Top dating tips for men (by a woman)

July 8, 2018 at 2.27am by in Dating advice


Dating tips may be too essential for you when you are about to start a relationship. Where should you meet? What should you wear? Who should pay?  We have collected some dating tips for you that can help you to have a successful date with your lady.

  1. Be confident

Women value confidence very much. If you’re a little shy then maybe you should practice beforehand or by talking to other people. The lady will sense your confidence as you talk passionately about any subject.

  1. First impressions are always important

You should never pretend to be someone that you’re not. For example, the lady might like to see that you take pride in your appearance. Don’t worry, this doesn’t mean you need to wear a full tuxedo, but having a shower, shave, using aftershave and putting on something suitable will help you impress your date and get you off to a good start

  1. Make date plans for somewhere you’ll feel comfortable


You might think that you’re being a gentleman by letting the lady choose the place of your date, but women often like to see that you can take control. Likewise, and as usual, dating might be worrying, so arranging to meet up in the familiar territory can help you to calm your nerves.

  1. Keep the conversation fun

You should keep your conversation light and fun. On your first date, you don’t want to talk about the negativity or about your problems or issues you’ve been having. Even more, women want a guy who can make them laugh and ask the right questions.

  1. Don’t do all the talking

You should make sure that you don’t do all the talking. You should try to keep what you have to say short. If the date goes well, there will be plenty of opportunities to share your stories in the future. More relevant, listening is important, as it shows that you are interested in what the lady has to say.

  1. Avoid talking about your ‘ex’

Talking about your ex is not the best topic to talk about. It’s best to stay away from this conversation. Above all, if your date does bring up the subject, try to keep answers short.

  1. Turn off your phone

Furthermore, there’s nothing more annoying than a ringing phone while trying to spend quality time with your friends or your lady. However, turn off your phone. However, if the lady knows that you’ve turned your phone off to focus on the date, she’ll really appreciate that.

  1. Offer to pay

Things have shifted and most women will assume that they are paying for their share of the bill. On the first date, insist on treating your lady. This will make you look like a gentleman. Nevertheless, but, if she still wants to pay, suggest she gets the bill on your next date if she wishes.

  1. Follow up correctly

If you don’t want to have a second date with the lady, then you don’t need to say you’ll call her. You’ll end up feeling bad and she might feel hurt. Just say, “I had a great time tonight”. If you do want to see her again, don’t play games. Hence, if you don’t contact her within a couple of days, she will work it out.

  1. Get feedback from a female friend

If you want to improve your dating skills, you can talk to a female friend. Most noteworthy, you can discuss your date, where you went, what you did, etc. Consequently, everyone has different opinions, but it can help to give you some useful feedback on how to organize your next date better.

Hence, by following these tips you have the date perfectly lined up.

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