How to nurture a serious long-term relationship with a Slavic woman

A couple may discuss their feelings as if they were facts. Consequently, the conversation becomes a debate. That’s pretty much how conflict arises in a relationship. To help you improve the quality of your romantic relationship with a Slavic woman, I’d like to offer you several listening skills in communication.

With your Slavic woman, listen to understand

Many people aren’t very good at listening in romantic relationships. Whenever they listen to their partners, they tend to listen for counterarguments and flaws. As a consequence, their relationships become stressful.

I highly encourage you to listen to understand your partner. When you come from a place of understanding her, she feels that the connection in this relationship is strong. Because she feels understood by you, she feels closer to you as well.

Don’t focus on being right. Do you want to be right or happy? Please focus on what might be right about what she is saying. Never make mental notes of everything you want to refute when it’s your turn. A happy love life doesn’t work like that.

When you are having a difficult conversation with your partner, you would be well advised to use reflective listening skills such as “Let’s see if I fully understand. I think you are saying XYZ. Am I right?”

Then the Slavic woman will tell you whether you’ve got it or not. If she says you’ve got some of it, you need to ask her, “Is there more that I should understand?” As a result, she will explain how she feels more, and you should validate her, “What you’ve told me makes complete sense.” Now it’s time for you to empathize while sharing what you imagine she might be feeling.

Practice joint storytelling with your Slavic woman

If you are really keen to improve your long-term relationship with a Slavic woman, you may consider an activity called joint storytelling. Indeed, when I listen to a couple telling the story of how they met each other, how they fell in love, how they got married, the honeymoon they had together, the birth of their first baby and the difficulty they overcame. I learned so much about their dynamics, their history as well and interesting parts of these experiences which made them who they are today.  

So, why not practice joint storytelling with your partner? You can ask each other to tell an old story from a new viewpoint, e.g., how would a complete stranger in the background tell the old story?  

Thoughtful speaking makes you an impressive thinker; hardcore listening makes you an attractive partner. A happy guy is always a more attractive guy in international dating! If you are ready for international dating, please don’t hesitate to join Ukraine Brides Agency today and start your journey right now.

Olga P

Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.