How To Talk To A Woman From Eastern Europe On The First Date

Tonight I received a question from a guy who wrote, “I’m going to have the first date with an Eastern European woman next week. Now I’m a bit nervous. I haven’t had a date for many years. Could you please tell me how to approach this date?”

What to do if you feel anxious before the first date:

The main issue with anxiety is that we think we shouldn’t have anxiety. However, without it, we wouldn’t have survived millions of years ago. Try to look at the situation and say, “Okay. Anxiety is embedded in all of us, yet we don’t have to say that anxiety is bad.” In fact, you can make anxiety your friend, which helps you stop being anxious about being anxious. That is exactly where it messes you up. That reminds me of a period of time when I was suffering from reflux. I had to sleep on an adjustable bed at that time. I told my doctor about it. The doctor said that I was dealing with a physical aspect as well as a psychological aspect. The physical aspect was handled, so the key was to handle the psychological aspect, i.e., the way I was relating to reflux.

Embrace your anxiety

My doctor said to me, “You probably see this problem as a foreign object because it’s something that you never had previously. Although sometimes you have distractions, you check back in just to see whether the foreign object is still there when the distraction ends. Actually, you’d better see this issue as a friend that accompanies you. Don’t try to repel this foreign object. Instead, make some space for reflux at the table because this is your friend.”

What the doctor told me changed everything, as I began to make some space for reflux and see it as an old friend. With this mindset, I changed the intensity of how reflux affects me emotionally. This is so powerful. Similarly, if you are anxious before the first date, you would be well advised to make space for anxiety and see it as a friend. Let it be there. You will be fine.

What to say to your Eastern European woman on the very first date:

First of all, most Eastern European women on Ukraine Brides Agency speak English; these ladies are learning English every single day because they are keen to have long relationships with foreign gentlemen like you.

Having said that, if you can say a few words in her first language, I think she will be very impressed because she appreciates the effort!

Why not prepare some jokes to tell her on the first date? I’m sure you will feel more relaxed after laughing out loud & she will like you more because of your humour!

Of course, you can talk about common topics such as family and careers on the first date, but please focus on her motivations and emotions, e.g., why she wants to be a teacher, how her family and friends make her feel, and so on. This technique helps you to build a connection with her.   

The first date is a great opportunity for you to create chemistry and attraction if you know how to talk to her. Online dating gives you so many opportunities to meet high-quality women that you wouldn’t meet in real life. Try the world on international dating and see how your love life takes a turn for the better. Register on Ukraine Brides Agency!

Olga P

Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.