How to be interesting on a date with an Eastern European lady

Work is an unavoidable topic on the first date. But this topic may hinder the date because you are thinking about how amazing this date is; suddenly, you start to talk about the work project that stresses you out. This isn’t very romantic, right? That’s why you would be well-advised to avoid talking about work too much when you are on a date with an Eastern European lady.

• How to be cool and interesting on a date:

The No. 1 boring topic on a date is work. Worse still, if you keep talking about work all the time, it suggests that you are totally validated by your job title. Well, I have to acknowledge that it’s okay to talk about work when the conversation is organic, yet work is not supposed to be the main topic on a date.

Unfortunately, many men just talk about their work too much. Craig is a guy who discusses “the monthly KPI” and “the weekly meeting” on every date, which is a major turn-off. Sad but true.

Hence, my advice is to focus on your dreams instead of deliverables. I mean you should talk about your future plans rather than the boring technical aspects of your work.

Remember: women are emotional. Consequently, if you talk about the dull and dry technical aspects of a job, a woman may not be able to connect with you emotionally. As a result, you have to talk to a woman more emotively. For instance, when you talk about your childhood career goals, the interaction will be more fun than blaming your lame boss who told you to do something dumb today. In general, complaining about your work is even worse than talking about your work all the time. Period.

• You can talk about people instead of numbers.

When you are on a date with an Eastern European woman, please avoid talking about “the sales funnel” and “the annual report”. Actually, you may talk about how your coworkers communicate with each other in the workplace, the end-of-year Christmas dinner with your colleagues, and so forth.

Having said that, if a woman is keen to discuss her work, you can let her do it. Perhaps she has an emotional reason for her excitement about her work. For instance, maybe she does something that genuinely satisfies her. (I know a woman who was a university professor before the pandemic and has become a retail sales consultant due to COVID-19. It turns out that this career change is the best thing that she has ever done because she didn’t want to be in the education industry forever – she had a voice injury several years ago and was planning on leaving the education industry for quite a while, and the pandemic has forced the university to make her redundant. Therefore, she became a retail sales consultant in a fashion store which she really likes – she is a fashionista. As her retail job requires social skills, negotiation skills and numeracy skills, it is indeed the right job for her.)

Well, if the Eastern European lady that you are dating wants to talk about her job, it means she is very excited about her work, which is good news. Nevertheless, if she indicates that her job is boring, you may say something along the lines of, “Truthfully, you seem to be a bit tired when you talk about your work. Frankly, I never saw you as an accountant. When I saw you for the first time, I actually thought you are very creative and artistic. Would you like to consider doing something more interesting?”

In this way, you can turn a dull topic into an inspiring topic instantly. Now this Eastern European woman will feel connected to you because she feels closer to you immediately.

Basically, you should get your lady to discuss things that she cares about. When this strategy is implemented properly, your communication will be more effective. Meanwhile, she will care about you more as you genuinely care about her.

• How to make her fall in love with you:

A good date is characterized by high-quality conversations. Usually, fabulous topics fall into three categories: A) Fun & funny things which take her back to the high school playground; B) emotive topics; C) logistics, e.g., making plans for the weekend.

When you introduce these three themes to a date, she will feel more connected. Women highly value connection with men. That’s how they fall in love.

“Social skills are essential in the dating scene.”

Olga P

Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.