What to text a girl

Lots of men struggle with what to text a lady and how to communicate effectively with her. Moreover, most of men have no idea what to do after they get a phone number of a lady.

Just think about it. You really only have that first interaction with a lady, the time you actually get her number, to give her your best impression. If you correspond with the letters on dating sites you have to learn how to grab her attention. However, to text a lady you like, you just have to learn how to flirt without coming on too strong.

Here are some essential tips you better learn to have a great conversation with your lady:

1. Be original. Try to send your lady a text that not just any man could send. Do not just say hi or send her a weird emoticon. Find a way to make her smile or to pick her interest. Do whatever you have to do to make her think: “Hey, there is something special about this guy. I want to keep talking to him”. Here are some ways to be original:
   – Charm her with your wit.
   – Make her laugh.
   – Tell her something she has not heard before.
2. Ask a good question. A question is a great place to start because then your woman will know that you are waiting for an answer.
   – Ask about her day or her week.
   – Make sure the question is something she can easily answer.
   – Keep it simple. Just one short sentence can communicate a large message.
3. Watch your grammar. You should make sure to watch your spelling and punctuation before you text the lady.
4. Do not try too hard. If you are trying too hard when you are first texting a woman. She will be able to tell right away. Remember to be yourself and do not go out of your way to say something that does not even sound like you just because you think it will impress her.
5. Keep her attention. Be engaging. Show your woman that you are capable of keeping up a fun conversation over the phone. Your goal in texting the woman you like is giving her just a sliver of your personality and make her want more.

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Olga P

Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.