Why the first date is paramount when you’re dating a Slavic lady

Yes, the first date with your Slavic lady is very important because, in many ways, it sets the foundation for your relationship.

When you meet your Slavic lady.

If you visit your Slavic lady in Eastern Europe, the Ukraine Brides Agency team will help you with the first date because we have to make sure that the lady is safe. Therefore, all you need to do is prepare what you want to say and plan some interesting activities that both of you can do on your first real date.

Romance and conversational skills.

Obviously, your conversation skills are paramount. Many years later, you and your wife likely won’t remember what you said on the first date, but both of you will remember how you felt, where you went and what you did on the first date.

Kevin is an American guy who is married to a very elegant Slavic lady. They still clearly remember their first date. On their 10^th wedding anniversary, Kevin wrote a poem for his wife (Kevin isn’t a great writer, so he borrowed some ideas from a song, but the poem is not completely plagiarised):

For a moment like this

Some individuals wait a lifetime;

For that one special kiss,

I can’t even believe it’s happening to me.

My life is forever changed the moment I met my lady,

It makes me wonder how I ever lived without you.

When you ask her out for a date.

If you ask a woman out by texting her, you may want to have a look at this text message, which is a pretty good example. “Hi Sarah, I’m Donald from the wine-tasting event. This Friday afternoon, I’m going to Starbucks. The music there is excellent. Would you like to join me?”

Then, based on her response, you will be well-calibrated and find a good time to meet her.

In the above-mentioned example, you add something like “The music there is really good” so that there is an external focus. This is to say that apart from having a date with you, she has one more reason to go to Starbucks, so it is a bit easier for her to say yes to the first date request.

The venue doesn’t have to be Starbucks. You will need to tailor this text message according to your specific situation and context.

When you add an external focus to the message, you need to be specific, e.g., “The music there is excellent,” “The coffee there is the best I’ve ever had,” or “They have the most phenomenal Italian food in town.” This way, you are using an external fact to convince her, so she feels like she shouldn’t miss out on something awesome and would not feel persuaded by you. This is a great way to spark more interest.

The power of persuasion.

Many men are too “nice” when they ask women out. For example, a few years ago, I met a guy at a party. He gave me his business card and asked me to text him. He said to me, “Can we go on a date? Send me a text message, and we will go to an Italian restaurant for a dinner date.” I didn’t text him, but I sent him an email a few days later. In the email, I was talking about something we discussed at the party. I didn’t ask him out. However, the email address on his business card was invalid for some reason (he probably changed his email address but didn’t update the information on his business card).

I think in general, men should just be more persuasive in asking to meet a woman for a date. Slavic dating experts claim that when you ask a woman for a date, your attitude should be kind, but your message should be more persuasive.

If you are using a dating website, you can always test different profile photos and see which photo has the highest conversion rate. If you want to find out more about international dating and how you could benefit from it, you can visit our site, Ukraine Brides Agency. You can also get inspired by all the success stories on this site! There is a lot of dating advice you can benefit from. Register now so you can find your soulmate through international dating!

Olga P

Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.