7 Ways to Become the Man of Her Dreams

The world has changed in so many different ways than we ever realize. Looking back to 10, 20 or 30 years ago, people’s way of living was a lot different. And it is the same even when it comes to dating.

Today, it is easy to meet people by just logging on to the internet and signing up for social media sites and online dating sites. Things are really a lot easier. And well, we must admit that it works for our own benefit and convenience. While there was a significant change over the years primarily because of how technology molded the world we are living in, there are still some things that never change, especially in relationships.

Dating and communication might have been a lot easier now than it used to, but when it comes to love and relationships, women are still looking for certain elements for them to be able to say that “he is the one”.

If you are dating a girl right now and you want to be “the one” for her, and you want her to see that you can be the man of her dreams;

Here are some important things that you need to consider.

1. Be confident about yourself

There is a thin line between confidence and arrogance, so make sure that you don’t fall on the latter. Just be confident enough for you to be able to muster all our courage to get up and approach her. You should be confident enough to shrug off your fears just to talk to her because you know for sure that you like her. Just like a woman, a confident man is attractive and sexy.

2. Show a little of your funny side

A little sense of humor won’t hurt. In fact, many girls are attracted to guys who are actually funny even if they are not that good looking. However, you also have to make sure that you are not forcing it or trying too hard to sound funny. It must be natural and genuine. One of the best and proven ways to a woman’s heart is by making her laugh. If you have a genuine sense of humor, the girl you are crushing on will definitely always want to be around you because they will feel comfortable and warm with your company.

3. Give her the respect that she deserves

When it comes to relationships, it is not just all about love. There should be respect as well, because in the end, respect is one of the most important things that will keep you together. Even when the spark is gone after years of being together, when you respect each other, your relationship will have the potential to last a lifetime. And this what any woman wants. They want and need to be respected for who they are, regardless of where they came from, regardless of their beliefs and opinions. And she will give you the same.

4. Show her you are a trustworthy person

These days, one of the things that hold women back from committing into a relationship is the fear that they might get hurt and get their hearts broken. Why? Because of their bad experiences in their previous relationships where they got cheated on. Or it could be because that’s what their friend or a family member went through. While guys are not the only ones who can cheat, you need to show the girl that you are not like any other guys out there and that you have pure intentions for her. It may not be easy to show because trust is earned over time but it is something you can show her every single even in your little own ways.

For example, avoid looking at other girls when you are with her. It will look like you are not really contented with who you are with. More importantly, you need to be honest with her about anything and everything. If you want her to be honest with you, give her honesty, too. Nobody wants to be fooled and lied to, right?

5. Be a provider

If you want her to see that you are a boyfriend or a husband material, you got to show her that you can be financially independent and reliable. She needs to see as someone who can be capable of providing for her in case when the two of you starts to build your own family. She will only consider taking you seriously if she sees that you are a responsible person and you will be able to provide for your future children’s needs. However, you don’t necessarily have to shower her with expensive gifts nor bring her to fancy restaurants all the time. It is not about how much money you have. It’s simply about being able to provide her with thoughtfulness even if your gifts are not that pricey.

6. Learn how to acknowledge her and make her feel appreciated

Girls need constant appreciation. Even if you just reminded her how beautiful she is yesterday, you need to give her another compliment today, or thank her even for the littlest things. Doing this will help make her feel assured of herself and it will also make her see that she means a lot to you. Of course, you need to make sure that your appreciation is sincere.

7. Introduce her to your friends and family

Another thing you can do to make your girl feel special is by introducing her to your friends and family. By doing this, you are allowing her to get to know you more through the people who matter to you. She will also more likely going to commit when she starts feeling comfortable not only with you, but with the people you love. This is the point where she could start imagining how it will be like when she gets into a relationship with you, and when she commits her life to you.

Olga P

Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.