Effective communication is powerful in any relationship but possibly most so in an international relationship. In the following paragraphs, I’d like to share with you some advice regarding how to improve your communication skills while dating online and building a relationship!
- It is your responsibility to communicate with your lady well.
You are fully responsible for your happiness. It is your responsibility to effectively communicate with her in your relationship. Therefore, please always avoid the childish phrase “It’s not my fault” whenever there is a problem. Instead, you can say, “I can see how it may look that way.” Now your lady might feel slightly sheepish about the situation, so she can’t really blame you!
An effective handles problems in any relationship tactfully. Whenever there is an issue, they would try their best to come up with solutions rather than excuses. If you’ve made a mistake in your relationship, please consider solutions before bringing it up in your conversation with your lady.
Of course, if you’d like to discuss something challenging with your lady, you would be well-advised to choose a time when she is in a good mood – in this way, she is more likely to be supportive. 😊
At the dating stage, you and your lady need some time to get to know each other and then become compatible. If something that she does bothers you, you should address that with her by saying something along the lines of, “This is a bit awkward. Nevertheless, there is something that I’d like to ask you. I hesitate to bring it up. But when we go out, could you please find a way not to be late for our date?” Just say it very pleasantly and then explain why that bothers you non-accusatorily. Keep your body language and facial expression warm, but your message is firm and clear. You can even add, “Maybe only I find it disturbs, and I do apologize for this.” Now chances are she will accept what you’ve said willingly and happily.
- How to handle disagreements like a pro and become an effective, peaceful communicator:
In every relationship, disagreements are inevitable. If there is a disagreement in your international relationship, please try the following techniques:
“You have made a fascinating point, Anna.” Long pause, and then you continue with your viewpoint.
“This is so insightful, Anna.” Pause, and then you continue with your view.
“Yes, I totally understand how you would see it this way, Anna.” Pause, and then you continue with your opinion.
“Indeed, that’s a very intriguing way to look at the situation, Anna.” Pause, and then you continue with your sentiment.
“Right. I know you have given this much thought already, Anna.” Pause, and then you continue with your conviction. Please note that the long pause gives her some time to reflect on what is being discussed before she hears your conclusion, (and mentioning her name makes her feel closer to you). That means you give her a brief moment of silence to enjoy your positive response before telling her why you disagree with her.
Remember that if a relationship is right for both of you, you wouldn’t have too many disagreements. And even if they do happen, shouldn’t feel difficult to smooth over. Start looking for the right international relationship with Ukraine Brides Agency today! Register with us and watch the world of love open before your eyes! 😊 UkraineBridesAgency.com gives you the opportunity to meet very genuine Ukrainian ladies online via video/audio chat and translation services.
Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
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