There are two master keys to a good international relationship: 1) filling your own cup first; 2) maintaining curiosity.
Why you should fill your own cup first in an international relationship
Because women prefer independent, strong men who can protect women when women are dating men, in their subconscious minds they’re thinking, “I hope I won’t need to look after him.” That’s actually why a lot of women are attracted to bad boys. A bad boy takes care of himself, so when a bad boy is asking, “How are you?” he is literally asking, “How am I?”
Well, you certainly don’t need to become a bad boy to be a desirable guy. You just have to know how to fill your own cup before beginning a relationship!
Some key ways to fill your cup first
- Stick to your standards
- Have clear boundaries.
- Have honest conversations with your lady.
- Know what you want.
- Know how to ask for what you want cleanly and clearly.
If you are not sure exactly what kind of standards you should have, how to set boundaries in love, how to have candid conversations with a woman, how to clarify what you want, and how to communicate your needs to a woman, please watch this space because I share insights and techniques on this blog regularly.
Why you should remain curious:
Frankly, assuming you know everything about your lady is bad for a romantic relationship, as that only indicates boredom and stagnation in love.
By contrast, maintaining curiosity is one of the master keys to a great relationship. For instance, all of a sudden, Troy’s girlfriend says, “I’m going to do a dance class next week.” Now Troy begins to be more curious about her, and he is thinking, “Hmmm. There is something about this woman that I don’t know.”
Be curious about your lady. And you’ll surely have a good relationship.
Talking about Troy’s romantic relationship, here’s one step higher than simply being curious about his girlfriend:
Girlfriend: “I’m going to do a dance class next week.”
TROY: “You go; I will watch. I will sit there and watch you dance. You won’t know where I’ll sit.”
In other words, just play with this because this is where you get an exciting experience in a long-term relationship; the ambiguity and the unknown create excitement.
Indeed, in a healthy international relationship, you truly want the same lady to be the anchor and the wave. You want her to be the lady with whom you have predictability, commitment, and stability. Also, the lady with whom you have surprise, exploration, novelty, mystery, and awe.
Yes, you need to recognise the major difference between love and desire. You need to preserve desire in an international relationship by intriguingly seeing each other using curiosity and mystery.
At times, you would be well-advised to revive a relationship by chasing new experiences together or taking risks with your lady.
International dating has so many benefits, so please don’t miss out on this type of romance.
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Olga loves travelling and learning about different cultures. She enjoys taking photos, trying new foods, and spending time outdoors. A skilled writer, Olga is a language enthusiast as well. She enjoys meeting new people from around the world and trying out new recipes in her kitchen.
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