UBA Team is tremendously happy
to announce a new happy couple. Aliona and David fell in love at first sight,
at the first meeting. What a coincidence! They felt so comfortable with each
other. However, the relationship is a hard daily job which requires a lot of
efforts and patience.
How did it start?
After 15 minutes, at the
meeting, the consultant who accompanied them decided that he was unnecessary in
their love atmosphere. Aliona immediately in the same evening expressed words
of gratitude and happiness that fate brought them together. Moreover, despite
the large distance, the difference in time, they are so identical, they feel
each other at a glance, David is very warm and anxiously caring for Aliona.
However, a couple, a day later in Kiev, they went to meet Alina’s children and
mother, the children were delighted with David, spoke English, and most
importantly, they wished them happiness, because what could be more important
than their mother’s smile and full of love eyes. It was tremendously difficult
for Aliona to let David go back to the USA. Nevertheless, the couple is
preparing all the documents for moving to America. More relevant, David will
soon take Alena and her children to America.
What a fantastic couple. You
may watch the video of their love story and also wish them all the best. We believe
2019 brings more amazing happy stories.
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Lots of men struggle with what to text a
lady and how to communicate effectively with her. Moreover, most of men have no
idea what to do after they get a phone number of a lady.
Just think about it. You really only have that first interaction with a lady, the time you actually get her number, to give her your best impression. If you correspond with the letters on dating sites you have to learn how to grab her attention. However, to text a lady you like, you just have to learn how to flirt without coming on too strong.
Here are some essential tips you better learn to have a great conversation with your lady:
Be original. Try to send your lady a text that not just any man could send. Do not just say hi or send her a weird emoticon. Find a way to make her smile or to pick her interest. Do whatever you have to do to make her think: “Hey, there is something special about this guy. I want to keep talking to him”. Here are some ways to be original: – Charm her with your wit. – Make her laugh. – Tell her something she has not heard before.
Ask a good question. A question is a great place to start because then your woman will know that you are waiting for an answer. – Ask about her day or her week. – Make sure the question is something she can easily answer. – Keep it simple. Just one short sentence can communicate a large message.
Watch your grammar. You should make sure to watch your spelling and punctuation before you text the lady.
Do not try too hard. If you are trying too hard when you are first texting a woman. She will be able to tell right away. Remember to be yourself and do not go out of your way to say something that does not even sound like you just because you think it will impress her.
Keep her attention. Be engaging. Show your woman that you are capable of keeping up a fun conversation over the phone. Your goal in texting the woman you like is giving her just a sliver of your personality and make her want more.
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Have
you ever been stumped about what to do on a date night? Well, we have your
back. We prepared some good date night ideas for you and your lady.
However, there are two main questions that you need to answer:
1.
What are you going to do on your date?
2.
Where are you going to go?
So
here are some ideas for your date night:
1.
You can invite your lady to your place. You can cook for her a nice dinner and
have a movie marathon together.
2.
Go to the beach or to the park. You can rent bikes and have a little ride
through the park. Also, you can crab a bottle of fine wine and snacks, and have
a picnic there, watching the sunset.
3.
Visit a museum or some art gallery that you both show interest in. Both of you
will have a lot talk about.
4. Go and check out a new part of the city. Consequently, maybe there are some parts of the city that you do not explore very often. So you and your lady might take a little walk and explore new areas.
5. You can go to a new café or restaurant and grab a coffee there. Or you can invite your lady to a fancy restaurant and have a nice dinner there. This date will be rather romantic.
6.
You can invite your lady to some game, for example a Baseball game.
7.
You can go to the water park or you can play ping pong together. You can choose
many other activities to do. Maybe you and the lady are both interested in
sports or etc.
Nevertheless, the most important is for you to keep it casual, so that it is fun both for you.
You spend so much time and energy searching your beloved person, reading profiles, crafting good messages. So when a girl finally replies, you’re having an ongoing conversation, it feels like total success. And it is!
But what if you ask her to meet…and she says, “not yet”? What if you are the only one keeping the communication going?
Maybe she is just looking for attention, or not really interested in meeting someone for real. Do not let her waste your time. You deserve to find a lady who is excited to meet you in person.
So what has changed in the world of online dating since? We have got fancier and more sleek looking aspps and websites as opposed to clunky chatrooms. Surely, one of the things any online dater would want to know is what type of first contact message is the most likely to draw a positive response. Should it be humorous, should it be factual, or should you just introduce yourself?
Further, exactly how much should you say about yourself in this message?
So, what not to message a girl online and how to increase your chances of reply to your messages?
Pay some attention to what the recipient has said in their profile description to show that you have actually taken an interest in them. Do not just send generic messages. Our site allows users to respond by sending introduce letters and nudges, although this type of communication may also be perceived as low-effort or generic.
Do not just make a statement in your message. Ask a question. Asking a question allows someone to respond, which is more difficult with a statement. And use the recipient’s name – it’s friendlier.
