If you haven’t had a relationship for a very long time and now you are looking to find a serious relationship again, consider dating a Slavic lady! Slavic women have traditional and conservative values that you might just admire and align with mature men. Read on for UBA’s dating advice, tailored for you.
How to begin looking for real love again as mature men
You ended a romantic relationship and you wonder if you should begin dating once again.
No matter how you feel, you should consider dating again, and here’s why –
Firstly, you are supposed to feel the pain, but you should start dating anyway, for pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional. Leaving a romantic relationship is not easy, so the pain is unavoidable. Actually, feeling the pain is much better than being numb. Let’s think of an injured athlete – if a professional athlete is injured, does he/she stop training completely? Definitely no! In fact, once his/her injury has recovered to some extent, this athlete would start to train slowly and gradually.
So, you would be well-advised to acknowledge the unavoidable pain, and then start dating once again.
“The most practical and honest dating advice – feel the fear, but do it anyway.”
Making Efforts
There’s a distinction between making an effort and making an intelligent effort. Rather than going to random parties (making an effort), you selectively do activities that you really enjoy, for your interests are your real values and are important to you. It might thus be very important to you to find a Slavic woman who shares the same value system as you (making an intelligent effort).
When you’re ready to date again…
At last, you have the courage to go out and start dating again! You are going out for the very first date after the messy breakup, so you are a bit nervous now. That’s very, very normal. I would like to help you put your mind at ease.
If you are worried that you do not look perfect, put aside the worry and remember this: you can never look perfect! No one can. However, you can only try your best to look great. So, as long as you are happy with what you can see in the mirror, it’s fine! You just need to look decent, clean and put together!
But if you are thinking of what to say on the first date, you should realize that you do not have to do the rehearsal in your head repeatedly, okay? You must sound natural on the date. The more relaxed and at ease you become, the more attractive you look. You simply need to prepare something engaging to discuss on the date, not an entire script. Also, remember to have some fun. Being playful and spontaneous will make you more likeable.
Try making sure that your first date with a Slavic lady is not too long for a short first date. A quick meeting of 40-50 minutes of interesting conversation both ways will help fuel the desire and the anticipation, so you will want to schedule a second date!
On the date…
You’ve decided that you like this woman, and now you wonder if she also likes you! Please clarify what’s in your control and what’s outside your control. Trying your best and making an effort to look presentable and sound engaging is something that you can control. But whether she likes you is outside of your control. You have to do what you can and then make peace with the rest!
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