The importance of keeping your cool while being attracted to a Slavic woman

Many men go into people-pleaser mode when they fall deeply for someone. Therefore, you would be well-advised to make sure that your initial excitement at the beginning of a relationship with a Slavic woman doesn’t mutate into anxiety or fear. This would make you do certain things that might hinder rather than help your new relationship with her. Do you know how to keep your cool when you know that you like her?

With your Slavic woman, awareness is key!

In order to keep your cool while feeling attracted to somebody, be sure to have other areas of your life that definitely bring you enough fulfilment, real satisfaction, solid joy, and true connection. Ensure you have a sense of achievement and progress outside of your love life. You have to be a multi-dimensional person! 😊

Let’s look at the situation in this way: You meet a Slavic woman. You like her. But this is the initial stage of dating, so you haven’t even gotten to know each other yet. Hence, you don’t know if she is actually your life partner at this stage. This is just like someone auditioning for the lead role in a movie. You can’t treat someone who comes here for an audition like the star of the movie right now. In fact, somebody you just met can’t start as ‘the one’; they only become ‘the one’ by what they invest in this relationship over time. That is to say, you can’t treat the first date as the 100^th date because you don’t know her on the first date… yet!

Obviously, you should focus on gaining confidence and enjoyment from a wide variety of sources in life. For example, your career gives you a sense of accomplishment; your family gives you a sense of belonging; your friends give you a healthy social connection; and your hobbies give you genuine excitement. In other words, when you have a variety of sources of meaning and fulfilment in your life, you aren’t needy for connection! As a result, you want to date a Slavic woman, but you don’t need to date her. That’s how to keep your cool and be a truly confident guy.

Always have faith in your worth.

You must have very strong faith in what you have to offer in this romantic relationship and bring your best to the table on every date. Note that confidence is key!

If you are not very confident, please consider doing the following exercise:

Write down every compliment that you have received based on what you remember, and put this list somewhere that you can see every single day to remind yourself of your worth.

If you need to boost your confidence even faster, you can also write down a list of achievements in your life. Put that list on your fridge door so that you are aware of your high value.

Don’t forget that Slavic women are attracted to confident and high-value men just like you!

When you are madly in love with a person, you can oftentimes feel as if other obligations in your life are less important. Consequently, you might want to sacrifice everything else in order to spend much more time with her. Sometimes even at the cost of your own independence or other commitments which made you well-rounded. Thus, I’d like you to remember the paramount areas of your life as well as your personality. Never forget these when you focus on your new partner. Please note that nurturing the areas of your life which give you independence and your own sense of importance is very important to keeping her attraction in the first place.

We know how much those three little words mean to you and we’re certain you’ll hear the “I love you” from Slavic woman soon. In the meanwhile, make sure to sign up with Ukraine Brides Agency for more insightful and prudent observations about the world of international dating!

Olga P

Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.