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How to Date Ukrainian Ladies Confidently

Now you have access to a large number of Ukrainian ladies. Congratulations! But… do you know how to confidently date Ukrainian women? In fact, there are three layers of confidence, according to modern psychology.

Your external confidence is more important than you think.

This layer of confidence is best characterized by how you look, how you walk, how you talk and how you carry yourself. Without external confidence, you won’t have a chance to showcase your internal confidence.

The first impression is determined by external confidence.

Therefore, instead of buying 10 cheap shirts this season, you’d better buy 2 shirts – each shirt should be more expensive & high-quality. For instance, previously you bought 10 cheap shirts from Kmart ($20 each); now you will buy 2 high-quality shirts from Hugo Boss ($100 each). In this way, you spend the same amount of money, but I can guarantee that shirts from Hugo Boss will last longer and will make you look (and feel) confident instantly.

Next, whenever you are talking to Ukrainian ladies, you will speak with certainty and clarity. Let’s have a look at the following two situations:

Situation 1:

I guess probably those could be books written by Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Christiane Northrup, and so on.”

Situation 2:

“Books published by Hay House are written by authors such as Dr. Joe Dispenza and Dr. Christiane Northrup.”

As you can see, in Situation 1, this person talks without certainty – the speaker hedges with modifying phrases frequently.

In contrast, in Situation 2, this person talks with certainty – hedging doesn’t exist.

Furthermore, you should smile, but don’t smile too much. Research shows that women tend to smile more than men do because women have been conditioned to believe that they should be liked by others from a young age. However, a study in Australia suggests that smiling too much shows less power and less intelligence. Certainly, I know this isn’t the most politically correct thing to say, but I don’t want to lie to you.

When a man smiles too much, he looks less trustworthy as well. Hence, you only smile when your smile is actually genuine – Ukrainian beauties will take you more seriously if your smile actually means something.

Remember: The higher your status, the less you need to smile. A CEO usually smiles less than a secretary does. Smiling too much lowers an individual’s authority.

Your lifestyle confidence is about where you derive your confidence from.

The second layer of confidence is about your career, your love life, your hobbies, your health, your social life, etc. That means you derive lifestyle confidence from different areas of a matrix.

When an individual only derives confidence from their career, this person is less attractive. Thus, you need to derive confidence from a wide variety of areas of your life.

So, it’s time to assess your lifestyle confidence: Do you spend 90 hours working every week? Do you believe that your love life means everything to you? Do you think you can’t live without your friends? Of course, these are all very important, but in order to achieve real confidence at this level, you’d better make sure various areas of the matrix can give you confidence and make you happy, thereby attracting Ukrainian ladies effortlessly.

For instance, if you are a workaholic, you will have to spend more time working on your health, your social life, and your love life. Do cultivate some hobbies because life is short.

If you spend too much time hanging out with your friends, it’s time to evaluate whether you should allocate more time and other resources to your career or your own business.

This isn’t about work/life balance. Certainly, it’s about building the second layer of confidence so that you will become a very attractive man that Ukrainian ladies like and admire.

Your core confidence is the most important layer of confidence.

Core confidence is also known as internal confidence. This layer of confidence isn’t affected by external factors. No matter what happens in your life, your confidence is backed up by your self-esteem and self-worth, so you truly love yourself. More relevant, a truly confident man knows his self-worth and has high self-esteem because he knows what he has to offer while dating a Ukrainian woman.

I know this is easier said than done, so I’d like to show you some examples regarding how to build core confidence.

  1. Furthermore, become an avid reader. Leaders are readers. I know reading books takes a lot of time, but if you don’t read books, you will have less powerful ideas. Note that you can listen to audiobooks when you are in the gym or commuting to/from work. You may read a book every two weeks. Most noteworthy, in this way, you will read 26 books a year. Honestly, many books aren’t very good; therefore, you should be choosier – only read books that you actually want to read and consider successful people’s recommendations. Consequently, you should read your role models’ biographies so that you will become like-minded.
  2. Hence, attend an educational seminar at least once a year. Most people spend money on toys and entertainment, but if you have decided to become a confident man that attracts Ukrainian ladies, you will want to invest in yourself. Moreover, that’s why you should attend educational seminars where you can learn more knowledge and improve yourself. Therefore, you will meet a lot of like-minded people who are also interested in personal development or business development.

Other words, have “me time” once a week. For instance, every Saturday afternoon is “me time” – that’s when you rejuvenate and work on yourself. Consequently, you can use “me time” to write in your journal and do some meditation. Meanwhile, science has proved that these activities are good for your internal confidence and self-esteem as well, so you may want to try these suggestions from now on.

“Your confidence is backed up by your competence.”

  • David

    regarding the blog on October 10, 2019 at 11.24pm by Julia K
    i disagreed but i have had been on site nearly a year yes i communicated some ladies but i met one in january and she was lovely always smiling and really full of herself on site but when we exchanged details she was different person altogether. after couple meetings together in her country and mine and after sixth meeting she wasn’t for me. her profile was a make up she said she was a romantic person but she said to you pay me and i will be romantic. i was stunned by her comments. good job
    same happens with the another lady why do they do this. they don’t need to lie be yourself it doesn’t hurt to tell the truth isn’t it,

    Reply
    • Keith

      David, thank you for your comments.
      You have contacted us many times over these issues and we have communicated with both ladies who have advised their opinions, including sending copies of correspondence between you and the lady through to us. These ladies are not a “make up” and they have explained to you the reasons. The ladies are not scammers and had every intention of maintaining a relationship.
      In both cases you were communicating off-site after meeting and/or exchanging contact details and your relationships need to be discussed between yourselves.
      It is not suitable for us to explain or share the communication in this forum.

      Reply
  • Timothy Davids

    Great article. All points are true and make sense. Hard to read 26 books per year though 🙂
    I’d add since this is an internet site, having the best possible pictures is similar to your shirt idea. One great picture is better than 10 bad pics.

    Reply
    • Keith

      Thank you for your feedback Timothy. We will make sure we have the best pictures!

      Reply

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