Just a decade ago, online dating was a taboo topic, but fortunately today it has become very, very mainstream.
Online dating is the main way for senior singles to find love nowadays.
Research shows that almost 50% of couples who started their romantic relationships in 2020 met each other on the Internet. Since most individuals look at their smartphones and laptops more frequently than anything else, international dating sites have got many senior singles’ attention as well. So, a lot of senior daters in their 50s and 60s are looking for love online right now.
How to be a good conversationalist on the 1st date:
One strategy is to watch more comedy shows. When you are able to make a lady laugh, she will start to flirt with you in a natural way. She may play with her hair and maintain eye contact with you as when a lady is laughing at your jokes, she wants to connect with you at an emotional level. That is to say, you are supposed to trigger good emotions and feelings in the lady’s brain so she will want to spend more time with you.
Maybe you can watch a comedy show each week. You will certainly learn some highly effective jokes and humor. This new skill can help you keep the conversation going on the first date!
Another strategy is to become a dopamine dealer. As I see it, a dopamine dealer is an individual who constantly gives others good feelings and emotions. Please note that this is beyond telling interesting jokes, okay? Being a dopamine dealer is a high-level technique!
For example, rather than asking a lady, “What do you do for a living?”, consider saying instead, “You are very artistic, you must be a musician!” Now she will start to associate you with true attention and real validation, as you carefully observed her and you actually want to know her as a person. She will want to keep the conversation going on the date, for she is keen to talk about herself. In other words, she will work hard and you won’t need to worry too much about how to never run out of things to say on a date.
To make a lady smile, you should smile at her first. This concept is often known as ‘mirroring’ – when you show somebody a certain behavior in a social context, this individual is more likely to show you a very similar behavior.
Clearly, you could use this concept on a date. When you see your lady, you need to smile at her first so she will have to smile at you, too.
The Power of Compliments
Remember to give your lady compliments in the right ways. As a high-value woman, she certainly has received lots of compliments from guys previously. Please note that most guys would only praise her attractiveness, and she knows she is an attractive lady based on how men interact with her. Therefore, you would be well-advised to praise her intelligence rather than her beauty!
Go on Creative Dates
Making a date creative and interesting is an art! Here’s an idea to woo your partner — Let’s say you take your lady to the beach at night and you two are listening to the soothing waves of the ocean. Consider saying to her, “Just look at the beautiful stars in the midnight sky. Which shining star do you like? I will go there and get it for you!”
Now your lady will need some time to think about what to say. At this moment, take out a little jewelry box and open the box slowly. Inside the beautiful box, there is a piece of jewelry which looks like a shining star!
Try it and let us know how she reacts. 🙂
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