The No. 1 reason for divorce in most countries is money. Sad, but true. Therefore, all individuals who are looking to get married would be well advised to figure out how to manage their personal finances and stay married.
The truth about personal finances in a relationship
Generally speaking, there are 3 pillars in a marriage:
1) connection;
2) intimacy;
3) money.
Unfortunately, in most cultures, money is a taboo topic, and kids don’t learn anything about money when they are at school. It seems that schools don’t teach people the right subjects.
I know several guys who run hugely successful companies with their wives and they will never get divorced because of their businesses, i.e. mutual benefits. There is nothing wrong with that – when one pillar in a marriage is strong enough, it can help a lot.
Frankly, if a marriage has 1 pillar in it, it can still work. If a marriage has 2 pillars in it, it is a high-quality marriage. If a marriage has 3 pillars in it, this couple should totally be on Oprah. Personally, I’ve never seen a marriage with all 3 pillars in it!
Why using your wealth to attract a Ukrainian bride is not a good idea:
First of all, Ukrainian women don’t want to be bought. When a lady is looking for a genuine relationship, she doesn’t expect a guy to buy her, as she certainly wants to feel attracted to a man first. So, please do not use your wealth to buy a lady’s love. If you need to use your wealth to buy someone’s love, she already doesn’t love you. End of story.
American author Mark Manson famously said, “Using your wealth to bargain with somebody into respecting you or loving you ruins the whole project, for if you have to persuade somebody to love you, they already don’t love you; if you have to convince somebody to respect you, they don’t respect you & never will; if you have to convince someone to trust you, they will not trust you.”
Beyond financial finances, play to your strengths
As I see it, improving your grooming is the easiest method of getting results quickly because improving your looks is obviously easier than growing the balance of your bank account. All you have to do is purchase some new outfits and get a great haircut. In my opinion, your clothes don’t have to be expensive, yet they must be, because Ukrainian women are fashion-conscious ladies who expect their men to dress well, too. So, you can go to H&M and become a very stylish man today. Just get rid of your boring or ugly clothes and dress better from now on. Then you will become more confident at the same time because how you look also influences how you feel.
Ukrainian ladies like stylish men with elegant taste; therefore, don’t underestimate the power of personal grooming. Your physical attractiveness will not last long; you should enjoy your good looks when you still have time.
Second, if you show off your financial success, you might be used by some women. Indeed, when a man has nothing else to offer, he usually wants to show off his money to impress ladies, which only indicates his weakness instantly as his action screams, “I’m not an attractive man, and the only method of compensating you for my lack of attractiveness is to give you cash”. A guy like that won’t attract a positive relationship.
When wealth actually works for you:
In actuality, if you have higher status and more money, you need less attractive behaviour. If you have lower status and less money, you need more attractive behaviour. Note that wealth can be leveraged when the circumstances are right. Please let me explain.
Some men have arrangements with women, which is fine (I’m not the most judgmental person in the world). In that case, their arrangements are all about value exchange. But UkraineBridesAgency.com is only for Western men and Ukrainian brides to build serious, long-term, and meaningful relationships and marriages, so this website is not for people who are looking for arrangements.
Investing in your love life will benefit you in the long run.
Whenever I see a young guy in his 20s trying to save money, I feel sorry for him, as he is making a mistake. If a 22-year-old man is thinking about how to save 50 cents when buying a T-shirt, maybe he will still think of how to save 50 cents when buying a T-shirt when he is 32 or 42. How sad is that?! I mean, you would be ill-advised to focus on saving money when you are in your 20s because, in my view, saving money should be a focus later in your life.
When you are 22 years old, you have to invest in yourself.
Actually, my mentor even claims that you may benefit from spending all of your money when you are in your 20s, so you won’t need to worry about how to save 50 cents in your 30s, 40s, 50s, etc. As far as I’m concerned, so long as you have a very actionable financial plan and you can actually stick to it, you can totally invest in yourself when you’re in your 20s. Then you’ll get the benefits in the long term, for you will not need to worry about how to save 50 cents when buying a T-shirt in your 30s, 40s, etc. You will become a more intelligent, capable, and sophisticated guy who can attract high-value women in your life, thereby becoming successful in love, in business, and in life.
That’s why paying for an international dating service is a shortcut to success in your love life.
Ukraine Brides Agency is your solution to international dating
Ukraine Brides Agency automatically sends eligible candidates to you, so you can save a large amount of time. Further, you would benefit from hiring a dating coach because oftentimes it’s hard to see your own mistakes or blind spots until a coach points them out for you. Many smart guys use these resources and only get smarter, happier, and richer.
That being said, it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t spend money on women. Honestly, you can spend money on your Ukrainian girlfriend as a reward. It’s okay for you to buy her a nice dinner after she’s done something great for you.
“Please don’t show off your fancy car or your big mansion in your dating profile photo. You can demonstrate your high status by wearing a nice suit in your photo.”
Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
Yes, good ladies exist.. but for every GOOD one hiding behind tge bushes, there are 9 others who are strutting their beautiful legs & etc etc.. ? I personally find that I am not making much money because of a lack of trust in the previous.. Hmm.. Ukrainian ladies have a lot to teach us..!!
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