What is a high-value connection like in an international relationship?

When you meet a Slavic lady that you are attracted to, it’s your responsibility to build a high-value connection which becomes the foundation of a global dating relationship.
 Building a high-value connection on the first date:

It’s very important to build a high-value connection on the very first date with a woman. This can be done via commanding attention and storytelling because you need to display tolerance to social pressure and core confidence.

As you are telling her stories, you are sharing relevant details about your life, letting this woman know more about your personality and spending quality time with her. Remember: spending more time with someone builds comfort effortlessly. Comfort leads to trust.

Stories that convey high-value things and make you look good are able to help you build a high-value connection naturally.

Please note that high-value story content organically builds value under the radar in an international relationship. 

Also, you have to qualify her for her personality traits as well as behavior rather than her appearance. (Qualifying a woman means showing her your standards and making her want you to choose her.)

Remember, you should only start to qualify her after your value is already established in the interaction.

Be sure to disqualify her occasionally, too. (When a woman isn’t entirely sure whether she can have you, she wants to chase you psychologically.) For example, you can say, “So you like ice cream? I prefer popcorn, so I’m not sure if things can work between us when we go to the movies.” (Of course, you should say it in a joking way.) In this way, you are increasing your perceived challenge and building some sort of tension in positive manner.

• Ask fewer questions & ask value-offering questions.

If you ask too many questions on a date, you are taking value because asking interview-mode questions places the unpleasant burden of carrying the interaction on the lady. In truth, asking interview-mode questions makes you a predictable and boring conversational burden in the interaction. Hence, in order to build a high-value connection, you have to say more statements and ask fewer questions.

By the way, if you are able to phrase an interview-mode question tactfully, your questions can become value-offering, e.g., “It seems that you are not from here because your vibe is different, so where are you from?” & “Don’t tell me that you have a 9-5 job because you look much more artistic than someone sitting in a cubicle. If you tell me that you have an office job, I’ll be disappointed.” – say it in a playful way. (These questions are better because they are questions with insight, humor and perspective.)

“When you are on a date, be sure to replace interview-mode questions with value-adding questions or statements which are interesting and specific for more stimulating conversations, thereby building an engaging international relationship.”

Nadezhda K

Nadezhda is a romantic who enjoys writing poetry and painting. She loves travelling and experiencing different cultures. In her free time, she volunteers at local shelters, practices yoga, and loves quiet moments with a good book and a cup of herbal tea.