Become a capable guy & attract a high-quality Eastern European woman

November 30, 2020 at 2.59pm by in Slavic Women
Eastern European women

I have recently interviewed several successful entrepreneurs who are happily married to elegant Eastern European women. Their insights are profound.

  • Entrepreneurs who are married to Eastern European wives….

Starting a business can be overwhelming, particularly when you believe in the following myths:

Myth #1: You need to get ready before you get started.

No, you don’t need to get ready before you officially get started. I would argue that you should start before you are ready. Please let me explain.

Usually, when you think you are not ready yet, it’s actually because you have fear of failure or fear of success. Fear of failure is easy to understand, but what is fear of success?

Fear of success is fear of responsibilities. The process of getting ready for something is oftentimes avoidance activities only.

Myth #2: You have to have the perfect idea before you start your own business.

Truthfully, you won’t have the perfect idea because nobody has seen a perfect idea. A perfect idea today won’t be perfect tomorrow, and perfection doesn’t even exist.

What you should do is to have a good idea and have the courage to implement that idea. Then you will be well-calibrated and fine-tune your idea in the future.

Myth #3: You must hire a business coach before starting your own business. Well, if you can afford to hire a business coach before getting started, that’s great because you don’t have to learn everything through trial and error. But as I see it, it’s perfectly okay to wing it, especially if you are very passionate about what you do – when your business is your passion, you will have the time to figure things out as you are running your business.

  • How to stop caring about what people think of you:

Worried about what people think of you? That’s a very common concern because we all want to be liked by others – that’s just human nature. However, if you want to achieve extraordinary success, you have to operate differently – you need to stop caring about what people think of you from now on so that you can live a life true to yourself and fulfil your potential.

Surprisingly, most people are not even thinking of you. Who has the time to think about you? Maybe your parents, your siblings and some of your friends? Truthfully, most people are not even thinking about you because they are busy thinking about themselves and their own problems.

Play to win VS Play not to lose: Fear of judgement and criticism usually comes from playing not to lose. This mindset is not the most liberating way to approach life and work. I would argue that winners actually play to win instead of playing not to lose because ironically, you are more likely to encounter whatever you want to avoid – you are constantly thinking about “not to lose”, so the keyword becomes “lose”. Okay, if you don’t believe that, now you can try not to think about a pink elephant – and then what can you see in your head? A pink elephant!

  • Beat fear so you can attract a high-quality Eastern European woman.

Psychologists in Australia claim that women are more likely to have anxiety. The root cause of all anxieties is fear. Now let’s find out how to beat fear!

Step 1: Understand that fear and love cannot co-exist. When you have some kind of fear, it usually means you are focusing on things that you don’t want rather than things that you love. I’d like you to carefully think about things that you truly love. When you focus on these things, fear cannot dominate your thoughts.

Step 2: Find out what you are grateful for. Don’t take things for granted. I’m pretty sure that you can find many things you are grateful for right now. When you fully feel the gratitude, fear cannot occupy a big part of your brain anymore.

Step 3: Appreciate everyone, everything. Actually, appreciation is more powerful than gratitude because appreciation means you don’t have to get something first in order to be happy – you can still be appreciative even if other people haven’t contributed anything to your life. Can you appreciate their personality, their attitude or even their fashion?

Step 4: Listen to your inner leader. Whenever you have fear, oftentimes it’s because your inner worrier is making you anxious. So, you have to awaken your inner leader that can give you the courage you need. An example:

Worrier: “Oh. People will laugh at me if I make a mistake during this presentation.”

Leader: “Don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good.”

“When you are empowered, successful and fearless, you are an attractive man and can attract a high-quality, high-value, elegant and intelligent Eastern European woman.”

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