How to survive a crisis in relationship

If you understand that now your relationship is not going through the best period, you should think about how to save them.

You should not act alone, but with your lady. It should be understood that any couple is facing a crisis in relations. It’s just that someone is making efforts and working on themselves, but someone does not want to strain and part. What can you do to keep the relationship?

1. BE HONEST

If you are extremely honest, you will show that you trust her. And do not be afraid to open your most vulnerable parts. Tell her everything you think about, and what feelings you are experiencing at the moment. This will make a huge impact on your future relationship. You do not have to pick words, because the main requirement for such a conversation is sincerity. Do not blame your lady for anything, but only talk about your feelings and emotions that you are trampling at the moment when she is doing something wrong.

2. WORK TOGETHER

Very many couples broke up because it was more important for them to defend their case, and not to admit mistakes and come together to a compromise. It is necessary to understand, if you are in a relationship, you will make certain concessions. If you want to be together, you need to work out a common strategy and follow it.

3. MAKE A DECISION

This is one of the most difficult steps. You will need to make such a decision, with which you will agree. You should find such a way out of the situation that would suit you and your lady at the same time. The two of you should understand that to find a compromise is not to give up your own opinion. This is to find a mutually beneficial solution.

4. LEARN TO FORGIVE

It is necessary to sincerely forgive a woman for what she did to you. For all the negative emotions that you experienced, for all quarrels and scandals. For all the unpleasant words she told you. It’s clear that you cannot just forget all this. And do not take such as the norm. You just have to let go of all the emotions that this situation causes you and forgive your girlfriend. Yes, she made a mistake. But you both have already learned from this lesson. Do not get hung up, move on.

5. MOVE ON

If you have already determined what exactly your problem was, you just need to act according to your plan. This must be a mutual decision. You must do everything synchronously. If only one person tries, nothing will work out.

6. SET THE BOUNDARIES

Of course, you no longer hold evil against each other. But you need to discuss what you will not allow anymore. For example, you are terribly annoying when she raises her voice at you. Do not be afraid to tell her about it openly and emphasize that you will not tolerate this anymore.

7. WHO WANTS TO CHANGE?

If the goal is that you no longer want to be nervous. And you dream that you are left alone, then you are not ready to change. You will simply, as before, control your lady and her behaviour. And for relationships, this will not progress. This will only exacerbate all your problems.

8. FIND TIME FOR COMMUNICATION

Do you remember your first meetings when you just started dating? How did you get involved in each other, how you did not want anything else, but how to be close? It is very important to learn how to keep this atmosphere after a certain time spent together. Try to communicate as much as possible with her, ask about her life, work, hobbies. Show that you are really interested. Thus, you will establish new boundaries in your relations, which will try not to pass. When is it worth trying to maintain a relationship? A long relationship means that you really love each other. You just need to accept the fact that a crisis in a relationship is normal. It happens even in couples that seem ideal at first sight. If you understand that this relationship no longer brings you pleasure, do not continue them. Honestly talk to the girl, tell me about everything that does not suit you. Sometimes parting means making the right decision.

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Olga P

Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.