“She hasn’t texted me back yet – I think she has ghosted me already,” says Nick, “What should I do now?” (Nick has been dating online for almost two years and he still hasn’t found the one yet. What he is experiencing currently is online dating fatigue which can be prevented.)
“Apart from dating, what else are you interested in?” I ask him, “It’s time to focus on other areas of your life now. I would like you to create something so big that you don’t have time for someone who doesn’t deserve your attention. If she doesn’t meet your standards, she isn’t the right person for you, so you should move on.”
Map out your big goal.
Interestingly, when you set a big goal in life, you are more likely to find love faster. Please let me explain.
When you have a purpose / a driving goal, it’s the very thing that can get you out of bed every morning and make you decide to work hard and keep going. When you have a much bigger purpose which drives you beyond your pain caused by dating and relationships, you could override lots of pain relatively easily. In this scenario, when a woman isn’t texting you back, you could say to ourself, “I’ve got important tasks to do today. I have a bigger purpose in life. I don’t have time to worry about text messages.”
In other words, when you derive confidence from different areas of your life, you can prevent internet dating fatigue really well. When dating fatigue is prevented, you are more likely to find a successful relationship via online dating. 😊 That’s why having a big goal can help you to find true love as well. Therefore, today you would be well-advised to spend some time creating your big goal in life if you haven’t done so already. Would you like to start a business? What’s your career plan? How can you make your dreams come true? What does living an ideal life look like and feel like?
When you have a big goal, you are a more attractive man.
As a guy in a romantic relationship, you are supposed to be a leader in the dynamics. In this relationship, you are the visionary leader. By contrast, a man without a big goal is visionless and unattractive. A visionless man worries about small details, whereas a visionary leader doesn’t have time for weird anxieties, e.g., the argument that he had with a family member this morning, a woman who doesn’t respond to his text messages, etc. – because he is a growth-driven guy who leads with his positive energy.
How do you demonstrate your vision on an online dating website?
First of all, you can upload photos in which you are exploring your passion. For example, Ed is very passionate about interior design, so in one of his online dating photos, he is working on an interior design project.
Second, you can write your dating profile description tactfully, e.g., “I’m an entrepreneur with an online business that I’m proud of.” / “I’m a published author and columnist.”
A visionary leader inspires his lady, so she also wants to create a big goal which prevents her from worrying about unnecessary anxieties and dating fatigue. Positivity generates more positivity.
“Are you a visionary leader in your relationship?”
Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
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