The five golden rules for contacting women on dating sites

June 21, 2019 at 12.18pm by in Dating advice

Love is an innate feeling that fuels the biological and neurological condition. We all have a desire for a strong connection and to be with someone who fulfills our heart, soul, and mind. We do not want to feel empty.

Messaging women on a dating site is not always easy. Competition can be tough, especially if you are admiring for an attractive woman. Here are the five golden rules to keep in mind when you are composing your first message to the possible woman of your dreams.


Ladies always read a man’s profile attentively. A good photo is obviously a must. You will miss your chance to win her and those beautiful messages will not help if your photo is not appropriate.


Different women are going to respond in different ways to different messages, but the vast majority of women prefer to be treated with respect. It is fine to be a little bit cheeky and flirty, but there is a fine line between that and being rude or nasty. Although, do not discuss her appearance in a direct way and do not send any weird photos.


Look carefully at the lady’s photo’s and have a good read of her dating profile. More relevant, start the conversation in the best way you can. Studying her profile will help you to write her not just an ordinary message but a nice and interesting one.


Do not write essays. A couple of paragraphs will be enough. However, try to include some interesting questions in your message and show her your curiosity.


Moreover, it is hard to impress on a dating site, but trying too hard to be cool can often change the situation. Do not try to make yourself to be a superhero, be yourself. Most women hate when men show off.

We hope that the advice given in this article will help you to find your Ukrainian lady through our dating site. You can find more tips on our blog.

  • David

    Regarding latest topic by Julia Kozachenko 22 June 2019
    I disagree with her comments that women are respectful yes I having trying to find love in my country but no joy i tried international like UkraineBridesAgency yes I did mention Ukrainian lady in 2017 and we communicate every day via viber and I met her in her country couple of times then she came to my country finally we got engaged but I have had problems with my eye that needs operation so I met her again in 2018 I told her I wanted to get married after eye operation and she agrees. I flew home told everybody then month later she text me a letter to say relationship is over and I was stunned I sent her flowers to get her back but my eye was important but she thinks otherwise and she did breaks my heart. Now I heard she got married this year not long since we split up. I am kind hearted guy who after love and help them with finances.
    some women hide behind masks. Julia should write to me or call me

    • Keith

      Hi David, Thank you for your feedback. Julia will email you


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