Today I received a message from a guy who recently broke up with his ex-girlfriend. He writes, “I broke up with my girlfriend last week. Now I’m in pain. How can I manage this challenge in a positive way?” I told him I would share my answer on Ukraine Brides Agency where other men could see my advice.
Two aspects of a breakup in international dating:
There are two aspects of a breakup:
A) the physical aspect, i.e., the fact that it has already happened;
B) the psychological aspect, i.e., how you feel about the breakup & what the breakup means to you.
I know many people who are divorced still say phrases such as “my ex-wife” or “my ex-husband”, which is understandable and normal. However, I would argue that when someone uses possessive pronouns such as ‘my’, this person isn’t fully divorced psychologically, although the physical aspect of the divorce has already happened.
Control your narrative
When you go through a breakup, which story are you telling yourself? – “I’ve lost a woman that is wrong for me” or “I’ve lost my partner, the love of my life.”
After a breakup, some people tend to think of what they would have been doing with their ex if they were still with them. Hence, I’d like you to change your focus to look at the gains instead of the losses in this situation.
Please write a list of all the wonderful things that would never have happened if you had stayed in that relationship. For example, I broke up with someone earlier this year, so I wrote a list of all the great things that never would have happened had I remained in that relationship:
- The freedom to do whatever I want when it comes to career choices;
- The freedom to live my authentic life without coming up with what to say to that person all the time;
- The freedom to wear whatever I like;
- The huge amount of quality time that I can spend with my family;
- Lots of spare time for myself – Now I can read more books, write more blog articles and sleep in!
Emotional resilience and clarity help you to survive a breakup.
How does an international dating website work?
Many people on Ukraine Brides Agency have had relationships before. They survived breakups, and now they are ready for real love online. More importantly, they are interested in international dating because they believe that women from Eastern Europe are more likely to give them true love, as Eastern European women have traditional values and more respect for men.
When you create a dating profile on Ukraine Brides Agency, you are able to meet Slavic ladies online. Ukraine Brides Agency also offers video and audio chat features to help you communicate with your lady online more effectively. There is an automatic translation feature as well.
Better still, Ukraine Brides Agency can organise your international trip for you so you can meet your lady in person safely!
International dating is the key to success in love. We know how much those three little words mean to you and we’re certain you’ll hear the “I love you” soon, from your international relationship. In the meanwhile, make sure to sign up with Ukraine Brides Agency for more insightful and prudent observations about the world of international dating!
Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
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