.

Let’s have a look at the first category – boring men.

When a boring man is on the first date with a woman, he surely agrees with Everything she says (‘Everything’ certainly has a capital E). He is keen to find a very high degree of commonality. He wants to build a rapport with her. Frankly, there is nothing wrong with him. Yet this boring man doesn’t have a good understanding of modern female psychology. As a result, he suffers from ‘the nice guy syndrome’: He thinks if he is very nice to ladies, ladies will like him more.

If you are extremely nice to ladies because you want ladies to be attracted to you, you have made a mistake already because you are boring.

It’s time to take a look at the 2nd category – fun men who don’t understand love.

It’s okay to have fun and enjoy life. That’s totally fine if someone is looking for something casual. But high-value Slavic women want serious relationships, so if you also would like to have a real relationship, having fun alone will not help. Let me explain.

Let’s say you are on the first date with a woman and all you are doing is telling jokes, having fun and even suggesting intimacy. This woman may find you a bit creepy because what you are doing is clearly not high-value ladies respond to in reality. Note that high-value ladies enjoy the fun side of a real relationship AND the meaningful and deep side of a real relationship. So, fun men who do not understand love hardly ever get a 2nd date. End of story.

  • Three techniques for you to implement:

Look, this is obviously not rocket science. Therefore, you can figure this out. So long as you implement the following 3 techniques, you will be able to make her want to have a second date with you. 😊

  1. Chemistry

You do not need to look like Brad Pitt so as to create chemistry on the first date. However, you do need to know how to ignite the spark.

For example, you could say this to the Slavic woman, “You’re a very smart woman” while looking at her beautiful nails. Or perhaps you may give her a drink and your fingers ‘accidentally’ touch her fingers; meanwhile, you let the silence build attraction as your eyes meet her eyes. Or you may move her long hair naturally so you could take a look at her earrings while paying her a genuine compliment. 😉

  • Emotional connection

Please do not discuss your childhood trauma on the first date. In fact, you shouldn’t talk about very serious emotions on the 1st date. As a result, you would be well-advised to avoid sharing negative emotions / experiences like how badly your ex-wife treated you or tragedies that happened in the past.

On the 1st date with a Slavic woman, the ideal way to build a solid emotional connection is to share insightful comments. For instance, you may mention a tough decision you have made in your life and say, “Hard choices, easy life; easy choices, hard life.”

A friend of mine told a Slavic lady that he fired a client and it wasn’t easy to do, then he said, “Hard choices, easy life; easy choices, hard life.” In that moment, that woman began to pay full attention to every word he was saying. She asked, “What are you going to do this weekend?” – She wanted to see him again. Apparently, this guy secured a 2nd date effortlessly.

  • Playfulness

When you are spontaneous and playful, you are basically taking her back to the playground. Now she feels mentally relaxed and sensually alive. That’s the fun part of the interaction which is necessary on the 1st date.

Knowing these 3 techniques is not enough; you have to implement them. A rule to remember: You’d better weave these 3 elements in & out of the interactions with her on the 1st date.

“You may begin with having fun, then you inject insightful comments into the interaction, then you build attraction, then you say something deep and meaningful again, and then you tell a joke. That’s how you create true connection with a woman.”

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