If you’ve met a lady that you are attracted to, you probably want to know how to ask her out, right? Today I’m going to show you exactly how to ask a woman out tactfully!
Something that inspires dating tips for modern men:
When I was an intern in a department store, I learned something very interesting from my manager at that time. The following section comes from the manual that my manager gave me.
Ask questions that can only lead to “yes” before closing the sale:
Examples:
ME: “This design is so creative, isn’t it?”
CUSTOMER: “Yes.”
ME: “This color is very versatile, right?”
CUSTOMER: “Yes.”
Now when I ask, “Are you happy with this?” The customer is more likely to say “Yes” because I’ve used conditioning on the customer.
I learned a lot from the above-mentioned idea because this technique can be used in other contexts as well, especially in the dating context! 😊
Ask her questions that can only lead to ‘yes’ before asking her out for a date with you.
If you are looking to take a woman out for a date, you don’t have to directly ask her, “Would you like to go out with me sometime?” Instead, you can pre-frame the situation by asking her other questions that will only lead to “yes”.
Examples:
YOU: “Tomorrow is Friday, right?”
HER: “Yes.”
YOU: “Having a few drinks on a Friday night is going to be very relaxing, isn’t it?”
Her: “Yes.”
Now when you ask her, “Shall we go out tomorrow?”, her answer is more likely to be “yes”.
Ask her out by assuming that she wants to go out with you.
Amongst all my dating tips, this tip is probably the most effective one!
Sometimes when you assume that a woman already wants to go out with you, it’s so much easier to ask her out for a date without even asking!
Example:
YOU: “Tomorrow night I’m going to a cocktail bar to listen to some jazz music because my favorite local band is going to perform in that cocktail bar. I think you should come!”
Please note that many women would be grateful if you ask them out in this way because answer a ‘yes/no’ question gives them more pressure, whereas saying “OK” after hearing your statement is so much easier (less pressure = more rapport).
When you assume that a woman already likes you, the nature of the interactions will change – the communication becomes a man-to-woman conversation. This is a way to condition her behavior, and then her behavior will change her feelings and emotions. That’s why when you start a relationship with an assumption, she will probably do the work for you! 😉
Here’s hoping you found the blog post we’ve put here helpful! If you’d like similar information, do have a look at our other blog posts with other insightful and practical dating advice too. Have faith that you will find your special someone soon – we know you will! Register with Ukraine Brides Agency and we’re certain you will find our material useful in your international dating journey. Good luck!
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