Be honest about yourself. We know that it is easy to establish a degree of rapport by saying you have similar interests to someone else, but there is really no point saying that you share an interest in collecting strange bookmarks if this is not really an interest of yours.
Also, do not write a book instead of message.
Do not cut and paste the same thing to everyone. Watch out grammatical mistakes and punctuation. Ladies like smart men.
Do not be overly sexual and aggressive.
Make sure you include a call to action or reason for her to reply.
However, we would be glad if you could take these tips into consideration.
We are sure that would help you to start your dialogue successfully.Nevertheless, this awesome article may make your communication and dates with the ladies much easier.
If you understand that now your relationship is not going through the best period, you should think about how to save them.
You should not act alone, but with your lady. It should be understood that any couple is facing a crisis in relations. It’s just that someone is making efforts and working on themselves, but someone does not want to strain and part. What can you do to keep the relationship?
1. BE HONEST
If you are extremely honest, you will show that you trust her. And do not be afraid to open your most vulnerable parts. Tell her everything you think about, and what feelings you are experiencing at the moment. This will make a huge impact on your future relationship. You do not have to pick words, because the main requirement for such a conversation is sincerity. Do not blame your lady for anything, but only talk about your feelings and emotions that you are trampling at the moment when she is doing something wrong.
2.
WORK TOGETHER
Very many couples broke up because it was more important for them to defend their case, and not to admit mistakes and come together to a compromise. It is necessary to understand, if you are in a relationship, you will make certain concessions. If you want to be together, you need to work out a common strategy and follow it.
3.
MAKE A DECISION
This is one of the most difficult steps. You will need to make such a decision, with which you will agree. You should find such a way out of the situation that would suit you and your lady at the same time. The two of you should understand that to find a compromise is not to give up your own opinion. This is to find a mutually beneficial solution.
4.
LEARN TO FORGIVE
It is necessary to sincerely forgive a woman for what she did to you. For all the negative emotions that you experienced, for all quarrels and scandals. For all the unpleasant words she told you. It’s clear that you cannot just forget all this. And do not take such as the norm. You just have to let go of all the emotions that this situation causes in you and forgive your girlfriend. Yes, she made a mistake. But you both have already learned from this lesson. Do not get hung up, move on.
5.
MOVE ON
If you have already determined what exactly your problem was, you just need to act according to your plan. This must be a mutual decision. You must do everything synchronously. If only one person tries, nothing will work out.
6.
SET THE BOUNDARIES
Of course, you no longer hold evil against each other. But you need to discuss what you will not allow anymore. For example, you are terribly annoying when she raises her voice at you. Do not be afraid to tell her about it openly and emphasize that you will not tolerate this anymore.
7.
WHO WANTS TO CHANGE?
If the goal is that you no longer want to be nervous. And you dream that you are left alone, then you are not ready to change. You will simply, as before, control your lady and her behavior. And for relationships this will not be progress. This will only exacerbate all your problems.
8.
FIND TIME FOR COMMUNICATION
Do you remember your first meetings when you just started dating? How did you get involved in each other, how you did not want anything else, but how to be close? It is very important to learn how to keep this atmosphere after a certain time spent together. Try to communicate as much as possible with her, ask about her life, work, hobbies. Show that you are really interested. Thus, you will establish new boundaries in your relations, which will try not to pass. When is it worth trying to maintain a relationship? A long relationship means that you really love each other. You just need to accept the fact that a crisis in a relationship is normal. It happens even in couples that seem ideal at first sight. If you understand that this relationship no longer brings you pleasure, do not continue them. Honestly talk to the girl, tell me about everything that does not suit you. Sometimes parting means making the right decision.
The most difficult period of any, even very strong, the relationship is conflict. As it’s known, that a peak and a very unsightly part of the conflict is the scandal, in which both sides pass to individuals and can fall into the heat of discussion to direct insults aimed at each other
Of course, both men and women bring arguments in their defense during the conflict, but these arguments do not always work. The fact is that women and men assess the arguments of the opposite side in different ways. We have some useful tips on how to avoid escalating disputes and quarrels in scandals.
LOOKING IN THE EYES
Most women and men do not want to settle disputes through passive communication like SMS, Viber or any social networks. People are ready to tell each other absolutely everything, even what they do not really think behind the back. Direct communication, in the opinion of the majority, is much more conducive to the reign of peace and tranquility.
DO NOT SAY THESE PHRASES
There are certain phrases, the utterance of which can easily turn any conflict into a scandal. And although these phrases themselves are not offensive or so, and women and men in the majority claim that the use of certain words can lead them out of balance. For the majority, these the phrases are: “You do not understand!” And “Calm down!”.
AVOID SENSITIVE TOPICS
This is the most difficult of all that can be. Here we mean, not the themes as they are, but the charges associated with these topics. Women are not able to bear when a partner accuses them of squandering or in poor housekeeping. Think before you speak.
JOINT WORK ON CONFLICT RESOLUTION
Anyway, the conflict cannot last forever. Sooner or later it needs to be finished. Men feel that they are more inclined than women to compromise during disagreements, however, women believe that twice as often as men are able to admit they are wrong.
