Why you need to Pursue the Love that you Want

July 3, 2017 at 6.00am by in Online Dating
Pursue the Love that you Want

There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, simply because nobody’s perfect. There will always be a lot of things to fight about, to argue about because no two people are the same. The differences, imperfections and the flaws of the two people involved in the relationship are the things that will naturally cause the trouble every now and then, but that is perfectly normal. While love and relationships are indeed challenging, there are also a number of beautiful reasons why they are worthwhile.

Here are a few important reasons why you need to pursue that kind of love that you want

1. Falling in love is not something that happens every single day

If you are a believer of soulmates, then you must know that meeting them is not something that you can just take for granted. We will never know who the right person is for us until we decide and begin to risk. The danger of staying on the safe side and not risking is the fact that you might lose that single chance at love and you might not be given the same chance again.

2. It is difficult to live life with regrets

Life is too short to live it with regrets, so do not be afraid to take risks and take chances. It is better that you risk and find out, than choose to play safe and live the rest of your life trying to think about the “what if’s”, or the “what might have been’s” and the “what could have been’s”, especially when you know you had a choice.

3. Love is worth fighting for

There are a few things in this world that are worth fighting for and one of them is love. Misunderstandings and arguments are natural and that is because of each and every person’s indifferences, imperfections and because no two people are the same. But at the end of the day, it only loves that can surpass all of these things, and it is only love that could make you want to go back to the same person no matter how messy things can be because you don’t see yourself being with anybody else anymore.

4. It makes you feel alive

No matter how difficult and risky love is, it is one of the most beautiful things that can make you feel alive. It is a life-changing experience that gives several rewards. The possibility of pain and getting hurt are always there, and there is no guarantee that you won’t get hurt, but even if you do, the experience will let you grow as a person. There will be a lot of life lessons that will enrich your soul. Your life will be so much more fulfilled in meaningful ways than you have ever imagined.

5. You are human and you are allowed to make mistakes

This means that you are not expected to make all the right decisions all the time. After all, what makes us human are our imperfections, and it is perfectly okay to commit mistakes at times because we will never know if it’s wrong or right until you’ve had the chance to be there. Just learn how to forgive yourself no matter what happens. Who knows, this chance could be what you are waiting for so you can finally be happy. But whether you succeed or fail, the things you learn along the way will always be a part of your most valuable life lessons.

6. Life goes on

Whatever you go through in life and in love will never last, whether it is good or bad because nothing is permanent in this world. If good and happy times do not last forever, the bad times will not last either. It does not mean though that you cannot live a happy life with someone, the thing is that ups and downs are always going to be there. And whatever it is that you go through today will not matter tomorrow anymore or next day, or next month or next year.

  • Lowell Nelson

    It’s better to love and lost then to never have loved at all


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