In this blog post, I’m going to share with you several highly effective yet pretty simple conversation techniques that you can use on a daily basis to improve your communication results with Ukrainian women.
- Practice your conversation skills in your daily life.
In fact, if you really think about this, you’ll notice that in your daily life there are many opportunities for you to practice your communication skills, but most people don’t really use these opportunities. Thus, this is where you should change your mindset and approach. Tomorrow morning when you buy a coffee, please use this opportunity to make an offer of interesting conversation which means you share something about yourself and then you’ll see whether the other person would like to join the conversation or not. What you say doesn’t necessarily need to be fascinating because even basic information about why you buy the coffee can work pretty well, too. Here are some examples:
- “I can’t believe I’ve done so much work already and it’s only 10am for my first coffee today.”
- “Today is so hot. I need a smoothie.”
- “Hot chocolate is exactly what I need on a cold day like this.”
This exercise is twofold: A) You give somebody a chance to connect with you. B) You are testing whether the other person is socially open. Please remember that if the other person isn’t socially open, there is nothing wrong with you – it only means that person doesn’t feel like chatting in that moment. That’s all. 😊
Note that the ability to test and see how open a person is and to continue the conversation by sharing some information are both important when it comes to having conversations with Ukrainian women.
- Hone your conversational skills by talking about a particular topic for at least one minute.
Truthfully, many Ukrainian women are a bit shy, so a typical lady from Ukraine probably wouldn’t offer much to the interaction until she feels safe and comfortable when she is chatting with you. In other words, she needs to know more about who you really are before she is ready to talk more.
My advice for you is to be more comfortable with talking about yourself as well as everyday topics in general. If you tend to depend on a lot of questions, this technique won’t work because a lady simply wouldn’t know you well enough to open up.
In my view, questions (particularly boring and logical questions) kill attraction in the interaction. Hence, you would be well-advised to develop strong skills for talking without asking too many questions so that you are able to lead an interaction.
Now please write down a list of common daily topics such as fitness, work, holidays, where you live, and so on. You can talk about each topic for one minute as a practice/exercise.
Of course, you don’t need to rehearse your answers to every topic; this is all about flexing your conversational muscles. It’s not an exam at school; it’s a very practical skill in life. The purpose of this simple exercise is to help you feel more comfortable with talking on your own initiative until a lady is comfortable enough to chat more with you.
- Learn how to create some tension in the interaction.
One way to create tension in your conversation is to pause. I know you might feel nervous when there is a pause in a conversation, but as a matter of fact, pauses can certainly work to your advantage to build tension in a conversation because that’s when you have some time for the spark to get started. 😉
The second way to create tension in an interaction is to create a cliff-hanger moment of exciting suspense. Let’s have a look at the examples below:
- “Perhaps I shouldn’t mention this, but …”
- “I guess you’ll disagree with me; however, …”
- “Don’t hate me after hearing this, yet …”
- “I think you’ll fall in love with me after telling you this …”
- “You really can’t tell anyone else about this …”
All of these sentences get a Ukrainian woman’s attention instantly because you are going to tell her something very exciting. After that, you can release the tension by adding something like the examples below:
- “… In fact, I’ve never seen anything like that in my life.”
- “… I’m sure I still like pop music in the 90s.”
- “… Well, I reckon that’s not surprising at all.”
Now you have created the seesaw effect which builds tension and then releases tension in the conversation. This is exactly how you hone the golden and powerful skill of playfulness on a date.
By the way, you don’t have to talk to a Ukrainian woman in order to practice the above-mentioned skills because these skills could be practiced everywhere, even when you are hanging out with your co-workers during a Happy Hour on Friday afternoon.
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“Your conversation skills will take your love life to the next level.”
Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
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