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Many of our new members are unwilling to try our services because of negative experiences at other sites. The decision to purchase the first credit package and try us is something that causes concern – and we fully understand.
However, we want new members to at least try us and see that we are different, that we do provide the services that we espouse and that we are genuine.
Today we introduced a new first purchase package of just $5 for 20 credits. Hopefully this will encourage more members to try us and continue to use our services. Once the purchase has been made, the pricing reverts to our normal pricing.
Usually when a business introduces an initial offer it neglects to reward those who have been a member or subscriber for a long time with no reward. I get the same feeling when my subscription TV service offers a join now and pay only $5 monthly for the next 6 months, while I am watching the ad and have been paying $50 per month for the last 10 years – and I am excluded from the deal.
In fairness, we are offering the same deal to every member of our site, even if you regularly purchase credits. If you visit the purchase credits page, you will see you have been given the same offer – you can purchase a one-off 20 credit package for $5.
We hope that you take advantage of this offer and continue to enjoy using our services.
March 8th is International Women’s Day and in many countries, this is referred to as Women’s Day. It is very important to the ladies in Ukraine.
It is similar to Mothers Day that most of us in the Western world are very familiar with except that on this day it is customary for men to give the women in their lives – friends, mothers, wives, girlfriends, daughters, colleagues, etc. – flowers and small gifts.
It is celebrated annually as the UN International Day for Women’s Rights and International Peace. Historically, it has emerged as a day of solidarity of women workers in the struggle for equal rights and emancipation.
Who hasn’t got a bad date story nowadays? Going on a first date with a woman you really like can be a nerve-racking experience. You might second guess your every move or wonder what she’s really thinking about you. While every woman is different, there are a few things that should always be avoided on a first date.
Here are the top 5 things men should never do on a first date.
1. INSIST ON PICKING HER UP AT HOME
It’s great that you want to pick up your date at her home, you probably think it’s the gentlemanly thing to do, and while your intentions might be in the right place, insisting on coming to a woman’s home on the first date can really turn her off before the date has even started! In this day and age, many women prefer to meet their date at an agreed upon public location. When setting up your date, offer to swing by and pick her up, but if she resists, drop it and suggest meeting up at a restaurant instead.
2. SHOW UP LATE
No matter if you’re picking her up or meeting her somewhere, it’s important to be on time! Bonus points if you’re 3-5 minutes early! If something happens outside of your control to delay you -you’re stuck in massive traffic, or you got called into a work meeting- let her know right away with a quick and sincere text message. She’ll be much more understanding if you keep her in the loop and apologize profusely than if you just keep her waiting, wondering if you’re standing her up or not.
3. PUT NO EFFORT INTO YOUR APPEARANCE
Many men complain that they don’t know how to dress for a date or consider jeans and a slightly wrinkled t-shirt “nice”. When you reach into your closet blindly, grabbing whatever is on the floor and throw it on, don’t bother shaving or doing your hair and skip the deodorant, a woman is going to assume you don’t care very much about impressing her. It’s not about having the best personal style or model good looks, it’s about the effort you put into your appearance before a date.
4. DRINK TOO MUCH
To have a few drinks on a first date is totally fine, even encouraged…it helps the conversation flow a bit more freely! However, this doesn’t mean that you should throw back six beers and a few shots of tequila. Pace yourself and remain in control of yourself at all times.
5. TALK ABOUT SEX
…even if you’re just joking! I get it, it’s the first date and you’re attracted to her, and playfully want her to know. Talking about sexual things or constantly throwing innuendos into your conversation can backfire quickly and get you demoted from “cute” to “creep” in an instant.
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Feeling anxious about an upcoming first date? The thought of a first date can be very stressful. Don’t worry, first date nerves are completely normal.
Here are 5 tips Ways to Get Over First Date Nerves.
1. CALM DOWN BEFORE THE DATE
Going into a date feeling negative or too stressed won’t make for a good date. To help with this negativity, try to get yourself into a positive mood before going on the date. Do something before your date that makes you happy and increases your mood.
2. PLAN A SIMPLE DATE
If you tend to get first date nerves, it’s fine to keep things simple. Drinking coffee, getting drinks, or meeting for dinner are all perfect first date ideas and they take a bit of the pressure off.
3. BE CONFIDENT
Going on a date is a mutual decision, which means the other person wants to go on a date with you. This should give you a bit of confidence to help with your nerves. Try to find ways to increase your confidence as you prepare for your date so you can be your best self.
4. AVOID BEING IN UNREALISTIC WORLD.
If every date went perfectly, people wouldn’t need to date multiple people or feel worried. The reality is that some first dates are awkward, bad, or boring. That’s normal. Don’t let everything ride on this one date, and it may help lessen your nervousness.
5. FOCUS ON YOUR DATE NOT ON YOURSELF.
And listen to what they’re saying. The more time you spend getting to know your date, the less time you’ll have to worry about why you’re nervous or what could go wrong.
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