How to demonstrate confidence and date Eastern European women

Because of modern technology, a lot of people often communicate with others via texting instead of face-to-face communication these days. Consequently, many men find it hard to confidently attract women while going out for dates. When it comes to building confidence, there are two ways to achieve this: 1) Convince your mind that you are already confident, so your body actually behaves accordingly – you look confident as a result. Unfortunately, this approach takes lots of time on the psychologist’s sofa and perhaps some medication that can alleviate anxiety. 2) Train your body to immediately act confidently so that your mind can follow suit. Honestly, this is the approach that I highly recommend because oftentimes it’s easier to whip the body into shape than the brain. I’m sure you already know the basic tips: smile, stand tall, look at Eastern European women in the eye, etc. Indeed, physiology leads psychology.

How to look truly confident:

When you’re at a party, please don’t stand near the snacks or close to the wall all the time. You’d better directly walk to the center of the room where all VIPs stand instinctively.

In other words, you are supposed to take more space and have your presence whenever you are in a room with other people. This is especially important in a social context.

Also, when you’re going through a big door, please don’t walk on one side. I’d like you to walk straight through the middle because this indicates true confidence.

Another example is when you are sitting in a restaurant, you would be well-advised to take the seat at the end of the table which is facing the door because that’s the power position (unless there is already an established hierarchy and you can’t sit there).

When you are having a meeting at work, you can sit in the highest chair (or even on the arm of the sofa); however, you shouldn’t look higher than your boss, of course.

Remember: confident men’s bodies always occupy more space, so you can make more fluid and large movements. Note that shy men take as little space as possible, and when shy men take more space, their behavior signifies “Sorry for taking up so much space.” In contrast, confident men are not apologetic in this regard.

According to American author Leil Lowndes, confident men always keep their hands away from their faces and they never fidget, so you should try this technique as well!

Another pro tip: When you agree with your Eastern European woman, please nod your head up from neutral (i.e., jaw parallel to the ground), not down. 

When you walk, swing your arms more significantly so you’ll look like a leader. When you are walking towards an Eastern European woman and passing, you should be the last person to break eye-contact. This implies core confidence. When you are sitting down, try putting one arm up on the back of a chair, and then lean back with your arms up occasionally & your hands behind your head – this is exactly what Don Draper does!

Basically, when you move like a confident person all day long, gradually your mind will strongly believe that you are already a confident man.

How to master great eye-contact:

When you are on the first date with an Eastern European woman, after you have sincerely smiled, please silently say, “I love you” to her. Now your eye contact looks very confident and extremely natural at the same time because of the following factors:

First of all, the amount of time that it takes for you to silently say “I love you” is exactly the amount of time that your eye-contact is supposed to last. If the eye contact lasts for too long, you are simply staring at her – that’s creepy.

Second, when you are silently saying “I love you”, you have a warm and approachable facial expression. Please note that your mind cannot say “I love you” when your body language says “I’m intimidated by your attractiveness.”

Last but not least, silently saying “I love you” keeps your mind from saying, “I’m not sure if you are attracted to me or not, so now I’m quite nervous.”

Of course, after practicing this technique for a while, your eye contact will be good enough. Hence, you won’t need to keep silently saying “I love you” anymore. 😉

“Have you mastered good eye contact before the first date?”

Olga P

Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.