We have had many men visit their ladies over this summer and many have found happiness and success………….but a few have been disappointed. We prepare post meeting reports on every man and every meeting and when reviewing these reports, we notice that there is a trend among men who find disappointment – they simply did not understand the expectations of the lady and effectively crushed any chance for romance from the very first minute of meeting her.
I dont mean that he should have come laden with gifts or promises, in fact this may also be a turn-off for the lady. I mean that he made basic mistakes that caused the lady to believe that he may not be the man for her.
If you are traveling to meet your lady for the first time, you have only one chance to make a great first impression – and you need to nail it! No amount of communication prior to meeting will help if the real thing is a disappointment. We are producing a video to give basic tips to men to create that great first impression, nail that first date and then smash it in the second and third dates. This will include tips such as:
You only have one chance to make a great first impression – prepare for it
Dont ask her to meet you at the airport – go to your hotel, rest, freshen up, dress to kill and have a small gift for her
Meet somewhere nice and dress your best – no matter where you are meeting, an Ukraine lady will be dressed in her best for the first date – and so should you
Be patient and let the conversation flow – you want to know about her and she wants to know about you
Dont tell her you must go as you have another date in 20 minutes!
Dont tell her your leaving tomorrow as you have 3 other ladies to visit on this trip
Dont interrogate her over some misunderstanding – it is usually a language miscommunication
Be yourself and be honest – if you lie it will catch you out
This is a summary of some of the things you can do to impress her and move the relationship forward, It really is very simple – but equally as simple to ruin it.
Svetlana Mukha, our matchmaking partner and dating coach has prepared a video talking about Jeffery and his disappointments with dating sites. We identify with Jeffery as we hear his story often – and he is not alone. I hope you enjoy the video and learn from it.
Feel free to contact us at any time as we are there to help. Remember that we offer FREE personal one-on-one consultations to assist you at any time.
Nadezhda is a romantic who enjoys writing poetry and painting. She loves travelling and experiencing different cultures. In her free time, she volunteers at local shelters, practices yoga, and loves quiet moments with a good book and a cup of herbal tea.
Great article. I have been to Ukraine three times. My last visit was omly recently. I only met with one woman, and in the time I was there we went for 5 meetings ( dates ) with each one it was more relaxed and we talked about anything and everything, there was no long silence during our dates. I have since returned to my Country and we continue to talk on a regular basis. To develop a relationship through distance is difficult but can be done. Things to remember are try to put yourself in your future partners situation, and understand that they are possibly going to live away from thier family and friends. This is a big change in their life, so be patient as all good things take time.
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