How to impress Eastern European ladies in the right way

If you feel a bit anxious while talking to a woman that you like, be sure to read this article carefully! 

• Eastern European ladies like natural conversations.

When a woman feels like a man treats her very, very differently just because she is a beautiful lady, she might feel uncomfortable as that isn’t natural at all. Here is why –

Firstly, if you treat a woman very differently simply because she is attractive, it only means you haven’t met many beautiful women before. No wonder you are excited about speaking with this lady.

Secondly, this woman hasn’t proven herself to you yet, but you’re treating her differently already. This doesn’t make sense.

Thirdly, you know nothing about her personality at this stage, yet you’re assuming she is cool due to her good looks.

Hence, you have to let go of the fact that she is beautiful. In truth, good-looking women are everywhere & good looks are subjective. What you think is good-looking other men may think is really average.

Incidentally, this lady didn’t wake up in the morning and think…, “Wow. I’m beautiful.” Actually, she probably woke up thinking about her work, her cat, her brother, her phone, and so on.

Realistically, an Eastern European lady would only want to date a guy after he has already connected to her on an emotional level. ?

• How to develop an emotional connection:

When you connect with an Eastern European lady, you get the date. Step 1 is to be sure to talk to her like a normal person. Just relax. 

Step 2 is to connect with the lady through finding some commonality. Maybe you both love lo-fi music? Perhaps you both like art? These are great; however, more importantly, you have to connect to her about who you are as what you like is quite basic.

“You love hot chocolate? Wonderful. My favorite drink is hot chocolate, too.” – This is all right.

“Yes. I also feel like that. When I have some spare time at home, I write in my journal. This relaxes me and gives me time to work on myself. Writing journal entries is a type of meditation. I like it.” – This is much better as you relate to who she is as an individual. You share the same feelings.

What’s more, you should identify compatibility as well, for not all personality types can blend well. Simply because she is attractive doesn’t mean the romantic relationship will be okay.

Please find out what this woman does in her free time, as this shows her values. In a healthy relationship, your value system and her value system have to be compatible. Moreover, comfort has to be present in a good relationship. You would be well-advised to make your Eastern European lady feel very comfortable physically as well as emotionally. This can be done via giving her enough space, e.g., standing or sitting a meter back from her until she actually feels comfortable for you to get a bit closer to her. Additionally, you should make your lady feel that she is able to talk freely without judgement. When you notice her not telling you the whole story, it usually means she doesn’t want to be judged. Take a look at this conversation below – 

HER: “I went to the United States when I was 21 years old…. Well, never mind. It doesn’t matter.”

HIM: “So, I’m curious. It’s perfectly fine if your trip to the US was not the best in the world. I wouldn’t judge you.”

Last but not least, you are supposed to be interesting and interested at the same time. By that I mean you need to show your interest in her life; meanwhile, you also need to be interesting enough. Have a look at this conversation below – 

HIM: “Well. Why I started that project is a long story. I will save the story for our second date.” (Suddenly, you’ve become interesting and mysterious, so she wants to see you again on the 2^nd date!)

“Be natural and relaxed on the date – this develops the emotional connection organically.”

Olga P

Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.