If you aren’t good at socializing with people, chances are you are a bit shy. Maybe you need to overcome long-term shyness. Research shows that shy individuals tend to avoid social events and date less than outgoing people. Therefore, if you are a relatively shy gentleman looking to join international dating, this blog post will help you. It will show you exactly how to overcome long-term shyness and become a much more charismatic person in general.
- Change your tone.
Becoming an interesting person requires a lot of work. You probably need to read more books and watch movies so that you will have something interesting to talk about. My mentor told me that every day he spends a few minutes reading the news. This would allow him to talk about something relevant and reasonably interesting whenever he interacts with other people. It is important that you are aware of what you fill your brain with. Personally, I always fill my brain with good information every single day by studying online or reading different books. 😉
Having said that, there is a shortcut. The shortcut to an interesting conversation is to sound excited over the most boring things while talking to other people.
Quite frankly, most people don’t really have extremely interesting conversations. When two people meet each other, they usually do some sort of small talk. If you don’t have anything exciting to say when someone asks, “How are you?”, that’s actually fine. You can make your dull answer sound interesting by changing your tone. When your tone is exciting, the topic seems to be more exciting as well.
Here is an example:
A PARTY GUEST: Hi. How are you?
YOU: I just had my second cocktail tonight. (You aren’t saying anything very exciting, but you can make your tone sound exciting. Then the party guest will probably ask what cocktail you’ve had. In which case, you can talk about the cocktail by adding excitement to the way you speak.)
- Have some outgoing friends.
If you are a very shy guy, you would be well-advised to have some outgoing friends. This is because your behavior can be significantly influenced by your friends’ behavior. Remember: Who you spend your time with determines how you spend your time to some degree.
Friendship is a high-level human relationship because it’s not based on romance or family – it’s purely based on shared values. That is to say, friends are the family that you choose to have according to your own value system.
Let’s say you’ve decided to become more outgoing. Please make sure that social skills become a priority in your values. Now it’s time to find a new friend who has excellent social skills, and then learn from this person!
After spending some time together, the new friend will most likely invite you to parties. You should accept as many of these invitations as you can. This will give you many more opportunities to hone your social skills frequently.
That also means you should choose friends wisely. If you actually have a lot of shy friends, this certainly doesn’t help you to improve your social skills. No, I’m not saying you should end your friendship with your shy friends, but you probably have to spend less time with them. This is so that you can spend more time with your sociable friends who may introduce you to women so you can find an international relationship. 😊
“When you are on UkraineBridesAgency.com, you can find a relationship through international dating that will make you very happy and really satisfied.”
If you want to find out more about international dating and how you could benefit from it, you can visit our site, Ukraine Brides Agency. You can also get inspired by all the success stories on this site! There is a lot of dating advice you can benefit from. Register now so you can find your soulmate through international dating!
Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
Commenting rules
Members comments are welcome and we encourage comments and discussions.
We ask that you put some thought in to your posts and that you follow these commenting rules and guidelines:
Failure to comply with these rules may result in your comment not being published.